What's the difference between "I love you and no matter how long we're apart,

[crim son]

we still belong together" and "You love me so I only need to check up on you once a week to get laid and I know you'll stick around"?

Curious. God, edited for another typo.

[matcom]

1. gettin' laid is MUCH more fun

:D

[crim son]

4. True!

It's one reason to keep this thing going! :P

[Lincolngirl]

2. Actual Quotes?

Did he really say both of these things?

Does he live close by. Is it easy for you to see each other?

If so, it crap. He should want to see you more than once a week, if there is time, and he is close. Otherwise I say Overboard!!
What's he doing the rest of the week?

[crim son]

5. No, he's said neither but implied the former.

And he lives about ten minutes away but sees me on Saturday nights to Sunday afternoons. His work is not steady. What bothers me is that he expects me to drop everything when he has ten minutes, but when I'd like the company - say, the night of the election when I was soooooo happy, he couldn't be bothered. He tends to be absent for the big moments, you know?

I think I must be a high-maintenance lady. That's what the ex aways said. Hi, Lincolngirl! I had to check your profile just to be sure you weren't in Lincoln, Maine. Alas, almost nobody is from Maine. :hi:

[Lincolngirl]

8. More than once a

week isn't high maintenance. That's bullshit.

I won't tell you to dump him, that's not my place, but don't put up with that crap.

See what happens if you don't have sex with him the next time he stops by for his weekly "visit". That should be an indicator.

Hi to you in Maine.

There are plenty of people there. I've seen profiles from there anyway!

and

:hi:

right back at ya!

(lincolngirl is because I live in Illinois, and am born on Lincoln's Birthday!)

[SPKrazy]

3. Perhaps nothing

but probably something :P

I'd say the second one takes for granted that you will be there, and the first is more a hope, unfulfilled.

The second one also may have little to do with mutual love, or it might.

All depends on the people involved...

Just my opinion :evilgrin:


Hi Crimmie

:hug:

;)

[crim son]

6. Yeah, baby.

Way not to take sides! :evilgrin:

Hi pawpicker. Did you hear my car exploded? It's been a bad week and I am seriously resenting being alone tonight. How are you? :hug:

[Xipe Totec]

7. Wherever you may be tonight:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8YvRs-1D-60&feature=rela...


Wherever you may be tonight,
you'll be happy to know,
that however thin my luck ran,
I never sold your silk scarf
for a piece of bread.

And that I never,
however tired I was,
abandoned your memory,
by the side of the road,

And however cold or sad night became,
I never cast into the fire,
a single one of your kisses.

Because of you,
the sun shone on me once,
and when I think of you,
it shines anew,
undimmed by melancholy,
or the fleeting loves of an eternity.

Wherever you may be tonight,
you'll be happy to know,
that I could have forgotten,
but chose not to.

And however cold or sad night became,
I never cast into the fire,
a single one of your kisses.

Wherever you may be,
If you remember me...


- Joan Manuel Serrat

[crim son]

9. Beautiful song, beautiful words.

I wish I could feel like that instead of always allowing the fear of being alone to dominate every other sensation. Thanks, Xipe Totec.

[Xipe Totec]

13. You need a pick-me-up

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyETUcR08hI

[crim son]

14. I love it!

It makes me want to a) be in Mexico having a drink and b) be living my next life w/out arthritis. I can't wait to DANCE again!

[Xipe Totec]

16. Me too! I haven't danced like that since...

well,... never...

Aren't they awesome?!

[crim son]

17. They are.

Like I said, next life!

[MorningGlow]

10. Not a loser/Loser

Who is this dipshit who is giving you a weekly booty call? (Did I miss something? I'm always missing something...)

[crim son]

11. He's not a dipshit, I don't think.

He's just a guy who isn't really great at relationships (I've had the same boyfriend for almost two years now, just for the record) and the "closer" we get, the freer he feels to absent himself. Me, I'm a needy wench these days (on edit: or should I say "these years"?) :D Hi, MorningGlow.

[MorningGlow]

12. Okay

Then just acting dipshitty on occasion. Boyfriend needs to step up and do the "friend"/companion part of the whole relationship thing. I don't think you're being needy--just expecting proper SO behavior.

Sorry if I'm being harsh. I'm feeling feisty tonight, for some reason! :hi:

[crim son]

15. No, no. Your feistiness is nothing to be sorry about!

First, my post sounds very defensive so obiously he's being an ass IMHO. It's just that I think he's intrinsically an ass sometimes, and it can be difficult. He'd say the same thing about me, I'm pretty sure. :loveya: No worries.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

18. good luck with that.

sounds like an asshole to me. sorry.

[Danger Mouse]

19. There's quite a difference.

I think.
:shrug:

[Lil Missy]

20. It means he just wants a fuck buddy. Sorry.

[RetroLounge]

21. Just find 6 more guys and fill your dance card...

that might show him...

:hi:

RL

[Aristus]

23. I'll say. What self-respecting guy wouldn't be battering down crimmie's door

to get his name on her dance card?

:loveya: crim son...

[Genevieve]

22. booty call.

sorry, crim son.