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canadian_is_cold (207 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:44 PM Original message |
What wrong with being called 'Sweetie'? |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
1. I've noticed that since I turned 50... |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:49 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. I know what you mean. I am 55 and at a recent visit to my local 7-11 |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:53 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. GAH! nt |
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livetohike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:53 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. I'm 55 and everyone here (rural PA) says "hon" |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:53 PM Response to Reply #1 |
9. Ma'am does it for me. nt |
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mac2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
2. It's a bit too familiar for some women. |
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anonymous171 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
3. A certain section of Hillary's rabid base obsesses over this kind of stuff |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:59 PM Response to Reply #3 |
24. Yeah, like the section with self-respect |
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casus belli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:04 PM Response to Reply #24 |
68. What if it's an older woman? Is that different? And if so, why? n/t |
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Hugabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:26 PM Response to Reply #24 |
80. But is it okay for a woman to call a man 'sweetie' or any other term of endearment? |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:01 PM Response to Reply #3 |
64. Women don't like to be called names, period. |
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Triana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
4. I have no idea. It's just bullshit! He can call me sweetie. I won't mind! n/t |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:51 PM Response to Original message |
6. I personally don't mind it overall, but there are some people from |
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highplainsdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:54 PM Response to Original message |
10. It's condescending, coming from someone who isn't close to you. |
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OzarkDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:56 PM Response to Reply #10 |
15. Particularly when that someone doesn't care about women's issues |
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anonymous171 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:57 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. And Hillary does? The Iraq War helped women across the world, same with her for Cluster Bombs. |
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OzarkDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 10:47 PM Response to Reply #19 |
60. Hillary's health care reform plan |
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Divernan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:58 PM Response to Reply #15 |
21. Duhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!! NARAL just endorsed him. |
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OzarkDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 10:46 PM Response to Reply #21 |
59. Abortion rights aren't the biggest issue for women |
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Cha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 01:23 AM Response to Reply #10 |
88. No, it's not..it's a term of |
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Popol Vuh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 03:21 AM Response to Reply #10 |
93. Its a complimentary way of saying hello |
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cliffordu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
11. I'm 56, a straight white "working class" 'Murkin.... |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
12. The sad thing is that every word or comment that Obama makes will be dissected and analyzed. |
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livetohike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:56 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. That's so true, but the Obamas can in no way say anything |
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VolcanoJen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
13. Down here in the 'Nati, the most southern town in the north... |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
14. It trivializes women, especially professional women |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:23 PM Response to Reply #14 |
47. Broadcasting Is a Field That's Dominated By Men |
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Brundle_Fly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:01 PM Response to Reply #14 |
63. you just trivialized |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
16. Are you for real??? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:58 PM Response to Reply #16 |
23. Obama supporters appears to live in Obamaland. |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:00 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. They live in their own little world. |
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Oleladylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:20 PM Response to Reply #23 |
42. do they work? |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:29 PM Response to Reply #23 |
49. And Hillary's supporters are such gracious elders |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:26 PM Response to Reply #16 |
48. hey, it's maybe better than 'whore' |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 12:11 AM Response to Reply #48 |
85. Yeah, there's no sexism in this country |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 09:55 AM Response to Reply #85 |
95. oh sweetie-pie |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 10:15 AM Response to Reply #95 |
97. So it appears........ |
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MediaBabe (610 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
18. It's demeaning. Would he call a male reporter Sweetie? |
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Oleladylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:21 PM Response to Reply #18 |
43. Thank You! |
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provis99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:32 PM Response to Reply #18 |
53. since women employees at stores call me "honey" |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
20. when someone is not close to you and calls you sweetie it is demeaing |
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msallied (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:15 PM Response to Reply #20 |
32. I never felt it to be demeaning at all. |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:33 PM Response to Reply #32 |
54. No. It is more than "individual" It is the type of insensitive stuff |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
22. Coming from someone with whom I have no affectionate ties |
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democrattotheend (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:10 PM Response to Reply #22 |
28. I think Bill Clinton referred to Obama as a kid at one point |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:17 PM Response to Reply #28 |
36. I think he knows perfectly well it was inappropriate |
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highplainsdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:05 PM Response to Original message |
26. By the way, just asking the question in the OP shows how pervasive sexism is. |
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highplainsdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:05 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. I do admire Obama for realizing he owed her an apology. |
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canadian_is_cold (207 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:15 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. I am a woman. I am simply not bothered by being called sweetie. |
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Oleladylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:17 PM Response to Reply #31 |
38. i am a woman too...and I tell any idiot that tries that less than term of |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:30 PM Response to Reply #31 |
50. really? |
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canadian_is_cold (207 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 10:03 PM Response to Reply #50 |
58. It is hardly the same situation. |
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Brundle_Fly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:08 PM Response to Reply #58 |
72. I totally agree... |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 09:14 AM Response to Reply #58 |
94. it is basically what he said |
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msallied (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:12 PM Response to Original message |
29. I admit, I use it a lot with friends and family alike. "Hon" as well. |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:18 PM Response to Reply #29 |
39. With friends and family alike |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:31 PM Response to Reply #29 |
51. It was a reporter, professional |
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JoFerret (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
30. Amazing to me that you have to ask. |
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DU GrovelBot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:15 PM Response to Original message |
33. ## DON'T DONATE TO DEMOCRATIC UNDERGROUND! ## |
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frickaline (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:15 PM Response to Original message |
34. I think it's a matter of context |
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Oleladylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
35. Chauvanist pigs...freely use terms of endearment...it's demeaning.. |
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msallied (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:17 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. Translation: |
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Oleladylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:19 PM Response to Reply #37 |
40. Mam is just fine...other than that fogetaboutit! |
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Brundle_Fly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:18 PM Response to Reply #40 |
78. or another... |
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eek MD (249 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:44 PM Response to Reply #35 |
56. Next time I'm called it down in Southern VA.. |
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TheDonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
41. I'd be very happy if Obama called me "sweetie" !!!! |
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Oleladylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:22 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. ride on, donkey! |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
44. I am 50yo... |
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Oleladylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:22 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. suwell! |
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L0oniX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
52. Nothing is wrong with that ...honey. |
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FlaGranny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:37 PM Response to Original message |
55. Obviously |
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akbacchus_BC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 12:07 AM Response to Reply #55 |
84. Bingo, I so totally agree with you for a variety of reasons. People |
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Seabiscuit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
57. By now it's more than a "bad habit". It's demeaning. |
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Brundle_Fly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
61. nice OP |
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canadian_is_cold (207 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 10:57 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. Thank you dear ;) |
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casus belli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:11 PM Response to Reply #62 |
74. How DARE you?! ;) n/t |
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jillan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
65. It's patronizing. |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
66. It is because this woman was at work, doing her job. Sweetie was inappropriate. |
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Brundle_Fly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:05 PM Response to Reply #66 |
70. so he would have been better stating... |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:14 PM Response to Reply #70 |
77. I am sure he did not mean it in a demeaning way |
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casus belli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
67. If I had a dime for every time I've been called "Hon" |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:04 PM Response to Original message |
69. Nothing if your name is "sweetie," if not it's degrading and dehumanizing |
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Brundle_Fly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:06 PM Response to Reply #69 |
71. My Name is Sweetie!! |
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crankychatter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:10 PM Response to Original message |
73. I accidentally called my Doctor, "Hon" once |
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casus belli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:12 PM Response to Reply #73 |
76. I like to call it "Grasping at straws for lack of any better ammunition" n/t |
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crankychatter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:12 PM Response to Original message |
75. Better tell every waitress in every Waffle House South of the Mason-Dixon to cut it out |
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Brundle_Fly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:21 PM Response to Original message |
79. Hillary called me |
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Hugabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
81. I was called "Sweetie" by a female cashier one time - should I complain and get her fired? |
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Brundle_Fly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:42 PM Response to Reply #81 |
83. depends |
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Enrique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-14-08 11:42 PM Response to Original message |
82. suppose he had called Hillary "sweetie" during a debate |
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akbacchus_BC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 12:12 AM Response to Original message |
86. Thanks for your thread, guess we Canadians do like terms of |
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ToeBot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
87. Not a thing, I think it's fabulous, absolutely fabulous!! nt |
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JCMach1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 01:32 AM Response to Original message |
89. the same thing that is wrong with the term 'boy' |
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myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 01:37 AM Response to Original message |
90. Well since all of my gay friends and I call each other Dahhring, I think I need |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 02:05 AM Response to Original message |
91. I don't like it. |
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HuffleClaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 03:14 AM Response to Original message |
92. it is MOSTLY faux outrage |
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patricia92243 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 10:05 AM Response to Original message |
96. It's my Toy Poodle's name. Was I wrong to name her that? Just kidding! To use the term "sweety" |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-15-08 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
98. Is wrong because Obama *had no answer to the question about American workers* nt |
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