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My friend of 50 years died yesterday. I'd known Dave McGowan since grade seven.

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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-26-11 10:20 PM
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My friend of 50 years died yesterday. I'd known Dave McGowan since grade seven.
Edited on Tue Apr-26-11 10:49 PM by ohiosmith

He was one of the "Fearsome Foursome" the term by which he, Carlos, Dave 2, and I were known. McGowan and I were estranged for more than a quarter of a century due to my opposition to the war in Viet Nam. He had enlisted and served as a gunner in the 1st. Calvary. His chopper was shot down in 1970 and he lost a kidney from shrapnel wounds. We got together in 1991 and agreed to disagree about the war. Dave had a number of strokes over the past year. Yesterday one killed him.

I'll miss my friend.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-26-11 10:35 PM
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1. I'm so sorry!
:hug:
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Amerigo Vespucci Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-26-11 10:39 PM
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2. Sorry to hear that...
...friends are in our lives, but more importantly, they're in our hearts...and it's clear from your post that Dave was your friend. I'm sure he was also grateful for your friendship.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-26-11 10:45 PM
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3. I am very sorry.
:hug:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-26-11 10:49 PM
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4. I am so very sorry! *hugs*
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nolabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-26-11 11:06 PM
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5. What a tragic and beautiful story. Peace to you.
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kimi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-11 01:08 AM
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6. I am so sorry
Condolences to you, and to his family. What an awesome thing, to be able to get back together after such a long estrangement. That's something to be cherished.

Hugs.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-11 01:17 AM
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7. I'm so sorry, my dear ohiosmith...
It's really tough to lose your good friends, anytime.

My deepest condolences to you, and to all who loved him...

I hope your good memories of the times you shared will help sustain you in this time of terrible grief...

Safe passage to him...

:hug:
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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-11 03:05 PM
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8. Thank all of you for your kind words and thoughts.
:hi:
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Rambis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-11 03:08 PM
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9. Sad indeed
:cry:
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RedCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-11 03:19 PM
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10. 50 years is a long time to have a friend. You were lucky.
Sorry to hear of his passing.
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