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brer cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:07 PM Original message |
Does anyone have experience with eliminating gifts for children at xmas? |
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DoYouEverWonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
1. I had an aunt |
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LynnTheDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:09 PM Original message |
Yep. Draw names. |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
8. that's how we do it to, and it's a small $$ limit so it's a game to come |
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RagingInMiami (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
2. Why does it have to be so extreme? |
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WindRavenX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:18 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. good advice |
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morningglory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:27 PM Response to Reply #2 |
20. Good suggestion. Also, I think it would be a good idea to make |
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LynnTheDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
3. dupe |
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NOLADEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
4. If you do this, set aside the money for therapy |
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brer cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:22 PM Original message |
You are probably right about the therapy. lol |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
43. I think no gifts would be confusing because the kids are so young. |
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tridim (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:13 PM Response to Original message |
5. The same thing is happening with my nephew |
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twilight_sailing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
6. Heifer International |
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brer cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:24 PM Response to Reply #6 |
15. Wow! I haven't heard about this before. |
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twilight_sailing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:29 PM Response to Reply #15 |
25. It was new to me too. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:51 PM Response to Reply #6 |
33. I do Heifer every year |
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Jackpine Radical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
7. I would talk to them a lot about it, make them feel that they are |
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Longhorn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
9. I think they're too young to expect gifts from particular relatives. |
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twilight_sailing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:22 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. How does this part work? |
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Longhorn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:29 PM Response to Reply #13 |
24. Okay, here's how we play. |
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twilight_sailing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:31 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. That's terrific |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:53 PM Response to Reply #24 |
35. They played that on The Office |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 04:01 PM Response to Reply #24 |
55. This is fun huh? Your idea of fun? |
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Trajan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
11. I have to admit ..... |
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silverlib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:22 PM Original message |
My 2 cents... |
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brer cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
22. That is a really beautiful story, silverlib. |
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MannyGoldstein (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
12. In My Wife's Family, We Set $ Limits |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
14. They may not understand it now |
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morningglory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:24 PM Response to Original message |
16. You can have the most fab tourist spot on earth all to yourselves |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
17. A day, and this: |
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brer cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:33 PM Response to Reply #17 |
27. Thanks for sharing the links. Great ideas there! |
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surfermaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:34 PM Response to Reply #17 |
28. Try this, it worked for my grandchildren |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
18. Can't go "Cold Turkey" with kids that young, but what we did was this |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
19. I had a friend who gave her children one gift apiece |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:28 PM Response to Original message |
21. I Find Nothing Wrong With Them Receiving So Many Gifts. It Brings Much Joy To Young Children, |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
23. I think it's an overeaction to drop gifts entirely. |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
29. when my daughter was little one of my gifts to her was to let her |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:45 PM Response to Original message |
30. If you as a child had received not a single gift from a grandparent, |
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brer cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:57 PM Response to Reply #30 |
38. Actually I didn't receive any material presents from grandparents. |
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jmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 03:51 PM Response to Reply #38 |
54. My father's parents have over 100 descendants |
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SoyCat (660 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 07:11 PM Response to Reply #30 |
62. My grandmothers (had no grandfathers) rarely gave me presents and I was taught to not |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
31. That's a wonderful idea, and something the kids will appreciate |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:51 PM Response to Original message |
32. my kids have always received many gifts both christmas and bday |
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Warren Stupidity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
34. We left one of our kid's gifts home once. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:55 PM Response to Original message |
36. Lots of good advice in this thread |
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brer cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:12 PM Response to Reply #36 |
42. We are VERY careful not to criticize our children |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:38 PM Response to Reply #36 |
47. We did this with birthdays.. They got to take as many friends as their age |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
37. When I was that age I used to get a lot of XMAS gifts |
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Infomaniac (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 01:57 PM Response to Original message |
39. We solved this one in my family... |
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brer cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:04 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. "My younger nephews learned to write lovely thank you notes |
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Sweet Freedom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
41. My daughter gets a lot of gifts too |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:22 PM Response to Original message |
44. How about journals and art supplies for gifts... |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
45. the worst thing is showering them with toys |
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brer cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:51 PM Response to Reply #45 |
50. We will try again to get some of the relatives to do more |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:33 PM Response to Original message |
46. Home made gifts |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
48. Good thread |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
49. How about exchanging the gift...of service? |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
51. Don't forget the kids gift-giving... |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
52. I had the same problem with two nephews. |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
53. When I was a kid (I am 27 now) my parents were too poor to buy me Christmas gifts. |
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jmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
56. Kids are more resilient than people give them credit for. |
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mentalsolstice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 05:13 PM Response to Original message |
57. We eliminated our 36y.o. niece last year and she had a fit! |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 07:58 PM Response to Reply #57 |
64. I fully understand why you chose not to give her a gift |
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mentalsolstice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 11:57 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. We don't have children either... |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
58. grab bag? |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
59. I used to give expensive gifts to my nephew... |
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elfin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 06:44 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. I always give books or fun jigsaw puzzles about things they like |
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brer cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 10:02 PM Response to Reply #59 |
66. That's partly what we are trying to avoid! |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 06:52 PM Response to Original message |
61. Grinch. |
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Fuzz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
63. My two daughters are the only kids on both sides of the family |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-26-06 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
65. There are several problems here: |
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