I just got rejected by a girl I wasn't that crazy for in the first place

[StrongBad]

And I'll be damned, it still hurts!!

I don't know why I care so much, I probably wouldn't have even pursued her further, but she cut me off before I could her!! The nerve :p

[CaliforniaPeggy]

1. My dear strongbad........

Rejection always hurts......

Because when you offer yourself as a potential date or whatever to someone, that makes you vulnerable.

And that vulnerability leaves you open to pain......

I'm sorry.......

Of course, being open to emotion that way also makes you vulnerable to joy.......:hug:

[StrongBad]

2. Ah, dear Ms. Peggy

Though I'm not the most prolific poster here at DU I read enough to know that you're one of the kinder people around these parts. Thanks very much for your words they are appreciated!!

[CaliforniaPeggy]

3. My dear strongbad........

Oh, thank you......

I've lived awhile, and I know a fair amount about pain....BTDT, if you will...

Whenever I can help someone who's hurting......I will do it....

There is enough pain in this life already IMHO....and not nearly enough joy!

And I appreciate your words too... :hug:

[gmoney]

4. It's an ego bruiser to be sure...

Sort of like getting turned down by your safety school...

Don't sweat it. Aim high. You might just surprise yourself.

[skygazer]

5. Egos are pretty impartial when it comes to bruising

Rejection hurts. Period. :hug: