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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 11:33 AM Original message |
Am I being overly loyal to my SO? |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
1. Hong is going to kick your ass. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 11:53 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. One time when we were on vacation |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 04:04 PM Response to Reply #3 |
28. "kill me as if I were a chicken in her village" |
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GCP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
2. Couldn't you have gone over with a friend? |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 11:54 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. I suppose, but all I was thinking was "Not a good idea to talk to this girl" |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 06:42 PM Response to Reply #4 |
32. You were correct. The young woman was flirting. Listen to Gene Pitney's "24 Hours from Tulsa"! |
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MiddleFingerMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 12:00 PM Response to Original message |
5. I think, that for all sorts of justifiable and reasonable reasons... |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 12:03 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. Oh, I remind her all the time about that last one |
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MiddleFingerMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 12:27 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. "Barfly" was about Charles Bukowski -- one of my favorite poets. |
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Old Troop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 04:16 PM Response to Original message |
8. Couldn't you have just disabled her? |
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kimi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
9. No, not overly loyal at all |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 07:07 PM Response to Original message |
10. You went with your gut and I think you did right. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
11. there are things i reframe from, or do cause they are important to hubby. and they are not |
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RandomThoughts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
12. I do not believe in loyalty |
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Moondog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
13. People |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-01-10 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
14. You did a good thing. |
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SwampG8r (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 12:06 AM Response to Original message |
15. lemmee see |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 12:13 AM Original message |
you know what they say.... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 12:13 AM Response to Original message |
16. Did you have anything to gain by talking to her? |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 06:04 AM Response to Reply #16 |
23. A free and fast vasectomy courtesy of Hong's foot? |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 12:27 AM Response to Original message |
17. Okay, I'm not going to kiss your ass like everyone else here is doing. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 06:11 AM Response to Reply #17 |
24. I'm actually not the jealous type |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 04:09 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. is it a different cultural thing in China to sit down in a bar with someone? |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-03-10 12:52 AM Response to Reply #29 |
36. For starters, she's had to get used to the fact I have female friends |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-03-10 02:50 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. hmm, that sounds more cultural! |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
18. I think you did the right thing |
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lillypaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 01:30 AM Response to Original message |
19. No offense |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 06:13 AM Response to Reply #19 |
25. I'm not worried, it's just a matter of protocol. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 04:10 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. what's the cultural basis? Is that true of most Chinese women? |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-03-10 12:50 AM Response to Reply #30 |
35. Yes, they get jealous and protective. A Chinese friend of mine thinks it's actually genetic |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-03-10 02:48 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. interestingly, more partners for women might benefit them genetically.. |
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Rhiannon12866 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 02:10 AM Response to Original message |
20. I think you did the right thing. |
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soleiri (913 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 02:18 AM Response to Original message |
21. I would have talked to her |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 06:43 PM Response to Reply #21 |
33. Why? Do you always accede to the requests of strangers? |
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soleiri (913 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 08:30 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. If they are innocuous requests |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 02:58 AM Response to Original message |
22. I think you did fine. |
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WillParkinson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 08:45 AM Response to Original message |
26. Way too loyal! |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 04:02 PM Response to Original message |
27. yeah, maybe a little- are you getting more "domesticated" in your old age? |
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RandomThoughts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-02-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. Good point. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-03-10 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
37. No. But maybe too self-absorbed. |
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