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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:35 PM
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Awww CRAP....
...My son called, she lost the baby....:cry::cry::cry:
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:35 PM
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1. Oh no!
I am so sorry. :hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:39 PM
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2. I was looking forward to being 'grandma'
Thanks...:( ;(
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:40 PM
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3. So sorry for your son's wife most of all, but also for him and for you.
Redstone
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:42 PM
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5. They're young...
...and can try again, but DAMN it hurts. :(
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redwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:42 PM
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4. I am so sorry.
I hope they will wait a bit and try again. Don't give up hope! :hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:45 PM
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7. Hopefully ...
...(insert a heavy sigh smilie here) it was just a one time thing...:hug: Thanks...
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:44 PM
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6. I'm so sorry to hear that, TO
Condolences to your son, DIL, and to you. :hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:46 PM
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10. Thanks...
...:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:45 PM
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8. Ahh No!
dammit

I'm so sorry TOL

:hug: :hug: :hug:

that sucks big time

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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:48 PM
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12. It hurts...
...my son was crying on the phone. I wish they were here so I could comfort them.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:52 PM
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15. I Can Only Imagine Sweetie!
there's nothing that can make it better it is just going to suck

where do they live?

:hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:55 PM
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18. They live...
...in Wooster Ohio, which is approximately 2 1/2 hours away.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:58 PM
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21. Well That's Like An Eternity Away When
things are bad like this.

:hug:

miscarriages are still unfortunately very common- but logic isn't the answer right now.

:hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:05 PM
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26. I about bit my DH's head off earlier...
...after my son called, I told DH what happened, and he said, '...it's probably for the best, they can't afford a child right now...' I looked at him and said Don't you DARE say that!

That man is about as tone-deaf as they come. Now is not the time for logic. Sympathy 1st.
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MassLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:45 PM
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9. I'm sorry
sad news.
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:50 PM
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13. Thanks...
...it's appreciated.
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Cabcere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:48 PM
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11. Oh no!
:cry: I'm so sorry, TOhioLiberal. :hug: My thoughts and prayers are with you, your son, & DIL. :hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:52 PM
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16. Thanks Cabcere...
...:hug:
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haf216 Donating Member (911 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:51 PM
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14. I'm so sorry for your loss.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Do you live close to them or are they to far a way for a visit?
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:54 PM
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17. It's about a 2 1/2 hour drive...
If they don't come up this weekend, we may go there.
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haf216 Donating Member (911 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:58 PM
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20. I bet they would love to see you. n/t
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:06 PM
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27. We could all use a group hug...
...so I'm thinking if the weather holds, we're going.
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:57 PM
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19. I'm so sorry.
My father is an ob/gyn and he always told his daughters not to announce the pregnancy until the first trimester has passed because early miscarriages are so common. It doesn't make it any easier though. :hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:00 PM
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23. I thought that...
...maybe they should have waited to announce it, but they were just so damn excited. It would break my heart to have them go through it alone if they hadn't announced it. :cry:
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AlCzervik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 09:59 PM
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22. i'm sorry for all of you.
you'll be a grandma one day.
:hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:07 PM
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30. Thanks...
...I hope you're right. :hug:
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:01 PM
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24. I'm so, so very sorry
My deepest and most sincere thoughts, prayers, condolences and sympathies to you and your family :hug: :hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:08 PM
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31. Thanks...
...it's appreciated...:hug:
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GenDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:02 PM
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25. So sorry
I hope your son and his wife conceive again, quickly, and that they have a successful pregnancy the next time. :hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:09 PM
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32. So do we...
...I wonder if they know why it happened...or is it just one of those things that happen.
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GenDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:25 PM
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37. Between 15% and 50%
I think it happens more than we know. It doesn't make it any easier. I have a sister-in-law that lost a baby in her first trimester and she conceived shortly after that and delivered a full term baby with two more full term pregnancies that followed.

This may give you some comfort.

http://www.marchofdimes.com/professionals/681_1192.asp
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:28 PM
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38. Thanks...
...I'll give them this information. :hug:
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:06 PM
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28. my condolences
I am so sorry to hear that. :hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:10 PM
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33. Thanks...
...it's appreciated :hug:
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:07 PM
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29. So sorry. How disappointing.
:hug:

I had a miscarriage after my first baby (my son). I conceived again within a few months (gosh it's hard to wait to try again, but I let just a couple months go by before trying). My daughter was conceived on the first try. I'm hoping they have the same good luck.
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:11 PM
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34. I'm glad to hear...
Edited on Tue Feb-20-07 10:11 PM by TOhioLiberal
...that you had better luck the second time. :hug:
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gemdem Donating Member (975 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:18 PM
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35. So sorry.
My heart goes out to your entire family. My missus and I know the hurt having had losses of our own before our family filled out to where it is now with four beautiful, wonderful kids.

:hug:
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TOhioLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-20-07 10:23 PM
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36. Thanks...
...:hug:
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