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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 12:44 AM Original message |
Hey, I think my husband is cheating on me... |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 12:46 AM Response to Original message |
1. I think you need more information |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 12:47 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. I asked him and he said no..of course. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 12:52 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Hard place to be |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 12:54 AM Response to Reply #6 |
7. make him what i expect him to be? I thought I knew him... |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 12:57 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. I felt awkward putting that in that post |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:02 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. thank-you... i didn't think you were being rude, i just thought maybe i hadn't been clear. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:15 AM Response to Reply #9 |
13. nah, I am not thinking straight |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:18 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. Haha..my mom always says that.. kind of annoying..cuz she's right! |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:40 AM Response to Reply #16 |
27. I know, I hate it too... |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 12:48 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. And if he is having a change in his life, |
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UndertheOcean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 12:47 AM Response to Original message |
3. He probably wants out , but does not want the guilt |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 12:49 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Well, we are supposed to talk this Sunday, he is at a hotel now |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:04 AM Response to Reply #3 |
10. are you a male? |
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Hawkeye-X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:11 AM Response to Reply #10 |
11. Whoa! Divorce is very sudden. |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:14 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. I thought about counseling, but he doesn't talk to anyone, has friend but |
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UndertheOcean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:16 AM Response to Reply #10 |
14. Yes , although I wish I was not |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:31 AM Response to Reply #14 |
20. you seem like a nice person. |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:17 AM Response to Reply #3 |
15. Catsbrains, when your husband was surprised at your reaction to him saying |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:20 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. That is exactly what I thought. He was being calculating..and was bummed at my response. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:34 AM Response to Reply #15 |
23. I hate to say it, but I had the same reaction |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:38 AM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Thank-you. I can deal with it if he talks straight with me. I love him and I know everyone make |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:40 AM Response to Reply #24 |
26. ... |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:46 AM Response to Reply #26 |
32. that's helpful....he hates cat..lol |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:23 AM Response to Reply #3 |
18. Yea, but is he cheating? or thinking about it? |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:25 AM Response to Reply #3 |
64. It ain't just men, believe me. (nt) |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:28 AM Response to Original message |
19. Come on people.be brutally honest. I need some advice. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:31 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. I think your plan is a good one... |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:34 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. pi's cost $800 for 8 hours and they will only break into 4 hour increments. hardly seems worth it. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:38 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. Do you have a friend that could do it? Someone with a camcorder? |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:41 AM Response to Reply #25 |
28. I have the feeling that his guilt is tremendous..though. obviously i have been wrong before. :) |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:47 AM Response to Reply #28 |
33. finding out leaves you .... |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:51 AM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Yes, I live in a no-fault state. But I could ask for an annulment based on fraud since he said he |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:55 AM Response to Reply #33 |
36. also..i need answers... did he ever love me? I am at an all time low as far as |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 09:43 AM Response to Reply #36 |
59. I wasn't going to chime in, but when I saw this post I got pissed... |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:40 PM Response to Reply #36 |
71. I'm coming from this situation |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:44 AM Response to Reply #25 |
31. thought about that but we all work the same shift, same days off, |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:08 PM Response to Reply #25 |
67. I did this... |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:42 AM Response to Reply #19 |
29. Okay... |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:43 AM Response to Reply #29 |
30. that's reassuring..thanks. I appreciate it. |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:55 AM Response to Original message |
35. OK, you asked for brutal honesty... |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:00 AM Response to Reply #35 |
38. thanks for your honesty...... it's funny because he prides himself on never having |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:04 AM Response to Reply #38 |
40. He may not have ... yet |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:06 AM Response to Reply #40 |
42. Ha..I told him that emotional cheating and having someone lined up is just as bad.. |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:09 AM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Oh boy... so there's a history |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:10 AM Response to Reply #45 |
46. wasn't with me. |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 09:52 AM Response to Reply #35 |
62. If you think he is,he is. You already know it, honey. Move on |
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liberaltrucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:59 AM Response to Original message |
37. LTwife has two words |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:02 AM Response to Reply #37 |
39. I'll need a BIG knife. Haha |
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liberaltrucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:05 AM Response to Reply #39 |
41. She says use a chainsaw if need be |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:22 AM Response to Reply #41 |
49. thanks...have a chainsaw i can borrow? |
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liberaltrucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:31 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. Nah, but I'd be happy to share that bowl |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:33 AM Response to Reply #50 |
51. What if you had to pee in a bowl? then? |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:08 AM Response to Original message |
43. by the way, what do you eat when you are constantly nauseated? |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:09 AM Response to Original message |
44. By the way, I have one bowl left, should I smoke it now. or after Sunday? |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:58 PM Response to Reply #44 |
66. Smoke it now |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:14 AM Response to Original message |
47. My other |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:18 AM Response to Reply #47 |
48. So funny..I asked him if he was gay since our sex-life was obsolete and he |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:47 AM Response to Reply #48 |
52. Ya. |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:51 AM Response to Reply #52 |
53. Thanks. I appreciate the good vibes. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:12 AM Response to Reply #48 |
63. That does it, that means he is cheating, IMO. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 05:06 AM Response to Original message |
54. It sound like he may be cheating. I don't understand why though. |
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suninvited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 08:15 AM Response to Original message |
55. When I "saw the signs" |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 08:18 AM Response to Original message |
56. Did I stumble into Dear Abby.com |
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gbate (900 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 09:51 AM Response to Reply #56 |
61. This is the best advice. |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 01:55 PM Response to Reply #56 |
65. I want my husband.....so I will suggest marriage counseling, but he will most likelly say no. |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 09:20 AM Response to Original message |
57. red flags all over the place. |
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Sweet Freedom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 09:28 AM Response to Original message |
58. Can you access his cell phone or the phone records? |
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4_Legs_Good (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:21 PM Response to Reply #58 |
69. Yikes! So much invasion of privacy!!! |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:44 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. Yup. |
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riona (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
60. I'm pretty sure he's cheating |
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4_Legs_Good (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:16 PM Response to Original message |
68. He may not be cheating, but he may want to be... |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
70. Sounds like it, but then again, you are giving us only the supporting evidence |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
73. He sounds untrustworthy. |
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