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It's a big code word for them. You are right, a few of them will say 'Ha! His choice to respond shows that we struck a nerve!'. But they do so with nowhere near the force that they'd argue 'he ducked the charges! In the end, his whole policy is one of appeasement!'. Anything less than total attack is appeasement in their eyes.
Let me illustrate the psychology with a personal story from a few years ago. I was walking home from amartial arts class, through a dense crowd celebrating a street party (I think it was Cinco de Mayo). As I was walking, i saw this big, beefy and rather drunk looking guy pushing his way through the crowd. The kind of guy who kicks cats for fun.
Well, for some reason he came right towards me. I'm a small skinny guy (maybe 115 pounds to his 200+), so perhaps he felt it would be amusing to push me out of his way; he had his arms up in front of him (like when your arms are folding) and he was just plowing through people. I only had a second or two to even notice this before he was pushing up against me. Well, as I mentioned I study martial arts, so with a light touch I directed his forward force to one side and down he went, carried by his own momentum.
I glanced around for a cop, but he quickly got on his feet and rushed me. So I did it again, wondering now how I was going to explain this if a cop did show up - obviously, i didn't want to get arrested! He sprang up, really angry now, said he was going to kick the shit out of me, and grabbed my arms, presumably planning to follow up with a head-butt. By this time I was getting alarmed, so I freed myself and pushed him down hard, enough to really hurt when he hit the ground. He was pretty pissed and started yelling that I was a motherfucker and so on but he didn't get up this time.
While I was wondering what to do next, a guy came running up from the same direction and asked me to leave him alone. The big guy was his friend, he was drunk, he was being an ass, and he apologized profusely and said he would get him home. Would I please let it go and not involve the cops, he requested. Well, the guy seemed sincerely embarrassed so I said 'sure - I hope he appreciates having you as a friend, buddy'. And I walked off.
And you know what the bully was yelling at me while he was still lying on the ground? 'Yeah, you better keep walking!' I know for a fact he was hurt; not because I am such a strong guy, but because I had physics on my side, and when 200+ pounds of flesh and bone takes a dive onto concrete the force has only one way to go (and it's not into the sidewalk). But it just didn't fit his understanding of 'the ways things work' - I was half his size, and he went down because of how I had pushed him rather than because I had used enormous force myself. The artistic part of martial arts (at least in Tai Chi) is to get your opponent to do most of the grunt work for you.
It's much the same with the war in Iraq. Back in 2002 when I was arguing about it with True Believers, if I said 'this risks turning into a quagmire, like Vietnam' the response would be 'Vietnam was a jundle - Iraq is a desert! shows how little YOU know!'. Um...right. There are still people out there who insist we found WMD, for that matter. Or that we had to go in there because of 9/11...never mind the complexities of Middle Eastern politics, these folk say we're fighting some amorphous 'Islamofascism'. Of course, these same people think that because we were threatened by the USSR and scared by Mao's rule in China, it made good sense for us to carpet bomb agrarian peasants in Viet Nam.
So getting back to Obama, most people feel that when confronted with a bully the wisest thing may be to step aside. And a lot of the time, they're right - in my story, I only stood up to this guy because I was in the middle of a crowd and didn't really have anywhere to go at the moment he confronted me. I don't seek out fights, and technically he wasn't getting personal with me - I just happened to be directly in front of his aggression. And it would have been wrong for me to follow up on my defensive response by attacking him in turn. A bully kicks people when they're down because the bully is terrified of what might happen when they get up again. A champion only uses as much force as they need, and (more importantly) knows that surrender has to be offered, it can't be taken.
Now Bush and his True Believers are like the guy on the ground yelling in defiance - it may make them feel better, but won't impress anyone. For the first time a politician with national standing has not only disputed their war policy, but smacked it down and dismissed it, calling it naive and saying that Bush has a lot to account for. Initiating this argument would have allowed the right to blame Obama for being an 'angry liberal'; but responding to an attack from Bush makes it clear that while Obama doesn't seek to begin a fight, he has no problem with finishing one started by someone else.
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