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Juche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:09 PM
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Has anyone ever lived in a co-op or commune
I am looking into a short term trip to San Francisco, and one of the things I found was co-ops. Basically about 10-12 people live in a house and sleep 4 to a bedroom.

One of the co-ops in Berkeley was charging $350 a month, but for that you get a place to sleep (share bunk beds with 3 other people in a private room), all your utilities paid and the co-op buys organic food in bulk (beans, grain, meat, etc) and cooks a good deal of your meals for you.

This is why I love creative liberal people. Only they could figure out how to pay for food, shelter and utilities in a suburb of one of the most expensive cities on earth (San Francisco) for $350/month.

So with the economy in the shitter, job being scarce and me being a fairly progressive, creative liberal (I think I have high intrapersonal intelligence, which means I like to philosophize about motivations and situations) this sounds like a cool way to spend some time.

What are the drawbacks aside from personality conflicts (uber-artsy people can be interesting and cool, but they can also be some of the meanest, most insecure people out there in my experience) and a lack of privacy?
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vadawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 04:24 PM
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1. not unless i was related to them or had known them for ever
though it would be like being back in the military, i value my own space to much now but it might suit you. Though you may end up killing your bunk mates..
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 09:27 PM
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2. If I were single (no partner, no child) I would give it a try
I'm not willing to try integrating my family into a co-op or commune, but if it were just me, I'd try it.

That said, I don't have any salient advice to offer you. But for a short-term trip, why not give it a try?
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valerief Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-23-09 09:30 PM
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3. Don't forget the Saturday night orgies, too! nt
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Juche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 12:42 AM
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4. A shared 2 person bedroom might be better
I am a fairly private person, and there are places in SF or the bay that are offering a shared bedroom with utilities for $400/month. I don't get free food with that setup, but hopefully I get a bit more privacy.

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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 09:03 AM
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5. Yes
In Boston. A macrobiotic house and a vegetarian house in Ipswich years ago.
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Juche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 10:13 AM
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7. How was it
Dish, dish, dish.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 12:32 PM
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8. The macro house was filled with whacko's, but we dined like royalty every night
The house in Ipswich was occupied by writers, artists, wilderness types who crashed there for a week or so before heading back out to the woods; misfits, weirdos, and madmen. There was lots of toilet paper arguments--who should buy it, who shouldn't use so much of it. House meetings were insane. Everyone had an issue, we never solved a thing. Lots of music, weed, alcohol. I loved every second of it.
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-24-09 09:07 AM
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6. Keep a stash of toilet paper
just sayin :)

:hi:
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