so , I went to go look at a venue for my daughters wedding...

[lost-in-nj]

with her and her fiance.......
I love them with all my heart....
they chose this one place...it is one of the most beautiful places I would have picked..
her Dad and i agree

but I have a problem.....
I have been seperated for a year from her Dad.....
going to a Lawyer next month ( its time)
what do I do
:shrug: :shrug: :shrug: :cry:
anyone have any experiance????
should i wait???
they are planning Oct.2008....
dont know what to do.....

you know
you guys ROCK!!!!!!:yourock: :yourock: :yourock:

I need BillySkank to come to the wedding!!!!!!
((((hugS hon))))))


lost

[AlCzervik]

1. could you be more specific in terms of "What would you do"?

[lost-in-nj]

3. yeah

should I file for divorce....
or wait till her day is over.....
I don't want to ruin it at all for them...
I WILL ask her later in the process
what she wants......
but I'm afraid he will bring the slut..
sorry.... thats what she is.....

its my daughters day......
I don't want to do ANYTHING
To ruin or spoil it....

so I will ask her..





:hi: :hi:

lost

[AlCzervik]

5. sorry, i did not realize there was um a 3rd party involved.

i think your daughter is going to have to have a sit down with her Dad about the 3rd party being at her wedding, in all honesty i think that part i would leave totally up to her. This whole thing sucks and i'm really, really sorry.

[fizzgig]

6. i can understand you wanting to respect your daughter's feelings

but you also have to take yours into account. i don't know how you filing for divorce now will make her wedding any less special in a year.

as for as him bringing the woman, i don't know that having filed papers is going to make a difference.

[janx]

2. You have to talk to her dad.

No way out of it.

I hate divorce.

[lost-in-nj]

4. yeah

I hate divorce to......

thanks

lost