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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 06:38 PM Original message |
What do you say to an old person who says something racist. |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 06:43 PM Response to Original message |
1. To me it seems patronizing to not disagree or argue with someone cause of their demographics |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
2. not sure what exactly you are getting at here, |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 06:46 PM Response to Original message |
3. There's not much you can do -- it's unlikely anything you say |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 06:52 PM Response to Original message |
4. It sounds like she's being a bit thoughtless, not mean spirited. |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
5. To me there's a difference between malicious racism and your grandmother |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 07:00 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. I agree I don't think she is being mean. |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 03:23 PM Response to Reply #5 |
23. My grandmother does that too |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 07:04 PM Response to Original message |
7. Interesting that you mention this... |
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Moondog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
8. Who did she vote for? Actions can speak louder than words, particularly |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 07:18 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. she has never voted. |
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Moondog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 07:21 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Well, I guess you have to content yourself with the belief that she means well. |
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Karl Heinrich (12 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-07-09 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
11. I have an elderly uncle who is quite racist. |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 02:30 AM Response to Original message |
12. Depends on context. If someone says something that could be interpreted as racist |
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asdjrocky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 02:37 AM Response to Original message |
13. It took me forever to get my mom to stop saying- |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 07:50 AM Response to Original message |
14. Most of the time I let it pass |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 08:16 AM Response to Original message |
15. It is best to ignore the comment and continue the conversation as if nothing had been said. |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
16. Well, if that old person happens to be a DUer... |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
17. If she's sharp enough for a deep conversation... |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
18. Is that REALLY racist? |
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RidinMyDonkey (290 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
19. My grandmother is the same way |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
20. Since it's grandmother, you can say "Grandmother, it's 2009 - we don't say that any more." |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
21. that's pretty mild |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
22. You Keep Quiet |
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DeepBlueC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 06:59 PM Response to Reply #22 |
28. It's diplomatic, even polite |
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rcrush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
24. All the old people in my family are racist |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 03:59 PM Response to Original message |
25. I work with an old bastard... |
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Tikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
26. "Grandma, when I am your age.... |
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Parche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
27. you slap the hell out of them |
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