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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-05-06 10:39 PM
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I think I've decided I need to make some changes in my life.
Living at home is killing me. I just can't do it. I'm liking going to school, and it's in my long term best interest, but I don't think my sanity or my spirit can survive being here for years, so if I have to give up school to get away I will. I can't fucking stand these people. If we weren't related I'd never talk to them, or put up with the dismissive and emotionally abusive way they speak to me. I need to find a way out. Soon.

I don't know how I can. :cry:
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Road Scholar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-05-06 10:43 PM
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1. Good vibes your way LM,
Things are never as bad as they seem. Think it out, Don't burn any bridges. I'll be thinking of you and hoping the best for you.:pals:
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-05-06 10:46 PM
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2. Dang, LM. Hate to think of you dropping school, but I think your
sanity is #1. :hug:
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-05-06 10:46 PM
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3. Trust me, I understand completely.
:hug:
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Nicole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-05-06 10:48 PM
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4. I'm sorry
Sounds like you're in a really bad spot. I have a few family members that I would never speak to if they weren't family.

I hope you find a solution that preserves your sanity & spirit. Those are more important than school, for the time being. Once you get those back you can re-think school.

Good luck!
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-05-06 10:50 PM
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5. dude, I know where you're coming from
Same thing going on w/ my SO. He probably won't be able to commit to school full time til we move together, and he hates living at home :(

Hang in there :hug:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-05-06 10:51 PM
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6. I hope you find a way out.
And I hope it's a sustainable way out. :hug:

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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-06-06 01:43 AM
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7. Mojo rising
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speedoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-06-06 01:55 AM
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8. Bummer, friend.
Wish I could help, or advise you, but all I can do is send you ...

:hug::hug::hug:
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Rhiannon12866 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-06-06 02:05 AM
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9. I can identify, my friend.
I'm not really comfortable being around my mother, nor my brother. My mother is overbearing and my brother is abusive, and both Freepers who don't approve of me. Just because we're related to people is no reason to be near them. I like the rest of my family a lot, miss my father and my grandmother everyday. But you don't go into specifics. Is there any reason that you have to be with them? I did it for far too long, when I was ill, and my heart goes out to you. If you don't have to and can still go to school, move on, my friend. :hug:
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