BayCityProgressive
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:21 PM
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So, I got in a head on car collision, got food poisoning, and found out my partner has been cheating on me with a guy I work with and we just bought a 140k house...shoot me now please.:evilfrown:
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:23 PM
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1. Could be worse Bush might move in with you |
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It happens we got to live on. My Heart feels your pain. May the Gods give you better
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:23 PM
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2. Kick him/her out, keep the house, file for the insurance on the car |
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kiss your doctor for his/her good work on your tummy and then.....
PAR - TAY!!!
Aside from that, how was your week? :hug:
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:25 PM
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I hope next week is much better. :hug:
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:26 PM
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You can recover from all of those. They suck, but not as bad as, say, finding out you have two weeks to live.
Peace to you.
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:27 PM
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trust me the last two nights I have definately gone out and partied.
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:26 PM
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Edited on Mon Apr-02-07 09:26 PM by Cobalt-60
Hate keeps a man alive! (According to Jack Hawkins in Ben Hur, anyway) Sue the b*tch for palimony! Make sure you get enough to pay for a new car. While your lawyer is hot send her out after that other driver too. Perhaps it will pay for the house.
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:26 PM
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Does saying that better days have to be ahead help?
Sending some white light and wishing you coping strength. :hug:
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:27 PM
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7. Wow, sorry to hear that..... |
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sounds like you're living in a country & western song.
I don't mean to make light but that is one hell of a week.
:hug: The best I can do is a hug.
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:27 PM
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That is a terrible week. I hope that you heal fast and can re-sell the house quickly. :hug:
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:29 PM
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You have my heart-felt sympathy. Good luck withe the rest of the week.
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:30 PM
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11. Take it a piece at a time. |
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But yeah, those kind of weeks really suck. Feel for you!
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:36 PM
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12. Smoke a doobie and flip upside down on an inversion table.. |
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:37 PM
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13. Very Awful ! You survived the collision, you survived the poisoning, |
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and believe me you will survive the cheating partner, and will be better off without him/her down the road a bit. Pick them up and lay them down (your feet that is) as Maya Angelou would say, and be kind to yourself. At times like this accidents happen, and poor judgment runs rampant. It will pass and you will be on the road to being a helluva lot stronger and wiser. Sell the house if possible, or take in a tenant.
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:38 PM
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14. You've got noplace to go but up |
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because it sounds you're as far down as you can get.
File the insurance papers, figure out what poisoned you and why, either forgive your partner or demote him to "just roommates," and be sure to get yourself tested over the next six months.
If you didn't have rotten days, you'd never be able to recognize the good ones.
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Mon Apr-02-07 09:39 PM
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The car wreck and food poisoning suck, but a cheating partner is the worst. So hard for a relationship to recover from that - best of luck to you!
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Mon Apr-02-07 10:14 PM
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16. Now you're all set for at least a year! |
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Things always come in a series of 'three's'. Your slate's clean for another year, at least! Congratulations on the new house! That's great!
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Mon Apr-02-07 11:04 PM
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17. Positive and healing thoughts headed your way! |
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You will work your way around these challenges with ease!
I remember one week in which my spouse had to go unexpectedly to Texas, a drunk hit me and destroyed my car, the accident causing a major road to be shut down, and we had a 100-year rain that blocked me from leaving my community for several days (I was later let go from my job probation because my boss doubted my story). Believe it or not, I now shake my head and laugh when I remember it. I wouldn't have my daughter now if it hadn't all happened, because I wouldn't have gotten the social services job and learned about adoption. Things turned out for the best.
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Mon Apr-02-07 11:11 PM
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18. Jeeezus, moving is bad enough |
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My wife and I survived the big move 7 years ago, but I don't think I could have handled sickness, a car crash and a marital infidelity.
I hope you beat out the other guy for a promotion, at least.
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Mon Apr-02-07 11:13 PM
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19. When you've had the worst, that's the bottom--which is about |
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the only damn thing good about having the worst.
Hope you have good car/health insurance and can let go of the cheating partner, and can figure out what to do with the house.
Things will look up...hang in there.
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Tue Apr-03-07 04:18 AM
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A week or so ago I was laid off, one of our dogs tore off a back nail right at the pad on Saturday, on the way to the vet's office yesterday I totaled my car
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