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Tue Mar-20-07 04:30 PM
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| Poll question: Okay, I'm going to ask it: |
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The admissions person at the college I went to - good looking, no wedding ring, nice personality, I was in drool mode.
Do I do the invite for a date question or don't I?
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Tue Mar-20-07 04:33 PM
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what do you have to lose?
you have a 50/50 chance, not bad odds.
you only live once.
give me her number and i'll set it up for you.
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| crim son
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Tue Mar-20-07 04:43 PM
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| 2. I'm voting for conflict of interest. |
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IMHO you should wait until you know the outcome of the interview before you ask this person out.
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| Nikia
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Tue Mar-20-07 07:34 PM
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You should wait until asking the person out has no relevance to whether you get in or not.
As far as afterwards, it depends on the college atmosphere. For example, if you would start dating and then broke up with the person and then quit the college because of your hurt feelings, would the admissions person possibly face any professional repurcussions.
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Tue Mar-20-07 04:45 PM
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| 3. How about the let's have a leisurely coffee invite? |
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That is pretty safe, and can be the catalyst to see if it goes further?
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Tue Mar-20-07 04:47 PM
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go for it!
The worst than can happen is crushing humiliation.
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| Deja Q
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Tue Mar-20-07 05:04 PM
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| 5. Note: the people who voted for 'No, I doubt there is any interest in you, toad.' must obviously |
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have a need to get some with me, which is the only possible reason imaginable for anybody to vote that! :* :D
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Tue Mar-20-07 05:20 PM
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| 6. Are you no longer attending? |
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If you aren't affiliated with the college anymore, why not?
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Tue Mar-20-07 05:30 PM
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| 7. not if you're applying to that college |
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that makes you look sleazy. If it's a college you've already graduated from, then you can go for it.
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Tue Mar-20-07 05:41 PM
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| 8. Find out if he's gay first! |
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Tue Mar-20-07 06:06 PM
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| 9. Actually, it's a lady I'm interested in so now the 3 people who voted 'no interest in you, toad' |
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Edited on Tue Mar-20-07 06:15 PM by HypnoToad
probably have some relevance. :evilgrin:
Edited: clipped subject line
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Tue Mar-20-07 08:46 PM
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| 12. Hey HT, I was just ribbing you. |
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Tue Mar-20-07 08:48 PM
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| 13. Strangely enough, I don't get ribbed very often... |
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:rofl:
Understandable, though...
(the tally's also up to 6, eek!)
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Tue Mar-20-07 08:05 PM
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| 11. Definite Conflict of interest... But.. |
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once you are admitted... perhaps decidedly less so.
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Tue Mar-20-07 08:50 PM
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| 14. Welcome to DU, JerseyPride! |
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