|
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend Bookmark this thread |
This topic is archived. |
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge |
GOPS Worst Fear (384 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:03 PM Original message |
How Would YOU Handle Catching Your Spouse in Adultery? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:05 PM Response to Original message |
1. It's happened to me twice ... both wives. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:06 PM Response to Original message |
2. not the same situation, but it happened to me with my first wife. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
GOPS Worst Fear (384 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:11 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Trust is no longer there if the Spouse Cheats. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:33 PM Response to Reply #4 |
12. like I said, it wasn't easy, but the love we had for each other was greater. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:41 PM Response to Reply #4 |
17. With my ex, I NEVER trusted him... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
itsmesgd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:11 PM Response to Original message |
3. don't do it yourself. call a private investigator |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Parche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
5. handle |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
6. I guess I would try to find out if in fact our marriage was over or |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Az (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:19 PM Response to Original message |
7. Love |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
nashville_brook (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:20 PM Response to Original message |
8. happened to me last year ... almost to the day |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Vox Acerbus (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
9. Wow, I honestly don't know... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Uben (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
10. I've heard some honest answers here |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WorseBeforeBetter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
11. How is hating his "wife's guts" going to help the situation? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
villager (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
13. got divorced |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Zorra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
14. Walk away, and never look back. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
15. My ex did that kind of stuff...also under the influence |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lone_Star_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
16. It sounds as if the infidelity is a symptom of a larger problem |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
18. alcoholism is the issue here, |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
conscious evolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 10:14 PM Response to Reply #18 |
43. Good idea X |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
izzie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
19. I guess it would count what type marriage one had. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
20. I was brilliant |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
21. Throw his sorry ass to the street |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
caty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
22. One word: GOODBYE! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
23. How about catching her working toward it. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
24. Can't say |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:27 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. Absolutely. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
NaturalHigh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
25. D-I-V-O-R-C-E |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:13 PM Response to Original message |
26. F8ck the mailman. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
27. Heal and move forward. I'm in it for the long haul. (nm) |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:16 PM Response to Original message |
28. It's just f---ing. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
30. Forgive her. Probably leave her, depending on the context. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
judaspriestess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
31. Their perception is their reality |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
sakabatou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
32. Truthfully, I wouldn't know. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
33. Blow his brains out. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
34. Counseling, and if that doesn't work, separation and/or divorce |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
35. I did have to deal with it |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
36. Sounds like adultery is the least of their problems |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
37. Tha'ts something I don't have to worry about. I'm a lucky son of a bitch. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 06:36 PM Response to Original message |
38. Part Of Me Thinks |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SKKY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 06:41 PM Response to Original message |
39. Call me shallow, or whatever, but there is no way in hell I could ever... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 07:01 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. I admit to being resistant to counseling of any kind, even going to the |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
41. It happened to me |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
carly denise pt deux (855 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-22-06 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
42. I would forward make sure he got my new address ........ |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) | Fri May 03rd 2024, 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
Advertisements [?] |
Top |
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge |
Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators
Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.
Home | Discussion Forums | Journals | Store | Donate
About DU | Contact Us | Privacy Policy
Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.
© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC