HEyHEY
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Thu Nov-16-06 06:30 PM
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Finally told the "non-girlfriend" she is now my "ex-girlfriend." The fatalistic, "I want to be together, I just don't know when" conversations finally got to me. So, last night when she began, I just said, "I really want to be with you. But I am going to see other people." She was shocked, and upset. And it hurt to hurt her. But, enough's enough. My own mental health was being compromised too much. And I told her if she comes to a decision that she want's me all she has to do is call and I'll be her's instantly. I'm going to see her this weekend, so it'll be good healing time. Then, next weekend... I become a male slut. I shall be searching for nothing more than meaningless, cheap sex. It'll be great.
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Thu Nov-16-06 06:32 PM
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1. I hear the sex is pretty cheap around Main and Hastings. |
HEyHEY
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Thu Nov-16-06 06:33 PM
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2. I'm moving to Quebec and 14th |
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Thu Nov-16-06 11:09 PM
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3. hmm, I've heard this before! |
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we'll wait for the Guys gone wild video. ;)
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HEyHEY
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Fri Nov-17-06 12:55 AM
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13. Malewhoretown here i come! |
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Thu Nov-16-06 11:11 PM
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I'm sorry.
I worry about you...I don't know that you're doing yourself any favors telling her if she decides she wants you that you'll still be there.
Have fun with the meaningless sex, though. Just remember to use protection. :)
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Thu Nov-16-06 11:41 PM
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9. I think I'm with you on that |
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Fri Nov-17-06 09:34 AM
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Edited on Fri Nov-17-06 10:00 AM by raccoon
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Thu Nov-16-06 11:14 PM
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5. Just remember to wear... |
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...well, you know... bundle up! ;-)
Hey...I've heard it's cold in Canada!
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Thu Nov-16-06 11:24 PM
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6. Super! There are far too few men out there looking for |
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cheap and meaningless sex. :eyes:
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Thu Nov-16-06 11:25 PM
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7. there's nothing wrong... |
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with meaningless sex as long as both parties are up front that that's what they're looking for. It's when people aren't honest about what they want that things get unpleasant.
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Thu Nov-16-06 11:37 PM
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I'm thinking more of HEyHey and whether that's exactly where he wants to be right now.
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Fri Nov-17-06 12:58 AM
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Edited on Fri Nov-17-06 01:04 AM by HEyHEY
After all I've done I deserve to be given atonement for just wanting to be a pig.
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Fri Nov-17-06 09:04 AM
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17. Oink oink my good man! |
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Thu Nov-16-06 11:42 PM
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I'm sorry hon. And confused. And sorry.
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Thu Nov-16-06 11:47 PM
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Good for you for letting it go....
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Thu Nov-16-06 11:50 PM
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12. It's good that you are standing up. |
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I hope that either some commits to a relationship with you, or you find one with someone else.
Either way, I hope you have what you need soon. :)
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Fri Nov-17-06 01:02 AM
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Sometimes, leaving is all you can do.
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Fri Nov-17-06 01:04 AM
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It really is. I wanted to be there with her through all this shit she's going through. But, due to my own mental problems that isn't possible. I wish to god it was. She understands that though.
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Fri Nov-17-06 09:10 AM
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18. be sure and tell the new ones that ALL you are looking for is |
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cheap meaningless sex--let me know how that works for ya:P
i will never understand guys:eyes:
but, i want the best for you and i hope you find what you are looking for:hug:
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Fri Nov-17-06 09:19 AM
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From time to time, it's a good idea to focus on yourself, the things you need.
Remember that. :thumbsup:
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Fri Nov-17-06 09:26 AM
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20. You have to do what your heart tells you |
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and usually that is the right decision.
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Fri Nov-17-06 09:36 AM
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Edited on Fri Nov-17-06 10:31 AM by Little Wing
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