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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 03:00 PM
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It's a lousy day here. It's -28 degrees (-41 with wind chill) and my
Edited on Tue Nov-28-06 03:01 PM by QMPMom
husband is being an ass. Okay, maybe it's a half-and-half situation on who is being the ass, but he is on my last nerve.

The bank screwed up on 2 transactions and I had to make a second trip there to straighten it out. Grrr!

I talked to my next-younger sister and she started going off on Bill Clinton and how she hates him and how * is so damn wonderful. I didn't pursue the conversation and argue with her. She's an idiot. An intelligent person, but an idiot just the same. She's one of those knee-jerk conservatives that cannot fathom that Republicans could possibly be anything but freaking Saints.

Then I opened my e-mails and found a quick one from my dearest friend who lives in Michigan. Her husband died at 10:00 this morning. He was diagnosed with cancer less than a month ago and now he's gone. My friend and the daughters are still reeling from the diagnosis and now he's gone already without even being given a chance to fight it.

It's a lousy damn day. I just want to crawl in a hole until Spring.

Edited because I can't spell today either.
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ceile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 03:03 PM
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1. So sorry, QMPMom.
Sounds like you need one of these :hug:
I hope your day gets better!
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 06:27 PM
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10. Thanks!
Back at ya with the :hug:
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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 03:08 PM
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2. Its yucky here too. Windy and not going to get to 70 today.
:evilgrin:


Sorry. (seriesly!11! though, this house is freaking COLD - colder than out in the yard, at least on the sunny side)
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hfojvt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 04:08 PM
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3. it's 70 something here today too
I've got all the windows and doors opening.
That weather should be coming her way or they could just be on the bad side of the jet stream or something. Supposed to snow here on Thursday.
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Karenca Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 06:05 PM
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6. ......
:wtf:
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Orangepeel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 06:09 PM
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7. I'm guessing the poster only read the subject line
and didn't realize that the weather wasn't really what was getting QMPMom down.

:hug: to QMPMom
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 06:10 PM
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8. It's okay. Thanks for the hug.
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Karenca Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 06:24 PM
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9. I hope so.
:hug:

some more hugs for QMP.
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 06:29 PM
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12. Thank you!
Hugs are always appreciated. Here's one back at ya! :hug:
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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-29-06 12:41 PM
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20. You are right, I did start the message but did not finish.
I am sorry and I apologize to your QMPMom, I did not mean to make light of your loss. We had a very sudden death in our family this summer so I feel for your shock and disorientation. The only positive that can be said is a very lame "at least the suffering was not prolonged" and that is pretty inadequate, I know. I am sorry.
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-29-06 01:21 PM
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21. Not to worry, Kali. I am sorry for your loss. Yes, it is disorienting
when something like this happens. Have a good day.

:hug:
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 06:28 PM
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11. I hope it warms up for both of us soon.
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Suich Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 05:44 PM
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4. Sorry, QMPMom.....here:
:hug:
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 06:29 PM
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13. Thank you very much.
:hug: to you, too!
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 05:55 PM
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5. Thanks everyone. I'm feeling slightly better and at least DH is
being halfway human right now.

I've really had a hard time getting my brain wrapped around the fact that Deb's husband has died. I mean, we knew it was most likely a foregone conclusion that he would, but, damn, it all happened so fast.

:hug: back to all of you.
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Kire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 06:34 PM
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14. Where in Indiana is is -28 degrees?
Edited on Tue Nov-28-06 06:34 PM by Kire
Yahoo weather says it's 54 in Muncie

Sorry about your bad day. :hug:
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 09:03 PM
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15. Well, I'm from Indiana but actually live elsewhere at this time.
Edited on Tue Nov-28-06 09:16 PM by QMPMom
Sorry for the confusion.

Thanks for the hug.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 09:13 PM
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16. That Sucks QMP
sorry about all that

your friend sounds like she's got alot to deal with too

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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 09:18 PM
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17. Thank you very much. Yes, Deb is a mess, as any of us would be. Plus she
is barely recovered from being hit by a car a few months ago.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 09:30 PM
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18. Oh Gosh
she got hit by a car?

man, I'm feeling more fortunate by the minute

hit by a car, loses her spouse today, sad

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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-28-06 11:38 PM
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19. Yes, she was leaving work and had just stepped off the curb and
was hit. Her recovery has been very difficult and she may need further surgery. I wish I could be there with her but there is no way I can go to her.
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