lost-in-nj
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Thu Sep-18-08 05:51 PM
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What the FUCK goes through peoples minds??? |
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My daughter came over today and was ok then she sat down and said..... Mom can I talk to you?
of course (I said)
Dad came in my office today to ask me if it was alright if Illiana shared the office with me (she is my stbxh girlfriend) he left me almost 2 years ago for her, and this is the first time she has EVER talked to me about it
my daughter asked her father
HUH??? what the fuck?? (literally)
Dad why would I want to spend 8 hours a day with her??? what is it you want me to do???
NO!!!!
he said
why is everyone being a baby about this???
(one of my BFs refused to work with her in his office to)
she asked
Can't you see???????
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god damn it
this is Jessie's time
no one elses
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oh yeah
confirmation she has moved in......
with her kids 11 and 9......
I wish my divorce was final
why does he not see what he is doing to her..... both of my (our) kids
he's not staying over for her wedding, for the brunch the next day, either.....
father of the bride my ass
I am all over the map tonight shocked SAD MAD disquested shocked.......................................
and my heart is so broken for my kids.....
my daughter has to work with this whore......
her father is retiring in a few weeks
no need to comment
just needed to vent
thanks again DU
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madinmaryland
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Thu Sep-18-08 05:56 PM
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Some people just don't get.
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lost-in-nj
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Thu Sep-18-08 05:57 PM
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thanks friend
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lost
I feel so bad for that horse (LOL)
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:15 PM
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3. totally unbelievable . . . |
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was this clown always so clueless?
i do feel for you and your kids.
absolutely tasteless!
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lost-in-nj
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:19 PM
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yes he did not want to realize we had brains.....
he will learn
as soon as I get sober
because
I would say things I didn't want to
in real life right now
:rofl:
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:24 PM
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:17 PM
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Poor you. I'm sorry he's such a clueless jerk. :hug:
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:20 PM
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:hug:
and my kids are ALL i care about right now....
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:22 PM
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7. Has it always been all about him? |
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Edited on Thu Sep-18-08 06:22 PM by chimpsrsmarter
he sounds like a narcissist.
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:42 PM
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i wished it was....
but he used to adore us
his kids were everything...........
thats why its so hard......
I looked into narcissism when this all started
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thanks
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:46 PM
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13. i'm sorry for you and your kids. |
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My Dad cheated on my Mom and was quite the douchebag through most of my childhood, needless to say we don't have a good relationship, it's ok, civil and business like but not warm. Your soon to be ex might want to really think about what his relationship with his children is going to end up like if he keeps up the assholery.
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Thu Sep-18-08 07:00 PM
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I just sent him an email
it's the only way he will get in touch with me
I told him I am more than an email address
if he wants to get in touch
call
i will no longer answer emails
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:30 PM
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My dad did some similar crap when my parents got divorced..Its tough...:hug:
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:32 PM
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My stepmother actually wasn't a bad person but my father was so obnoxiously obvious trying to foist her on us that we ended up resenting both of them. And at least he hadn't left my mother for her (he had left my mother for someone else - when she dumped him, he found the stepmother).
I hope I've been a better parent than that. ~sigh~
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Thu Sep-18-08 06:43 PM
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Thu Sep-18-08 07:01 PM
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15. It seems like he only sees life from his own perspective |
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and only really understands what he wants, and what he feels, and what he thinks. :(
That is really sad that he's dragging other people through his life this way.
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Thu Sep-18-08 07:17 PM
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you coming to NJ soon?/
Thanks for caring
I know
you have your own problems
:hug:
love you
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Thu Sep-18-08 07:21 PM
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19. I would love to come to NJ soon. |
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I have the time after next weekend. :)
We all have our own problems, but that is no reason not to care for each other. :hug:
You are wonderful. :loveya:
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Thu Sep-18-08 07:14 PM
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16. What a fucking moran! |
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I can't believe that he could be so insensitive to the situation and even come close to having to put your daughter in such a situation where she even has to answer such a question.
Sorry for this I know you don't need more drama in the situation so all I can say is it must be proving that he had some kind of brain fart somewhere that took away his ability to empathize or see reality.
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Thu Sep-18-08 07:18 PM
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Thank you
:hug: this sucks
me
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