Our cat died tonight.

[FedUpWithIt All]

I am in a terrible state of shock and pain. He was two years old. He had been under the weather for a couple of days but looked as if he was on the mend. I planned to take him in for a check up tomorrow. I found him today. My family has spent the past 4 hours mourning.

My kids are devastated. He was my fourteen yr olds best friend in the world. She just said, "This hurts so bad Mom. He was the thing that always made me feel better. I wish he was here to help me through this."

This is gonna take a long while to heal. Very sad day.

[Shine]

1. Ohhh, I'm soo sorry!!

We've been through that exact same thing, only with a beloved 19 yr old cat who died in my arms. It's so hard to lose a pet. I wish you and your family peace during this time of mourning. You're right, it does take time. :hug:

[auntAgonist]

2. lots of hugs and my condolences ...

they are just like family members truly loved and mourned when lost :(

:hug: :hug: :hug:

:grouphug: for you and the kids.


aA

[Floogeldy]

3. I hate that.

I've lost two dogs and two cats. So sorry, FedUpWithIt All. :(

[Haole Girl]

4. How sad...

hugs to you... :hug: :hug:

[Guava Jelly]

5. Oh fedup..I am so sorry!

I have shed many tears over lost pets.
Just try to take comfort in knowing that you gave your pet the best life you could filled with love for the short time he was here.
I lost 2 cats in the last 3 years..I cried like a baby each time.
It is a sad day..And I offer you a :hug:

[LadyoftheRabbits]

6. I'm so sorry...

:hug: I can't imagine how badly it must hurt. :hug:

[mike_c]

7. oh my, I am so sorry....

Nothing hurts more than the death of a dear friend. I'm so sorry for your loss. I want to say more, but can't find the words-- I've lost cats, and will lose more, but it never stops being a catastrophe. Cats are such lovely animals, and such valued friends.

[FedUpWithIt All]

8. ...

:grouphug: Thank you all.

[swag]

9. I am so sorry for you and your family.

Take care.

[texanwitch]

10. So sorry to hear this about your cat.

I lost a young cat not long ago, the pain is great.

Your family gave the cat a good home and I know the cat returned the love.

Peace be with your family tonight.:grouphug: :hug:

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

11. So sorry -- that's so sad.

[Redstone]

12. My condolences to you and your kids. People may say "ah, it's just an animal,"

but it truly is sad to lose a pet.

Redstone

[Presidentcokedupfratboy]

13. I'm so sorry

It's so hard to lose our pets, especially when they are so young.

My thoughts are with your family, and your daughter.

[fizzgig]

14. i am so sorry

:hug:

[jgraz]

15. So sorry

We lost our beloved cockatiel a year ago next week. We still miss him.

Don't let anyone tell you to "get over it" or that you're "overreacting". Love is love, no matter what species you share it with. Even though your cat's life was short, you should feel good that you gave him such a loving home.

It will get better. Gradually.

All the best.

[Dangerously Amused]

16. So sorry for your loss.

It is oftentimes more difficult when it comes as a surprise like that. I hope you find solace in the knowledge that you and your family gave him a lifetime of comfort and love. A kitty can't ask for more than that.


Here's a hug for you:




And a candle for kitty:






P.S. What was your kitty's name?

[FedUpWithIt All]

21. We called him Cinder.

He was a grey.

Thank you for the hug and the candle. :hug: I told the kids that he is now part of everything and will never be far from us.

[Dangerously Amused]

22. Love and peace to sweet Cinder,

...and to the lucky few whose lives he touched.


It is true, he is with you still.



:hug:

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

23. For Cinder, and for you and your kids:

Poem For Cats

And God asked the feline spirit
Are you ready to come home?
Oh, yes, quite so, replied the precious soul
And, as a cat, you know I am most able
To decide anything for myself.

Are you coming then? asked God.
Soon, replied the whiskered angel
But I must come slowly
For my human friends are troubled
For you see, they need me, quite certainly.

But don't they understand? asked God
That you'll never leave them?
That your souls are intertwined. For all eternity?
That nothing is created or destroyed?
It just is....forever and ever and ever.

Eventually they will understand,
Replied the glorious cat
For I will whisper into their hearts
That I am always with them
I just am....forever and ever and ever.

[FedUpWithIt All]

26. That is so beautiful...

:hug:

Thank you.

[ThomCat]

17. Damn, I'm sorry.

:(

I hope your daughter is okay. :grouphug:

[bertha katzenengel]

18. Oh, god. I'm so sorry, FedUp.

If you should wonder if a visit to the shelter in the next couple of weeks would be too soon, I'll tell you that in my experience it wasn't. It was the best medicine. Truly.

I am so, so very sorry. :hug:

[SammyWinstonJack]

19. !!

:hug: I am sorry. :hug:

[Whoa_Nelly]

20. So sorry

:hug: doesn't cover it all

Sending love and light

[meow2u3]

24. So sorry for your loss

Only two years old? He died so young :(

[FedUpWithIt All]

25. I am so grateful for you all...

I am off to watch a movie with my oldest. The little ones finally fell asleep a little bit ago. She is having trouble. She read all of your posts. It helps more than you know. Thank you so much.

Goodnight. :grouphug:

[mitchum]

27. I am so sorry rest in peace good kitty

my heart goes out to you
peace,
mitchum

[hopein08]

28. Awww...I'm so sorry for all of you!

Your cat was just as lucky to spend those two years with you as you were to spend it with him.

When our dog died last March, my sister's boyfriend found this poem by an unknown author and sent it to her...I think it works for precious kitties too.

“Last Night”

I stood by your bed last night, I came to have a peek.
I could see that you were crying, You found it hard to sleep.
I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
"It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."
I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached down to me.
I was with you at the shops today, Your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today, You tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I walked with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently put my paw on you, I smiled and said " it's me."
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair.
I tried so hard to let you know, that I was standing there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, "I never went away."
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning
and say "good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning."
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll rush across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you, there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...then come home to be with me.

Again, I am so very sorry.

[bluethruandthru]

29. I'm so sorry!

Cinder will always be in your hearts. He was lucky to have such a loving family. Hugs to you all! :grouphug:

[DeposeTheBoyKing]

30. I'm so terribly sorry

It's very hard to lose a beloved beastie, especially one so young. I will keep you and your kids in my thoughts and prayers.

[mykpart]

31. I'm so sorry.

I know people say get another cat right away, but I disagree. You should give yourselves time to grieve. We still don't know about my sweet calico, Lilbit.

[begin_within]

32. What was the illness?

[u4ic]

33. I am so sorry, FedUpWithIt All

Losing a cherished companion is always difficult. Hugs to you and your family. :grouphug:

[Pushed To The Left]

34. I'm sorry to hear that. Losing a pet is always tough.

I remember how emotional I was when the last cat we owned passed away. We knew it was coming, but it was very sad to say goodbye. When of my sister's cats passed away a couple years ago, and she was devastated. I'm sorry to hear about your loss
:hug:

[GoddessOfGuinness]

35. Oh no!

I'm so sorry to hear this...The death of a pet is the loss of a beloved family member to a lot of us.
When I was 13, our dear dog, who'd been with us from the time I was 3, was hit by a car. I remember how devastating it was for me, especially since I didn't really fit in with the kids in my school. I became deeply depressed. I'm sorry for what your family is going through now...especially your daughter. Grief counseling may help...
:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

[UrbScotty]

36. Oh dear

Much love to you and your family.

:hug:

[Name removed]

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[Skittles]

38. please request that your vet do a necropsy

you and your family need to know what happened

[FedUpWithIt All]

59. We have two other cats

They have no symptoms of anything but i am taking them to the vet today.
This is why i am so shocked. They are all indoor cats. They have had their shots. My older cat is nearing 14 (i rescued him when he was 5 weeks old and nursed him through and illness) and aside from being a bit distraught, is completely normal acting. Our Ollie is a little under one year old.

I am feeling guilty. I should have taken him in when i first noticed he was under the weather. In the last 14 years Autumn has had a couple of colds but always felt better after a day or two. Cinder was so young, i just never expected this.

[devilgrrl]

39. I'm so sorry.

:hug:

[hickman]

40. I am so sorry for your daughter, and you.

I have no words of wisdom. Just empathy.

[Robeson]

41. I'm so, so sorry....

...:hug: :grouphug:

[DainBramaged]

42. I've lost so many over the past 30 years

Some lived as long as 19, a few as young as your Cinder.

I remember them all, and I miss them all terribly.

I am so sad for your loss. I sit here crying too.

I only know that he'll always be with you and your family.



:cry: :hug:




http://www.catster.com/

[MissMarple]

43. A big hug for you and your family....

:grouphug: I am so sorry for your loss, and your daughter's. Our animal friends can be such very good friends.

[Lady Freedom]

44. Please remember that all cats go to heaven too!!

[ScreamingMeemie]

45. I'm so sorry Fed... These are the times when it hurts to be a Mom.

I wish I could help you make it better for your kids.

I'm so very sad and sorry for your loss. :hug: :(

[BlueIris]

46. I'm sorry.

You should take all the healing time you need.

[xchrom]

47. for your beloved companion...

Poem For Cats

And God asked the feline spirit
Are you ready to come home?
Oh, yes, quite so, replied the precious soul
And, as a cat, you know I am most able
To decide anything for myself.

Are you coming then? asked God.
Soon, replied the whiskered angel
But I must come slowly
For my human friends are troubled
For you see, they need me, quite certainly.

But don't they understand? asked God
That you'll never leave them?
That your souls are intertwined. For all eternity?
That nothing is created or destroyed?
It just is....forever and ever and ever.

Eventually they will understand,
Replied the glorious cat
For I will whisper into their hearts
That I am always with them
I just am....forever and ever and ever.

Author Unknown

[buddhamama]

48. oh, i am so sorry !

coping with the loss of our furry friends is never easy. they're family.

my heart goes out to you and yours. :( :hug:

May your Kitty be at Peace! :hug:

[meegbear]

49. I'm sorry to hear that ...

my condolences.

[Catshrink]

50. I'm so sorry...

for you and for your 14 year old. So young! :hug:

[NewWaveChick1981]

51. I'm so sorry, FedUp...

:hug: :cry: :pals: I know what that kind of pain is like. I lost a year-old puppy to parvo when I was 14, and it hurts like nothing else. :( My sympathies are with you and your family, and my heart goes out to all of you. :hug:

[City Lights]

52. I'm so sorry for your loss, FedUpWithIt All.

I went through something similar last February. My Watson (my avatar) died unexpectedly, and the shock it sent through my family - especially myself and the kids -reverberated for a long time. We still miss him terribly. :hug:

[cwydro]

53. Very sorry to hear that...

It's rough to lose an animal. To me, they are part of the family.

[Courtesy Flush]

54. I'm 47, and my cat is my best friend

So sorry for your loss. I have a cat who's very attached to me, and me to her. I know how much they enrich your life. Such good creatures.

Condolences.

[Brewman_Jax]

55. I'm sorry to hear

:cry:

[Debbi801]

56. I am very sorry for you and your family...

Losing a fur kid is tough. Sending a :hug: out to you and your daughter.

[miss_american_pie]

57. I'm so sorry

:hug:

[yellowdogintexas]

58. The 4 beasties and I send good purr vibes to you and your family

It is so sad to lose them, whether they are 17 years old or 17 months old. They work their way into your heart and an empty space has to be left when they go. Your kitty may have had something going on that gave you no signs of illness, like a heart defect (which happened to a friend of mine), or one of those blasted urinary things.

I have mourned many wonderful cats in my 58 years, lost for a wide variety of reasons. My condolences to you and yours.

[bigwillq]

60. I am very sorry for your loss.

:hug:

[QMPMom]

61. I am so sorry.

[El Fuego]

62. I'm very sorry, I've been there and I know how you feel.

:hug:

[Beer Snob-50]

63. I am so sorry! nt