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I think the saddest part here, is how so many of us share some substantial core ideals and values and yet everyday this site gets more and more negative, not just towards Obama but to our fellow Democrats, Liberals and Progressives, Lefties...whatever you want to be called. Most if not all of us want equal rights for EVERYONE, we want science and facts to prevail in our governing policies in leu of church and faith values that don't represent everyone. We don't subscribe to trickle down economics and we see the economy through a blue collar perspective instead of through the greedy eyes of Wall Street fat cats and Big Company CEOs. We value diplomacy, diversity, and strengthening communities with social programs. And we understand why Taxes need to be paid and the good that comes from participating in this civil duty.
So with all this in common, and with a President and a majority of Congress/Senate that share most of these same values, why all the hostility towards them and each other? Is this the UNITY that Obama asked us to strive for? Is it so impossible for some of us to stop projecting what we'd do under any given circumstance and remember that we don't know a fraction of what Obama knows about what is really going on in this country. We aren't privy to the vast informations, briefings and stress that he is, so why do we act like we could all do it so much better?
Have we become so jaded that we can't see the all good that's in front of us faces, or do we enjoy living our lives miserable, looking at every action in a negative suspect light devoid of hope that things will ever get better? I sure hope not.
I'm not saying that anyone here who's voices concern over Obama's decisions or policies doesn't have that right or doesn't have a valid concern. It's our patriotic duty to question our government and hold them accountable. They work for us. But it's also been my experience that more often then none, the employee who's actually doing the work, who's down in the trenches and making calls based on first hand accounts is in a better place to make the more informed decisions then their own boss who often sees things through a more narrow bottom line. Obama is that employee.
Now my analogy might have some flaws, but to put it simply, as much as we bitch about what he is or isn't doing and on what time table, we wont ever know everything he does about the state of this union and all the facets of not just this country but the world that he has to juggle. And while that doesn't devalue our opinions on how we think he should govern this country, i think it's reasonable to stand back and say to ourselves that maybe Obama has good reasons for doing what he's doing and we just can't see the bigger picture at this time.
But yet, so many of us just immediately assume the worst. And after only a few months in office does he really deserve that?
Is it really too much to ask that we aim for party unity again and that if we feel the need to question Obama's actions and decisions we do so in a constructive way? I think President Obama has shown us that he's a straight forward, open minded, level headed guy. One who is more then willing to listen to the american people more then any president has. So does it not make sense that while browsing through our concerns and questions to him, that he's not going to be prone to respond to comments like "Fuck you Obama you don't care about gay people, fix my problem now!" or "You're nothing but Bush light, why did I ever vote for you, now stop this war now!". Isn't it more likely that this man of high intellect and reasoning is more willing to address concerns that come to him in a civil manner? Issues that come to him from people who show that they have some trust in him to do what is best even if they don't agree or understand and will give him their alternative viewpoints in a civil tone.
Here I go projecting, like i said not to, but if I were Obama with all the information, stress and GOP sabotage being thrown at him all while trying to do his historic presidency justice, the last thing I would be receptive to is more hostility from the base he looks to for his much needed support.
And as for the poster hostility towards one another, may I suggest that we put more thought into our thread titles, avoid posting negative Obama headlines as if we ourselves are repeating them or validating them. To staunch Obama supporters lets make an extra effort to post as much positive Obama news as we can find to balance the board out as well as give Obama doubters some reasonable leeway to their frustration instead of calling posters out for hating Obama. And to Obama doubters, can you try to refrain from accusing your fellow board members as Gay bashers or Blind Followers? I can't make anyone do any of this, but I do think it will help and allow us all to focus on what I think we all want, which is to see the democratic party continue to be successful and stay in a position to address our concerns in the future, because we all know, deep down, that as frustrating as it may seem now, it could ALWAYS BE WORSE....think Palin/Jindal 2012. And how much do you think they would care about your issues?
Thanks for letting me express my opinion.
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