Lyric
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Fri Oct-19-07 04:36 AM
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I really hate waking up alone.
My SO's hours at work have changed recently, so she goes to work at around midnight and gets home around 9:30 am. I wasn't prepared for how depressing it can be to go to sleep alone and wake up alone 5 days out of every week. :(
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Fri Oct-19-07 04:37 AM
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Some of us have to sleep alone 7 days a week. :P
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Lyric
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Fri Oct-19-07 04:43 AM
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2. I'd be clinically depressed if that happened to me |
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But some people prefer it that way. I've known a handful of couples who couldn't sleep comfortably with each other, so they had separate beds and/or separate bedrooms.
I am the opposite. I like to be held (and to hold someone else) while sleeping. It eases my psyche somehow. :)
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Fri Oct-19-07 05:11 AM
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3. We evolved from fairly social creatures. |
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I'm not really surprised that many of us find it easier to sleep in the arms of another. Or at least with somehing to snuggle up against.
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Fri Oct-19-07 06:30 AM
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12. When I slept in "Zen Style" it was to disconnected for the other. |
Lyric
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Fri Oct-19-07 06:41 AM
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ThinkBlue1966 and I usually sleep in the "Honeymoon Hug" position for at least the first part of the night, and then wind up spooning at some other point while we're asleep. :)
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Fri Oct-19-07 06:51 AM
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14. It seems there are a lot more positions and people have written books on it ( 39 positions) |
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Edited on Fri Oct-19-07 06:51 AM by CGowen
http://www.google.com/search?q=http://www.evany.com/sleeptest/&hl=en&safe=off&filter=0Sometimes the names change and I can't find how a position is called, I suspect that some of the positions were invented for this book. I can't imagine people sleeping in a "colon" position for example http://www.evany.com/sleeptest/colon.htm
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Fri Oct-19-07 09:06 AM
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19. It creates a delimma for me and husband... |
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because I love to sleep next to him also, BUT he is a FURNACE. I end up getting too hot and uncomfortable and have to move away. Still trying to find a good compromise. I think a Califonia King may be in our future..that way I can scoot over for a cuddle when I want to, and move away with plenty of stretching room when I start to overheat.
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Fri Oct-19-07 05:35 AM
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I hate sleeping with someone - much prefer having the bed - and room - to myself
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Fri Oct-19-07 05:52 AM
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6. Me, too. Since his surgery last summer, Mr.Midlo |
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is impossible to sleep with. Way too restless.
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Fri Oct-19-07 05:54 AM
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7. actually I'm the one who is impossibly restless and snores like a big dog |
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I can't stand hearing someone complain about it :D
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Fri Oct-19-07 05:56 AM
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8. What kind of surgery did Mr. Midlo have? |
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Fri Oct-19-07 05:59 AM
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9. He had a quadruple bypass last summer. |
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Fri Oct-19-07 06:07 AM
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10. Oh gosh Midlo. I'm sorry. |
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I thought you were going to say that he got his tonsils out or something (which can sometimes cause snoring, or so I've heard). I feel like an inconsiderate heel. :(
I hope he's doing much better now. :hug:
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Fri Oct-19-07 06:23 AM
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I need my bed, not just a sliver of it. Although it's been a while since I regularly slept in the same bed with someone, I don't miss it at all.
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Fri Oct-19-07 05:51 AM
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5. My job has me traveling 3 or 4 days per week |
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I love getting the hotel bed to myself for half of each week, but after 4 nights I look forward to getting back.
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Fri Oct-19-07 06:58 AM
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but I've slept alone for nearly a year now
except for a few wonderful days...
I'll do it until I am able to be with someone I want to wake up with...
:hi:
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Fri Oct-19-07 07:14 AM
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17. I can't sleep when my wife is away |
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If I'm camping I don't find its a problem but when I'm home or staying in a hotel and she's not there I have a hard time falling asleep.
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