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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:33 PM Original message |
would you invite your ex to thanksgiving? |
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zappa_parappa (280 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
1. Sure, if you two get along well |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:36 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. are you currently seeing anyone else? |
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zappa_parappa (280 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:40 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. well thats kinda sticky...i've kind of kept her shielded from my dating |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:45 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. so, you would invite your ex and ALSO your current? |
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zappa_parappa (280 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:48 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. Yeah, I'm talking girlfriend...if my current was coming...no, i wouldn't |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:50 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. now you're thinking-- |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:35 PM Response to Original message |
2. No |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:36 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. that is me, too |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:39 PM Response to Original message |
5. Hell no. That would be beyond ugly. But my ex isn't your ex. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:43 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. this is NOT me-- |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:50 PM Response to Reply #7 |
16. Hmmm. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:56 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. no, he did NOT invite me first but, i did NOT give him a chance-- |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:49 PM Response to Reply #20 |
34. So he's Mr. Right Now, why get worked up about it? Maybe he would have invited |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:11 PM Response to Reply #34 |
45. no problems-- |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 05:54 PM Response to Reply #45 |
79. Well, when I say act appropriately, I just mean treat each other like you're not in a real serious |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:44 PM Response to Original message |
8. Do they share kids? |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:46 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. the two daughters are theirs... |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:47 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. If they can get along in the presence of the kids |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:48 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. the kids are 22 and 17-- |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:52 PM Response to Reply #13 |
19. I don't think so |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:03 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. sure, there will always be unavoidable events but, why |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:33 PM Response to Reply #23 |
65. Because they are still a family |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:41 PM Response to Reply #65 |
69. i am not sure painful is the right word for me |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:47 PM Response to Original message |
12. No |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:49 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. not just no but HELL.NO! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:50 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. I would in fact inform the X not to come to my house on any holidays... |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:57 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. i think you and i have had some similiar experiences |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 12:59 PM Response to Original message |
22. Too many variables but generally I'd say yes |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:07 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. i have no idea what she is like but, there had to be some reason |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
25. Just make sure there is plenty of liquor |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:15 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. confusion and chaos--2 of my favorite things |
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buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
27. if you get along with him |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:33 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. hang on -- |
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buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:40 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. oops |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:15 PM Response to Reply #32 |
46. my gut feeling is that it is not a big deal |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
28. I wouldn't |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:17 PM Response to Reply #28 |
47. i know what you mean-- |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
30. My mom has invited my dad for Christmas every year and |
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speedoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 02:24 PM Response to Reply #30 |
40. What HopeLives said. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:20 PM Response to Reply #40 |
48. yes, it makes soem sense and especially since there are no |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
31. No |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:21 PM Response to Reply #31 |
49. it seems to be a NO BRAINER to me |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:29 PM Response to Reply #49 |
59. That's my style |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:43 PM Response to Reply #59 |
70. i see you went to the same of school of kiss that i attended: |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:45 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. Two less |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:54 PM Response to Reply #71 |
74. lucky you, although 4th of July is FUN |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:56 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. Meh, I don't think she gives a shit |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 05:04 PM Response to Reply #75 |
76. that's what i like about y'all-- |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
33. Fuck no. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:22 PM Response to Reply #33 |
50. thank you |
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av8rdave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
35. No, no, no, no, no |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:24 PM Response to Reply #35 |
54. somethimes NO is one of my favorite words |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
36. I personally would not |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:26 PM Response to Reply #36 |
55. thanks-- |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
37. speaking for myseLf |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:27 PM Response to Reply #37 |
56. of course there is nothing wrong with human kindness |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
38. Depends on which ex! |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:29 PM Response to Reply #38 |
58. you got it--WEIRD |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
39. Hmmm... |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:29 PM Response to Reply #39 |
60. what about your SO, would you ask them how they felt about it? |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
41. Who's cooking? |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:31 PM Response to Reply #41 |
61. HE is cooking--she is coming to his house |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
42. Why not? |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:32 PM Response to Reply #42 |
62. you have a point-- |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 03:33 PM Response to Original message |
43. THE ex? The most significant ex? The father of my oldest child? |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:23 PM Response to Reply #43 |
53. exactly-- |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
44. Yeah, if he promised to behave himself... |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:23 PM Response to Reply #44 |
52. are you currently involved with anyone and how would they |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 07:39 PM Response to Reply #52 |
83. hehe, yes.... |
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NightNurse (222 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
51. Nope. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:32 PM Response to Reply #51 |
63. you got that right!! |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
57. I don't think so |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:34 PM Response to Reply #57 |
66. well, the oddest thing to me is that he has kept all of it on the |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:37 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. I've stopped trying |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:49 PM Response to Reply #68 |
73. it IS more amusing to just sit back |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
64. I would. He's still part of the family, and I still see his dad and |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:36 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. sounds like you guys have a great |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 04:45 PM Response to Reply #67 |
72. Yeah, we do. Took some time, but it was worth it. |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
77. Yeah, I would. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
78. It always depends on the relationships |
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EdwardM (535 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
80. Never had a girlfriend. |
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CatholicEdHead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 05:59 PM Response to Original message |
81. Probably not |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
82. When I was little |
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Misskittycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-20-06 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
84. My ex from 20 years ago now lives in my house, so...yeah, I guess. n/t |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-21-06 02:49 AM Response to Original message |
85. I almost did exactly that back in 2002. |
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MoseyWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-21-06 02:57 AM Response to Original message |
86. Last year, and any of the past many years: Yes |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-21-06 03:08 AM Response to Original message |
87. Sure I would |
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mykpart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-21-06 03:52 AM Response to Original message |
88. One of the things I'm most thankful for |
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