One final thought from me today...

[Haole Girl]

It's going to be all right

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CiH5FZBGo1U

:hug:

p.s., I need to turn off my PM's now. I'm so sorry. I thought I could handle it. But, God, I'm pretty messed up right now.

[LibraLiz1973]

1. Seriously, what the shit is going on around here?

:hug:

[Xipe Totec]

2. ...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jkje4FiH9Qc

[Madrone]

3. Take care of yourself, woman.

:hug:

[lizziegrace]

4. Please get some help n/t

[Haole Girl]

5. I have. You too. n/t

[DS1]

6. I don't understand

but I don't know the whole story.

Still, if some people are giving you trouble, block their ability to PM you. A number of people have been banned for this harassment in the past. So, you could block everyone out, or take action against those people giving you problems, there's an Alert link in every PM you get. There's nothing to stop you from Alerting on the old PMs which started this mess in the first place.

I'm not taking sides, or passing judgment, but those are your options.

[Name removed]

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[TK421]

8. What is going on? I'm sorry if I missed some shit on here..

what is up? Can you send me a PM? Your MySpace is not accepting any messaging right now, so I don't know how to keep in touch with you?

[Haole Girl]

9. Don't worry

There is enough worry going around the Lounge this evening for everyone.

Everything will be fine. I just need to step away from the computer.

Hey, I'll tell you what, I'll turn the away message off of my myspace later in the week.

:hug:

[TK421]

11. Alright, I'll message you there, I suppose

you just seemed upset these past couple of days...I saw that, but wasn't sure how to respond because I didn't know what that was about. You know me, though. Check that later

[malta blue]

10. ...

Stay in touch with me friend...


:hug:

[Haole Girl]

12. Ok, will do!

Thanks, really, everyone.

I know you all had my best interest at heart...

gotta go now...really! :hug:

[philosophie_en_rose]

13. Take care of yourself.

:pals:

[cwydro]

14. How strange this is, once again.

I rarely tune into this place any more, but funny thing, whenever I do...you are invariably turning off your PM or saying you are done with DU. But then, without fail, there you are back in a couple of days or maybe a week.

Hey, don't get me wrong. You are not the only one who plays this game. I don't even know you; I am here maybe once a month. But my goodness, it does get old.

Such a soap opera. Perhaps it is so boring to me, since I don't know the players.

Why do those of you who hate this place continue to come back?

Just wondering.

[Haole Girl]

15. I've thought about what you've said here and...

I think you are right.

I think I should be good for my word.

There are a lot of people I like here, but if I said I'd leave... well, I should do it.

Thank you.

[philosophie_en_rose]

16. ???

Don't base your participation in DU on someone that doesn't know you. I don't know you either, but there appears to be a lot going on that is no one's business. Don't leave, unless you want to go. DU posts are not binding legal contracts. :)

[cwydro]

22. I didn't mean to sound snarky

and if I did, I apologize.

I just see this so often and really don't understand it. You seem like a very intelligent woman and I think you contribute a bunch to DU. Why let the creepoids get you down?

I don't know you at all so obviously I don't know all the drama. I am aware of the cyberstalker who treated you badly, who has annoyed many people, and who thinks he has people fooled...though many of us see him for what he is.

But I think you should ignore creeps like him and just rise above it. Stay if you want to stay, take breaks if you want to...but going away for good seems no fun at all.

[Danger Mouse]

17. i hope you are alright.

:hug:

[Aristus]

18. You probably won't see this until you get back, but,

:hug:

[crim son]

19. It strikes me that this is not a place to take so seriously as some do.

Trust your true friends and accept that some people are not what they seem. The problem is being able to tell the difference, and we've all been there.

I honestly believe that you are capable of discerning who is a friend and who is not. Once you do that, all the melodramatics can be avoided. I know: been there, done that.

[Haole Girl]

20. You know...

never mind.

[crim son]

21. I am forced to retract.

And yes, I do know and had sort of hoped you'd seen the light. Perhaps in your shoes I'd have the same feelings but hell, I've been in your shoes and I don't.

Peace, if not with me then with the rest of your world.