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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 01:21 PM
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My husband's cousin died on Thanksgiving.
Don't know many details at this point but it was definitely drug-related. 23 years old. He would have been 24 on Christmas Eve. His dad was with him..right along side him doing it too apparently..took him a while to realize the kid was dead. They are out in Denver. The kid had gone out there to be with his dad. It's been nothing but trouble ever since. All the family (at least the family that gives a shit about the kid) are back here in Iowa. Damn. What a waste.
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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 01:22 PM
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1. I'm so sorry
:hug:
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 01:55 PM
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3. Thanks M_A_P.
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Bassic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 01:44 PM
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2. That is so sad.
My condolences to you and yours.
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 01:57 PM
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4. Appreciate it Bassic...
We're all still just reeling. It's just such a waste.
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 01:59 PM
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5. i am very sorry,
how tragic, just awful. he was so young. my sincere condolences to the family. :hug:
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 02:05 PM
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6. thanks buddhamama...
he's had a pretty messed up life..both his mom and dad are burnouts. His dad took off when he was a baby, and the mom was happy to dump him with anyone she could, so he's been shuffled around amongst the aunts and uncles in the family most of his life. He was always a little wild, but basically a good kid who just needed some stability.When he turned eighteen he decided he was going to "find his dad" and he thought he'd have it made. Every since he hooked up with his dad out in Colorado he's been in trouble constantly, and now this. Damn.
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 02:07 PM
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7. i'm so sorry
hugs to you and your family
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 02:08 PM
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8. thank you kagehime.
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livetohike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 02:17 PM
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9. My sympathy to you and the family youthere
:hug: This is so sad. I hope everyone will come to a peace with this in time.
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 05:43 PM
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16. I hope so too..thanks livetohike.
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 02:17 PM
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10. I'm so sorry.
:hug:
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 02:18 PM
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11. That is so tragic...
:hug: :cry: That's such a terrible waste. :pals: I'm so sorry for you, your husband, and all the family members involved.
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 05:44 PM
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17. thank you nwc1981..It's just so unbelievable. It's like it isn't real.
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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 02:19 PM
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12. I'm so sorry...
I can't imagine the pain.

:hug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 03:05 PM
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13. God that's awful.
I hope he finds some peace. His father won't.
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 05:47 PM
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18. I just keep seeing him as this ...
mouthy kid who drove you crazy and made you laugh like hell at the same time. I just can't believe he fell so far.
His father should rot.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 03:06 PM
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14. How tragic
:(

Condolences to your husband and his family, youthere. :hug:
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 03:12 PM
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15. I am so sorry.
:hug:
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 05:49 PM
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19. Oh, I'm so sorry.
What a terrible thing to hear. My heart goes out to your family. :hug:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 06:25 PM
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20. I'm so sorry, youthere.
:hug:
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rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-27-06 07:05 PM
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21. My condolences n/t
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