Bullwinkle925
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Wed Nov-22-06 02:59 AM
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Read this ONLY if you have a strong stomach... |
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I just have to vent/rant............
Ahem - My hubby is doing his nightly 'clean-up' routine in his bathroom when I hear an "OH SHIT". (For those who don't know - he's battling cancer - has difficulty eating and has a PEG in place). Well - seems he has just cut his feeding tube and every time he bends over (how can I say this delicately?) stomach contents are spurting out all over the bathroom. We just had this feeding tube replaced a couple of months ago. Our Gastroenterologist is going to kill us. I don't know how many of these he's had replaced in the past 4 years. And he's supposed to have chemo tomorrow. He's EVIL on his G-Tubes. I don't know what I'm going to do with him. Now that I've cleaned up the bathroom - gave him a new set of PJ's to put on and started the laundry it's time to go to bed and I'm all riled up.
I swear - every friggin' day feels like a 'Seinfeld' episode around here. It's midnight - there's no way in hell he can have his PEG replaced before next week. What am I going to DO WITH THIS MAN????????
aarrrrghhhhhhhhhhh.
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Wed Nov-22-06 03:39 AM
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:hug:
You are amazing. That is all I can say.
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Bullwinkle925
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Wed Nov-22-06 02:09 PM
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you have to play the cards you're dealt. Poor hubby - he's always doing something - this is so typical HIM. Now his feeding tube is approximately 3" long instead of the usual 10". I swear - our Dr. is going to have a fit when we call her (yet) again. I'll let her have her Thanksgiving uninterrupted and call on Monday. Sheesh.
Have a Great Thanksgiving!
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Wed Nov-22-06 03:52 AM
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2. Remember that little "Love is..." Poem... |
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...This post proves that last line to be so very true.
"Love never fails."
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Bullwinkle925
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Wed Nov-22-06 02:12 PM
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I couldn't believe he did it! I wanted to yell "WHY DID YOU DO THAT" - but of course, it wasn't on purpose. God knows the man has enough to deal with. In retrospect - it's just another day here at the homestead.
Hope your Thanksgiving is truly fulfilling.
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Wed Nov-22-06 02:27 PM
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5. I must remember this when Mr. Gray teeters on death because he |
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put the butter in the freezer.
You rule.
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Wed Nov-22-06 03:04 PM
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9. Life hands us a bunch of lemons all the time, doesn't it? |
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We're swimming in lemonade around here. Come on over and share a glass!!
:crazy:
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Wed Nov-22-06 03:30 PM
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Wed Nov-22-06 02:32 PM
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6. We never know how strong we'll be |
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...until we have to be, do we? Take care of yourself, too, okay?
Hugs to you and your husband... :hug: :hug:
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Wed Nov-22-06 03:11 PM
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13. We're going to the cancer ctr. today for his chemo treatment. |
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We'll be seeing people there who are literally on their last legs. At least I know I still have time with him. (Unless I hit him with a frying pan first!!). :evilgrin:
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Wed Nov-22-06 02:33 PM
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7. Wow, I'm impressed with both of you |
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and a sense of humor to boot! Here's wishing you both the best.
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Bullwinkle925
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Wed Nov-22-06 03:06 PM
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I save my despair for the * Administration!!
Despite all that my hubby has gone through - he hasn't missed the opportunity to vote - and YES - he votes Democratic every time!!
WooHoo :bounce:
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Wed Nov-22-06 02:34 PM
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8. Grrrr. The indignities of the body! |
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Sounds like you're staying strong for him, in spite of everything.
Holding you both in the Light.
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Wed Nov-22-06 03:09 PM
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Something like this really 'humbles' oneself. Twenty years or so ago I would have probably yelled something like "Ewwwwww" and run out of the house.
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Wed Nov-22-06 03:06 PM
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I'm sorry you're both having a rought time. :(
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Wed Nov-22-06 04:11 PM
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