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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 06:30 PM
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Well, finally ended it.
Finally told the "non-girlfriend" she is now my "ex-girlfriend."
The fatalistic, "I want to be together, I just don't know when" conversations finally got to me.
So, last night when she began, I just said, "I really want to be with you. But I am going to see other people."
She was shocked, and upset. And it hurt to hurt her. But, enough's enough. My own mental health was being compromised too much. And I told her if she comes to a decision that she want's me all she has to do is call and I'll be her's instantly. I'm going to see her this weekend, so it'll be good healing time.
Then, next weekend... I become a male slut. I shall be searching for nothing more than meaningless, cheap sex. It'll be great.
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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 06:32 PM
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1. I hear the sex is pretty cheap around Main and Hastings.
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 06:33 PM
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2. I'm moving to Quebec and 14th
So I'll be close
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 11:09 PM
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3. hmm, I've heard this before!
we'll wait for the Guys gone wild video. ;)


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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-17-06 12:55 AM
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13. Malewhoretown here i come!
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 11:11 PM
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4. oh honey
I'm sorry.

I worry about you...I don't know that you're doing yourself any favors telling her if she decides she wants you that you'll still be there.

Have fun with the meaningless sex, though. Just remember to use protection. :)
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 11:41 PM
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9. I think I'm with you on that
:)
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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-17-06 09:34 AM
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21. ... nt
Edited on Fri Nov-17-06 10:00 AM by raccoon
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 11:14 PM
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5. Just remember to wear...
...well, you know... bundle up! ;-)

Hey...I've heard it's cold in Canada!
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 11:24 PM
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6. Super! There are far too few men out there looking for
cheap and meaningless sex. :eyes:
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 11:25 PM
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7. there's nothing wrong...
with meaningless sex as long as both parties are up front that that's what they're looking for. It's when people aren't honest about what they want that things get unpleasant.
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 11:37 PM
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8. Of course not.
I'm thinking more of HEyHey and whether that's exactly where he wants to be right now.
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-17-06 12:58 AM
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14. Huh?!
Edited on Fri Nov-17-06 01:04 AM by HEyHEY
After all I've done I deserve to be given atonement for just wanting to be a pig.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-17-06 09:04 AM
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17. Oink oink my good man!
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 11:42 PM
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10. Well.... good?
I'm sorry hon. And confused. And sorry.
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L A Woman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 11:47 PM
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11. I feel your pain
Good for you for letting it go....
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-16-06 11:50 PM
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12. It's good that you are standing up.
I hope that either some commits to a relationship with you, or you find one with someone else.

Either way, I hope you have what you need soon. :)
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-17-06 01:02 AM
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15. Good luck!
Sometimes, leaving is all you can do.
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-17-06 01:04 AM
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16. Yeap
It really is. I wanted to be there with her through all this shit she's going through. But, due to my own mental problems that isn't possible. I wish to god it was. She understands that though.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-17-06 09:10 AM
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18. be sure and tell the new ones that ALL you are looking for is
cheap meaningless sex--let me know how that works for ya:P


i will never understand guys:eyes:


but, i want the best for you and i hope you find what you are looking for:hug:

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Robb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-17-06 09:19 AM
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19. Take care
From time to time, it's a good idea to focus on yourself, the things you need.

Remember that. :thumbsup:
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cwydro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-17-06 09:26 AM
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20. You have to do what your heart tells you
and usually that is the right decision.
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Little Wing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-17-06 09:36 AM
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22. .
Edited on Fri Nov-17-06 10:31 AM by Little Wing
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