Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Prayers and good thoughts for my father, please; he has pancreatic cancer.

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU
 
Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 03:38 PM
Original message
Prayers and good thoughts for my father, please; he has pancreatic cancer.
Pancreatic Adenocarcinoma, to be exact. He underwent a Whipple operation yesterday, and they excised most of the mass on the head of the pancreas. They weren't able to get it all, though, and he'll need radiation and chemo. This form of cancer has only a 10% survival rate, so, help from my fellow DU-ers, please.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
HuskerDU Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 03:40 PM
Response to Original message
1. Oh my that's terrible news.
Thoughts and prayers from my family to your.:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 03:42 PM
Response to Original message
2. My dear Aristus...
Prayers going out for your dad, sweetie...

I am so sorry to hear this...

All the best to him, and to you and your whole family...:grouphug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 03:45 PM
Response to Original message
3. Prayers for your Dad
:hug: Sending you my best thoughts for your dad, Aristus. :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 03:49 PM
Response to Original message
4. best wishes for you Father and your family.
I'm so sorry to hear that he's ill. I will surely keep him in my thoughts.

:hug:

aA
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Xipe Totec Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 03:50 PM
Response to Original message
5. Never Surrender
My best wishes to your father.


Do not surrender even when defeated,
and do not be a slave even in bondage,
trembling with fear advance bravely,
and attack with fury, though badly wounded.

Be as stubborn as a rusting nail,
that refuses to yield though old and ruined,
and do not envy the peacock's plumage,
that drops in fear at the first noise.

Be as a god that never cries,
or as a devil that never prays,
or as the oak whose mighty canopy,
needs of water but does not beg it.

Even when it rolls to the dust,
let your head scowl and bite,
and scream for vengeance.

- Pedro Palacios Almafuerte
Argentinian poet 1854-1917

Believe it or not, this is my mother's favorite poem.
She has thrice survived breast cancer.
She is my guiding light.
God bless her and keep her.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 03:51 PM
Response to Original message
6. Prayers and good thoughts
for your Dad....

and your family........



:hug: :hug:

and a couple of hugs


lost
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 03:52 PM
Response to Original message
7. Good vibes
and best wishes for your dad, sorry man... and for you and yours

that's a rough cancer, I hope he is comfortable and at peace...

I'll pray for healing and send vibes right now...

:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 03:58 PM
Response to Original message
8. I'm very sorry, Aristus
you and he will be in my thoughts.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
libnnc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:06 PM
Response to Original message
9. Thoughts are with you
I can't describe how much I despise pancreatic cancer. I loathe it. It has taken my SO's closest relatives (her older sister and just two weeks ago her mother). Don't be afraid to ask for help from those around you.

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:09 PM
Response to Original message
10. Of course
All fingers are crossed.
Tons of hope and positive vibes to him.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:10 PM
Response to Original message
11. Aristus, my thoughts are with you and your father.
Best of luck to him fighting this.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MissB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:12 PM
Response to Original message
12. Good thoughts!
I'm so sorry your family is going through this at all, let alone at the holidays.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:21 PM
Response to Original message
13. Aristus, I'm very sorry to hear this...
please try to maintain a positive outlook. I'm wishing strength and healing for your father. :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
RainDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:25 PM
Response to Original message
14. so sorry to hear
your dad will be in my thoughts. :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:26 PM
Response to Original message
15. I'm very sorry to hear that.
:hug:

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:31 PM
Response to Original message
16. Wow. My thoughts are with you, your father, and your family.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Frosty1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:38 PM
Response to Original message
17. Sorry to hear that Aristus
I lost my Father to it. At least we had time to say goodbye.
:cry: :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:38 PM
Response to Original message
18. White light and healing vibes for your dad and your family
So sorry to hear this, Aristus. Pancreatic cancer runs in my family, so I'm all-too-well acquainted with that particular disease. Hang in there, okay? :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:42 PM
Response to Original message
19. I am so sorry. Our family has dealt with this terrible disease too. You will be
in our prayers.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:44 PM
Response to Original message
20. Good vibes to you and your father...
:hug:

RL
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 04:48 PM
Response to Original message
21. My heart goes out to you, Aristus ....
:hug:

You know, I've been thinking about my dear departed father all day and then...

.... I saw your post.

:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
RadiationTherapy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 05:02 PM
Response to Original message
22. ******************
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 05:07 PM
Response to Original message
23. Oh, Aristus, I am so sorry.
:hug: :hug: :pals: All my best vibes coming your dad's way and yours. :pals: My heart goes out to you both.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 05:21 PM
Response to Original message
24. Big Hugs For YOU
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:


My dad had colon cancer.......

:hug: :hug: :hi:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Flaxbee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 05:25 PM
Response to Original message
25. I'm so sorry, Aristus. My good vibes and thoughts go
out to you and your family. My sister had chemo, surgery, and now is in the last few weeks of chemo -- it's an arduous process. :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 05:29 PM
Response to Original message
26. You and yours are in my thought
Sorry you all are going through this

:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Stuart G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 05:29 PM
Response to Original message
27. My prayers are with you
Best wishes too.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Bossy Monkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 06:56 PM
Response to Original message
28. You have them. Best to him and to you, Aristus n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 07:04 PM
Response to Original message
29. So sorry.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 07:04 PM
Response to Original message
30. I'm so sorry, Aristus.
Good thoughts for you and your father. :hug: :hug: :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Darth_Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 07:17 PM
Response to Original message
31. All good thoughts and prayers your way, Aristus.
:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
sarge43 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 07:19 PM
Response to Original message
32. Prayers and good thoughts
for your father, your family and you. Strength and comfort

:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 07:32 PM
Response to Original message
33. Good thoughts for you dad, Aristus.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 07:34 PM
Response to Original message
34. I don't know what to say, but maybe a hug could help?
:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
zingaro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-22-07 07:51 PM
Response to Original message
35. SOMEbody's gotta
be the 10%.

Tons of healing headed his way.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Bossy Monkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-23-07 09:11 AM
Response to Original message
36. Kicking your thread for further good wishes, A n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Dystopian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-23-07 09:21 AM
Response to Original message
37.  Dear Aristus....
Sending love and prayers for your father and family....
Hang on to love, hope and faith...
:hug:
peace~
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
hippywife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-23-07 09:37 AM
Response to Original message
38. Many, many good thoughts
as he, you and your family deal with this. :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-23-07 11:18 AM
Response to Original message
39. Sending good vibes to your dad, Aristus.
:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Kajsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-23-07 11:48 AM
Response to Original message
40. My prayers and good thoughts go out to
your father, you and your family, Aristus.

I went through this with my father, 10 1/2 years
ago.

It is good news that the surgeons were able to remove
most of the mass.

Know that your father is in my thoughts and prayers.

:hug: :grouphug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Wed May 01st 2024, 10:10 AM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC