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Timefortruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:17 PM Original message |
"N " word question |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
1. As a white person, I would never, ever use the N word in any context. |
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Timefortruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. I absolutely, positively agree |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:42 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. Ownership of the word is held exclusively by African Americans |
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Timefortruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:45 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. I agree. |
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yewberry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 01:08 AM Response to Reply #10 |
23. No disrespect intended, but I think that's a vast oversimplification. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:24 AM Response to Reply #23 |
32. I know they *can* do it, but |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 06:45 AM Response to Reply #10 |
29. Hardly. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:33 AM Response to Reply #29 |
33. The pain belonged to blacks |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:35 AM Response to Reply #33 |
34. its called ingroup honorifics and reclaiming of perjoratives. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:49 AM Response to Reply #34 |
39. Examples? We have many laws against it. Perhaps |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:08 AM Response to Reply #39 |
50. schools. media. healthcare. jobs: you dont see racism in any of these? |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:46 AM Response to Reply #33 |
36. you don't see what institutionally today? nt. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:47 AM Response to Reply #36 |
37. Racism n/t |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:48 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. what do you consider to be institutions? the media? government? nt. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:52 AM Response to Reply #38 |
40. Yes. n/t |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:54 AM Response to Reply #40 |
41. you don't see racism in the government and media? that is insane. nt. |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:58 AM Response to Reply #41 |
42. Seconded. If you don't think institutional racism is alive and well, you're not paying attention. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:01 AM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Government jobs? Name one institution that does this. n/t |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:12 AM Response to Reply #45 |
51. I can't believe I have to explain this to someone. |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:12 AM Response to Reply #45 |
52. the government. nt. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:30 AM Response to Reply #52 |
54. That's illegal. n/t |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:31 AM Response to Reply #54 |
55. its institutionalized racism. nt. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:45 AM Response to Reply #55 |
56. Huh? How do you define "institutional racism"? n/t |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:52 AM Response to Reply #56 |
57. racism perpetrated through policies of public bodies or institutions... |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:03 AM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Show me here: |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:10 AM Response to Reply #59 |
62. ok...you are just kidding now. I see. Did you know there are more young african american males... |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:26 AM Response to Reply #62 |
65. What is your point? |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:32 AM Response to Reply #65 |
69. I am offended by that statistic. They are deliberately being kept out... |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:40 AM Response to Reply #69 |
75. You ASSUME that that |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 11:14 AM Response to Reply #75 |
81. Our institutions reflect our society and culture |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 11:20 AM Response to Reply #81 |
82. What are institutions? They are organizations which adhere to guidelines, practices, etc. |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 02:43 PM Response to Reply #82 |
88. Uh, no. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 03:15 PM Response to Reply #75 |
91. Games |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:40 AM Response to Reply #59 |
74. i think you dont understand how institutionalized racism works. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:45 AM Response to Reply #74 |
76. I think that we are talking about different things, then n/t |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:49 AM Response to Reply #76 |
77. law exist but equality in opportunity/access and implementation of these laws |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 11:10 AM Response to Reply #77 |
80. that doesn't make sense to me. How do you define "institutional racism"? n/t |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:58 AM Response to Reply #41 |
43. Cite examples please. n/t |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:00 AM Response to Reply #43 |
44. education, justice. nt. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:03 AM Response to Reply #44 |
47. Those are 2 words, not cites of racial discrimination in media or government. n/t |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:05 AM Response to Reply #47 |
48. ok....we'll play this game. the justice system is biased against african americans. nt. |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:07 AM Response to Reply #48 |
61. ALL black Americans? How is this done, exactly? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:12 AM Response to Reply #61 |
63. our judicial system is the best in the world? |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:26 AM Response to Reply #63 |
66. Do you know of a better one? n/t |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:31 AM Response to Reply #66 |
68. yes, almost all of western europe. any judicials system where the death penalty is not given in a |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:34 AM Response to Reply #68 |
72. Okay, you are framing this based on the death penalty. I'm curious; |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:37 AM Response to Reply #72 |
73. depends, if for similar crimes, the sentences for black people are harsher, then no |
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mark414 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:20 PM Response to Reply #37 |
97. here, poke around in here for awhile: |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:33 AM Response to Reply #33 |
70. Well, you could try using it in the presence of African-Americans... |
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quip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 11:22 AM Response to Reply #70 |
83. Not to their faces, but in everyday language, as in the case of the OP n/t |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 03:10 PM Response to Reply #10 |
89. I disagree.... |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 06:42 AM Response to Reply #1 |
28. I have, recently, when talking to an African-American co-worker. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 03:12 PM Response to Reply #1 |
90. as a person, I would never use it. |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
3. It's never appropriate, IMHO. |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:34 PM Response to Original message |
4. Kill them n/t |
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Timefortruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:36 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. Kill whom? nt |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:42 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. I don't know...I'm just answering random questions while I'm drunk n/t |
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Timefortruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:46 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. Thanks, you've added importand insights NT |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:58 PM Response to Reply #13 |
18. That's what I'm here for...mostly....n/t |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:35 PM Response to Original message |
5. that's one of the ugliest words, imo |
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Timefortruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:40 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. I couldn't agree more |
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Mojambo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:38 PM Response to Original message |
7. It's a phase. |
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Timefortruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:49 PM Response to Reply #7 |
15. If someone doesn't see it in the meantime and |
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Mojambo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:52 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. I've learned a few lessons that way. |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:42 PM Response to Original message |
9. Tell him to smarten the fuck up. |
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hisownpetard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
14. I abhor that word and have never used it in my life. Regarding your son, though - |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 01:36 PM Response to Reply #14 |
86. You don't think it's a sign of a culture shift where the word is evolving |
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mark414 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 09:54 PM Response to Original message |
17. i am a young person, and it's very common when amongst friends, regardless of color |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 10:43 PM Response to Reply #17 |
22. I've noticed the same think. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:03 AM Response to Reply #17 |
60. It is FAR too common. |
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Dont_Bogart_the_Pretzel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 10:01 PM Response to Original message |
19. Here we go again........... |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 10:35 PM Response to Original message |
20. not all blacks... |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-01-07 10:41 PM Response to Original message |
21. It is not appropriate for a white teen to use |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:03 AM Response to Reply #21 |
46. it's not appropriate for anyBODY to use |
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krispos42 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 03:06 AM Response to Original message |
24. Maybe show him a movie like, say... |
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FunkyLeprechaun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 04:02 AM Response to Original message |
25. There's a really good book by Randall Kennedy |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 11:54 AM Response to Reply #25 |
84. No, I don't think it comes from either the country name, or the river name |
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FunkyLeprechaun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 01:28 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. Oh ok |
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Indi Guy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 04:18 AM Response to Original message |
26. Go with your gut instinct... |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 04:25 AM Response to Original message |
27. I'm white and have never used it. I can't imagine in what context it would be appropriate for your |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 07:09 AM Response to Original message |
30. He needs a history lesson. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:20 AM Response to Original message |
31. Just out of curiosity,... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
35. he shouldnt say it. you should give him a brief history of african americans. |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:07 AM Response to Original message |
49. Since you found out sneakily |
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Timefortruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 05:15 PM Response to Reply #49 |
93. Good advice. eom |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 07:30 PM Response to Reply #93 |
96. Thank you |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:16 AM Response to Original message |
53. the first step is to slap the emo out of him |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:01 AM Response to Reply #53 |
58. . |
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ellisonz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 07:25 PM Response to Reply #53 |
94. ... |
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Wcross (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
64. "White trash" is also offensive. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
67. I have no frickin idea. |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:53 AM Response to Reply #67 |
78. it's not "that one word" -- anti-Jewish slurs are ~at least~ equally off-limits... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:56 AM Response to Reply #78 |
79. Yeah... I forgot about Jewish slurs... |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
71. Wait wait time out....wrong to look at his communication? No way. |
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Westegg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
87. Try educating him about the history of the word... |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 03:33 PM Response to Original message |
92. Kids use the word a lot these days. |
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QMPMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
95. Anyone other than a person of African ancestry should *NEVER* |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-02-07 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
98. I don't care how common or normal it might be |
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