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WilmywoodNCparalegal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:07 AM Original message |
somewhat serious relationship question |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:11 AM Response to Original message |
1. you are not in control of karma or --- |
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WilmywoodNCparalegal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:12 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Let's just say |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:14 AM Response to Reply #2 |
3. me, personally i would not contact the spouse. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:18 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. good point, wildhorses |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:20 AM Response to Reply #4 |
5. yes, that is my understanding -- |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:21 AM Response to Original message |
6. i would tell your friend to move on and try and live the best life she can |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:24 AM Response to Original message |
7. I would not let the spouse know |
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some guy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:26 AM Response to Original message |
8. better them than me |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:26 AM Response to Original message |
9. Do nothing. Let it play itself out. |
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Richard Steele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:34 AM Response to Original message |
10. Too much drama. The only smart move is to do NOTHING. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 09:02 AM Response to Reply #10 |
18. You are a wise man, my friend. |
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Richard Steele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 01:25 AM Response to Reply #18 |
25. Well, that's certainly not a phrase I hear very often! |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 09:56 AM Response to Reply #10 |
22. I have to agree too. My reaction was: Just walk away from it |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:38 AM Response to Original message |
11. People have to figure out their own ethics and needs |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 08:24 AM Response to Reply #11 |
31. Wow, this post totally hits home with me. |
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mikeytherat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 07:33 AM Response to Original message |
12. An old girlfriend once told me, "It takes more than love." |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 07:42 AM Response to Original message |
13. Let's see. You are fooling around with a married man, who won't leave his |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 07:46 AM Response to Original message |
14. Let karma catch up to this person, I say. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
15. It's not the spouse's fault the person has treated you this way |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 07:52 AM Response to Original message |
16. Step away |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 02:00 AM Response to Reply #16 |
28. Perfect answer, Inchie! |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 07:58 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Yes, because that's another way of holding on, |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 08:47 AM Response to Original message |
17. First of all, may I offer your friend a hug? |
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militaryspouse (198 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 09:42 AM Response to Reply #17 |
19. hmmm |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 09:51 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Even when people screw up they still hurt |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 09:44 AM Response to Original message |
20. There's enough guilt and hypocrisy to go around here |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
23. First, I would not take the person's word for how "needy and prim" the spouse is |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
24. I agree with the posters who said "do nothing." |
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badgerpup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 01:49 AM Response to Original message |
26. Cut the ties. |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 01:56 AM Response to Original message |
27. People who can lie to their spouses can lie to each other. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 08:13 AM Response to Original message |
30. Looks like everyone agrees : "let it go" |
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