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Madrone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 07:18 PM
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Goddamnit!!
So, as a "reward" for giving a sweet girl a place to stay after she left rehab so she can stay clean and focus on some legal problems she needs to deal with in order to get her life straight again - I find out today that her probation officer(S!!) want to come do a search of my home. NOT COOL. Not cool AT ALL. And they can show up whenever they want, and they don't need a warrant.

Plus she's looking at a $200/month minimum payment to the state --- and that's just the beginning.

I feel like we're both being punished - she's getting screwed for giving everything she's got to getting her life straightened out, and I'm being punished for trying to help her.

I fucking HATE the "justice" system. Fucking hate it.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 07:21 PM
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1. Makes One Want To Help People Doesn't It?
subject you to searches?

I guess they'd say, "Ya got nothin' to hide, why worry?"

It might just be the principle of the matter?

:hi:
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Madrone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 07:25 PM
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4. I am fiercely private.
I don't have people to my house EVER. I don't want anyone going through my stuff - whether there's anything to hide or not. I don't want anything ransacked.

Plus I moved from a ginormous house to a freaking postage stamp of one and there is crap EVERYWHERE - it's a huge mess I'm already overwhelmed by with no room to move stuff around or sort anything and.... :cry:

I don't know.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 07:28 PM
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5. It Sucks Madrone
it isn't right

you should be able to help someone

without feeling like you are suspect for helping her.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 07:22 PM
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2. I hate that they are charging her so much!
I can't stand that this seems like a money-making venture for that county.

I also can't stand that they're taking your good deed and making YOU feel like a criminal.
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Madrone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 07:44 PM
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7. And I hate that you have to deal with this -
even vicariously.

I'm sorry. :cry:
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 07:45 PM
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8. Don't worry about me...
...I'm here for you. :hug:
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 07:23 PM
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3. That Sucks!!
The justice system needs a shitload of work :hug:
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 07:35 PM
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6. Man, that blows.
I feel the same way that you do about my privacy. The fact that you're trying to help someone out is admirable. I'm sorry it's such a pain in the ass for you and your friend both, but goodonya for doing it.
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