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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 06:22 PM
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Am I the only male who does this?
I like to stay home during the day, download an incredibly sad movie - one that I know will make me cry - and watch it. Usually with a beer or two. The part I want to get is the crying point. Endorphins flow at that point, and I feel so much better.

Or am I a freak?
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petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 06:24 PM
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1. You're a total freak
Who stops at "a beer or two" over the course of a whole movie? :shrug:
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 06:26 PM
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2. well ya know...a beer or two or three or seventeen...
Of if you're out of beer, Vodka and OJ can work
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petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 06:32 PM
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5. I apologize - I foolishly assumed you were using the bullshit socially-constructed
definition of "two" (i.e., a pair of things) rather than the correct and historically accurate male-approved version (i.e., a couple more than a lot)... :)
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 06:27 PM
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3. Yeah, freak. Scotch works much better.
:-)
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 06:31 PM
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4. That was suggested to my by an Irish-American no less...
He didn't suggest Bushmills, but GLENFIDICH

Thing is that stuff reminds me of my worst hangovers
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 06:32 PM
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6. Moderation in all things.
Even moderation.
:-)
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 09:16 PM
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7. i thought all males did this
Edited on Fri Apr-29-11 09:17 PM by pitohui
females don't have time to sit home, download crap movies and get drunk, this is a male activity around here

you're not a freak, you're just doing what guys do, unless all males are a freak
there's a billion dollar movie industry and i don't see any women sitting home all day watching movies, so it almost has to be the males...

haven't you ever noticed, every guy who lives in his mom's basement criticizing sf comic books and movies all day is a guy...don't be that guy...

most gals don't even know how to download movies or at least the gals in my circle don't, we're too busy for that
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freshwest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 12:47 AM
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13. I've never known a man that did this. But it's his life.
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UTUSN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 09:51 PM
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8. Yep. n/t
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Generic Brad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 10:47 PM
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9. You are perfectly normal with one exception
We're not supposed to admit to that. Did you lose your copy of "The Man Book" given to all of us in the secret ceremony we are forced to participate in at the onset of puberty?
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provis99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-29-11 11:17 PM
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10. you're a normal male.
You see, watching the movie is just an excuse for consuming large quantities of beer.
What's more male than that?
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Cid_B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 12:42 AM
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11. Freak...
Go watch Boondock Saints or something nice and violent...
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freshwest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 12:44 AM
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12. You're doing an excellent job of manipulating your brain chemistry for a desired effect.
EFT is faster, though.
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 01:02 AM
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14. Nope, I do this as well
at least 3 times a year...my movie of choice, Once were Warriors....
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Tripod Donating Member (534 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 01:16 AM
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15. I have done this, but I can't live here.
I have tried, but the day turns into a week, then a month, then a year, then I wonder what happened.
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Riftaxe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 01:20 AM
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16. Beats the snot out of self induced tribalism
and rooting for some pharmaceutically enhanced athletes just to drink beer!
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Paradoxical Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 05:46 AM
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17. freak,
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zanana1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 09:23 AM
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18. It's nice to know that men do this, too.
I manage to do it without the beer, but I'm a woman and that's in the handbook.
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Taitertots Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 06:37 PM
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19. Sitting around alone, drinking beer, and crying
I sure hope this isn't becoming a new fad.
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RedCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 07:16 PM
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20. It's called cleaning your eyes!
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-30-11 09:48 PM
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21. Happy people are slightly delusional. Sad people see reality more clearly. Good
to be sad if you are going through a rough time so that you can come to a new reality and accept a loss. Crying is brilliant in fact. Good for you.
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-01-11 11:17 AM
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22. Crying makes you produce endorphins
Natural painkillers not unlike Opium or Heroin

There's a reason you feel better when you cry
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