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tabbycat31 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-15-11 09:18 AM
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I need a hug
I am 1000 miles from home (NJ) right now on a work assignment in WI. I got a call last night saying that my beloved Tabby is taking his final trip to the vet tomorrow. I'd been mentally preparing myself for this moment, but it is killing me that I can't be around to say goodbye to him. He was there for me since 8th grade.
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betharina Donating Member (313 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-15-11 09:28 AM
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1. so sorry...
((hugs)).
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-15-11 09:33 AM
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2. Sorry Tabbycat
:hug::hug::hug:
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siligut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-15-11 09:51 AM
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3. Talk to him over the phone
I have done this for years when I am away, it works and you will both feel more comforted. :hug: And I am sorry.
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TorchTheWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-17-11 07:53 AM
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17. what a marvelous idea!
I bet the vet would be happy to have a phone hookup right at the time of the deed, too, so the OP can feel like she's right there with her kitty sending him on his way, and kitty would know she was there as well. I would definitely talk to the vet about doing that if the "last appointment" is at a time when the OP can do a phone call. I bet it's been done a lot before by other people.


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era veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-15-11 10:17 AM
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4. Sorry for the loss
So sad to lose a friend, sweet memories.
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marzipanni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-15-11 11:03 AM
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5. You helped him live a good, long life
:hug:
I agree with Siligut, talk to him on the phone. Is he with your parents?
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-15-11 10:47 PM
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6. vibes
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Flaxbee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-15-11 11:49 PM
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7. I'm so sorry, tabbycat31. He knows you love him.
If you can talk to him over the phone, try to.

:hug:
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-16-11 01:34 AM
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8. i can't imagine
many :hug: to you
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stuntcat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-16-11 06:28 PM
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9. ((Tabby))
It looks like he's been a very lucky cat with a good life :hug:
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Pool Hall Ace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-16-11 08:12 PM
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10. You've got hugs
Talking to Tabby on the phone. Or connect with him spiritually. :hug:

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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-16-11 09:07 PM
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11. hugs
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woo me with science Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-16-11 10:03 PM
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12. I am so sorry.
:hug:
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-16-11 11:38 PM
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13. Lots of hugs for you.
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kimi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-17-11 01:00 AM
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14. I'm so sorry, really
Even when you know it's prepared for, it's never really that way. Most of us with those companions know the pain.

Hugs. :hug:
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nolabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-17-11 01:11 AM
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15. Oh, I'm sorry. You deserve a hug. It's a tough situation.
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KT2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-17-11 03:36 AM
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16. Hugs to you
I think you are there with him and he knows that.
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Bertha Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-17-11 07:54 AM
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18. tabbycat
I am so sorry. :hug:
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TorchTheWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-17-11 07:58 AM
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19. Oh damn! How terrible!
I'm so sorry! I'd be beside myself if I couldn't be there for my dog's big journey. Big hugs to you.


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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-17-11 08:01 AM
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20. Safe passage to your Tabby.
May he be free from suffering. Peace and comfort to you and yours. :hug:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-17-11 12:19 PM
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21. HUG
:hug:

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snagglepuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-17-11 02:17 PM
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22. I'm so sorry. What an emotionally difficult situation. May he have a safe journey
and may you find peace in knowing you have given your beloved furry friend a very happy life. Big hugs.:grouphug:
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