Do your friends scare you with their behaviours?

[Darth_Kitten]

After divorcing her creepier than creep husband, my friend is now living with a guy she met through an online site.

He moved in with her, doesn't help with rent, or groceries, gave her a teeny tiny engagement ring on Valentine's day ( "I own you now" he told her), favours his own kids over her daughter, who hates him and has told her mother it's her or him. My other friend who has met him told me he's rather a control freak.

Well, a few days after Valentine's, the engagement is over. He's still there :silly: and was to have been moved out by the weekend.

I guess he's still there. Yeesh.

Of course we (her friends) are concerned, but we are more than a little exasperated as well.
I could never put some bum over the interests of my kid. :(

[blue neen]

1. Yes, actually a few of them do.

Somehow though, I usually end up feeling like they don't really want to do anything constructive to improve their situations.

You're right...it can be quite exasperating.

[backwoodsbob]

2. only one

he seldom drinks but is DANGEROUS when he does in a mma local champion could bend you into a pretzel kind of way.

Once watched him get stupid at a party where he was clearly in the wrong and no one was going to back him up...he didn't need it..took 4 guys solo.

Nicest guy when sober..the worst when drunk