LaraMN
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:42 PM
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I can. not. get rid of this girl. |
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I have this *acquaintance*. I've known her for several years- I used to live next door to her. I can't stand her. For a length of time, I avoided her and refused to return her phone calls, because I don't like her or want to spend time with her. She's a total dick. Occasionally, when I wouldn't answer her calls, she would just show up unannounced at my house.
I thought I had finally gotten rid of her. Then I ran into her at the damn bank, today. She got all kinds of excited, and said she's in town every day and is GOING to call me!
Nooo!
I have a really hard time being mean, but this girl will NOT take a hint, and now she's going to start stalking me again. I know it.
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:43 PM
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1. A well placed Taser shot sends a quick message. |
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:44 PM
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3. I'm afraid it might implode the massive amounts of silicone she's hauling around. |
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:44 PM
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2. Run over her with your Rolls Fucking Royce! |
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:46 PM
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4. I have a Rolls Fucking Royce?! |
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I thought I had a Toyota Fucking Previa! That someone stole the Turn Fucking Signal off of, two days ago.
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:48 PM
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It was a thought!
:rofl:
I have a Dodge Fucking Grand Caravan, she would be toast.
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:48 PM
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dont show.
repeat until she gets the hint.
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:49 PM
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9. Then she will come to my house. |
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And I will have to hide and pretend I'm not home, again.
:P
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:55 PM
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13. ask her to help you move |
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that always makes people run.
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Fri Oct-12-07 07:37 PM
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Fri Oct-12-07 08:18 PM
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24. Answer the door and tell her that you're not home. |
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:48 PM
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7. I have a contagious disease and insanity runs in my family |
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didn't it work on Cheers?
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:51 PM
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10. She would somehow turn that into a discussion about |
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her latest bladder infection, and who she's been fucking.
That's pretty much the breadth of her conversational repertoire.
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Fri Oct-12-07 04:00 PM
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May I suggest a zoloft smoothie TMI
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:49 PM
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8. Is this a girl or a woman? |
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:51 PM
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She doesn't even take not-so-subtle cues very well.
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Fri Oct-12-07 07:34 PM
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19. Then she's a woman, not a girl. |
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Edited on Fri Oct-12-07 07:34 PM by kath
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Fri Oct-12-07 07:36 PM
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20. Thanks for the clarification. |
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I didn't know what to think about this thread until Just Now.
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Fri Oct-12-07 09:30 PM
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:applause:
Sums up how I felt about that response also.
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Fri Oct-12-07 09:31 PM
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Fri Oct-12-07 08:51 PM
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27. Age isn't necessarily an indication of maturity. :) |
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Fri Oct-12-07 09:28 PM
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29. Yep, I can't get rid of this "boy" would be thought of as odd. 2x standard. agreed. :) |
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Fri Oct-12-07 09:31 PM
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34. I have no problem calling a 30 year old a boy if he acts like one. :) |
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Fri Oct-12-07 09:37 PM
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36. Ya but people always use "girl" they rarely use "boy" . If a "boy" of 30 was shitty I'd say"ahole" |
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Edited on Fri Oct-12-07 09:37 PM by skyblue
:)
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:52 PM
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12. Damn. And you're too nice to just tell her off? |
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Fri Oct-12-07 09:29 PM
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Fri Oct-12-07 03:55 PM
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14. a novel idea: tell her you don't like her and to leave you alone |
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your post makes it clear you are not too nice to do so.
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Fri Oct-12-07 04:36 PM
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She will then avoid you.
Regards, Mugu
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Fri Oct-12-07 05:41 PM
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18. LOL! Will keep that gem of advice in the permanent file. nt |
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Fri Oct-12-07 08:13 PM
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22. Or ask to borrow money from her. n/t |
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Fri Oct-12-07 04:43 PM
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17. I DO believe that this is the first time I've ever heard of a woman |
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referred to as a 'dick'. It conjures up a confusing mental image. And I'm not getting all 'You sexist (expletive), you!' It just sounded funny. :shrug:
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Fri Oct-12-07 08:15 PM
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Fri Oct-12-07 08:21 PM
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25. I hate leech-y people. |
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My closest friends are people who I can click with on a REAL level. People I can relax with where we know we're there for each other when we need each other. Not people who latch onto me when I only sort of kind of like them. "Wow, we have so much in common. Wow, isn't it amazing? (When we don't and it's not.)" Blech! :puke:
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Fri Oct-12-07 08:21 PM
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dupe
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Fri Oct-12-07 09:11 PM
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Fri Oct-12-07 09:30 PM
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32. Just tell her to drop dead. (just kidding!!!) |
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Sat Oct-13-07 04:03 AM
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37. Ya could bring up something embarrassing to her. Not humane. But it might do the trick. |
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Sat Oct-13-07 06:06 AM
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38. Stop giving her hints and tell her to her face you don't like her. |
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Stand firm and make her go away.
It works.
Your time is your own and you are not required to spend it with people who waste it.
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Sat Oct-13-07 06:46 AM
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39. Lara, do I need to kick your ass ? |
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the appropriate response to, "I'LL CALL YOU!!!" was, "I'D RATHER YOU DIDN'T!!!"
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Sat Oct-13-07 08:24 AM
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40. Ask to borrow money from her. |
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Don't pay her back.
Repeat as necessary.
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Sat Oct-13-07 08:59 AM
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41. ya know, sometimes it's better to just tell an old friend how you feel |
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and why.
You might be able to resolve the issue, otherwise she has no idea why you are avoiding her. It might resolve or simply end things.
A very good friend of mine was angry about a personal matter with me, and never bothered to tell me why she was angry. She simply cut me off after 20 years of friendship. It was very hurtful and weird, so I think that a real friendship deserves that you be honest with other person, IMO.
good luck!
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