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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:15 PM Original message |
Hospice folks: My ex-husband is refusing food and water tonight... end stage cancer questions... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
1. My friend who died just last month was medicated , but refused |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
2. It really depends. |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
3. I'm so sorry |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:26 PM Response to Original message |
4. I have no idea either Radio Lady |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
5. My mother died less than 2 days after she first refused |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
6. i've been through this three times. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
7. I'm so sorry R_L... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:39 PM Response to Original message |
8. Refusal of food and water |
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jannyk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:41 PM Response to Original message |
9. We were in the same situation |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
10. Oh, RadioLady, I had no idea. My deepest sympathy to you. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 07:52 PM Response to Original message |
11. I have no advice or input to offer |
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Dangerously Amused (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
12. With Dad it was 3.5 days. |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
13. oh Radio Lady! I'm so sorry you are going through this but like most |
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Wheezy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
14. So sorry... |
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tinfoilinfor2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 08:31 PM Response to Original message |
15. Generally speaking, just a few days. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
16. With my grandmother it was several days. She was lucid and not in any pain the first two |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
17. no advice, I'm afraid, but can I offer my best wishes for you... |
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madrchsod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
18. try to keep everything as normal as possible |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
19. With my mother, it was about a week |
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Old and In the Way (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 09:50 PM Response to Original message |
20. Usually a few days, max. |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
21. Two of my aunts died of cancer and refused food and water at the end. |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 09:59 PM Response to Original message |
22. My dad survived from Thursday eve to the next Tuesday evening |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
23. Thank you EVERYONE -- I can't answer all of you individually, but your comments here mean a great... |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-23-06 11:23 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Peace to your family, Radio Lady. |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-24-06 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
25. Both of my children are flying out from their homes in PDX and SLC to |
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buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-24-06 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
26. i have no advice to offer |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-24-06 02:39 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. Appreciate your checking in Buddhamama... and those hugs! |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-24-06 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
28. As a hospice volunteer visitor, I know what you're doing and going through is rough |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-24-06 03:01 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Shine, thanks so much. I'm trying my best to labor through back pain and get |
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Mrs. Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-24-06 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
30. I'm So Sorry, RL |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-24-06 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
31. My mother... |
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