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I actually emailed them. 1 of my sisters understands but one part of the message she thought applied to her when I mentioned "intolerance" she thought I meant her... I had to explain she was fine :-)
One of my brothers who almost became a priest, also came back with kind words. I have a big family, so the full consensus is not in. I actually forwarded it to an Atheist friend of mine who was proud of me... I HAVE NOT SENT IT TO THE IN-LAWS YET! I have a feeling that's not going to go over too well.
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Good Afternoon Ladies and Gentlemen, After much deliberation, I told that I am indeed an Atheist. For the first 18 years of my life I was brought up and educated as a Catholic. For the next 20 or so years of my life, I have always had conflict with those teachings and suffice it to say, I would probably have considered myself an Agnostic or atleast someone who wasn't sure whether what they really believed. At the same time, I did not want to say anything to my family and friends as… I guess I was embarrassed about it.
Over the course of my life, I have learned about many different religions and non religions. I have seen conflicting information between the different religions and conflicting behaviors of those who share the same religions. The intolerance embarrasses me. In researching and reading about traditions, I have found that many "rituals" we celebrate today, pre-date our own religion or evolved from different religions or celestial events. I'm not here to discount anyone's beliefs, however, I would like you to understand where this is coming from.
If "Spirituality" means "Ghost" or "Spirits", that is not the spirituality I follow but I do get a sense of spirituality when I am walking on a trail, under a canopy of trees, walking by a creek, sunshine, outside reading a book.... I feel at peace.
To put it another way, several years ago, I quit drinking then I quit smoking, in the middle of it all, I was getting pains in my chest, thought I was going to die, found out it was some sort of anxiety or perhaps a bit of agoraphobia as anytime I was out of the house and perhaps at a store, that's when I got the anxiety. You will never know the liberation I felt when I hiked for 4 hours at Park. Coincidentally on some of the same trails that hiked.
For , nothing changes. believes in God. For , he's never been baptized. He will learn about different religious practices, he will be tolerant of others, he will celebrate holidays, it will be up to him ultimately when he comes of age to decide what he wants to do.
For me, I will celebrate the holidays a bit differently. I will recognize the Vernal Equinox (Easter), Autumnal Equinox, Summer Solstice, and Winter Solstice (Christmas). But while different, it will be celebrated all the same. In fact, we are going to a Winter Solstice festival on Sunday. There will be crafts for the kids and story telling about how the different religions celebrate the "Winter Solstice"
I was going to wait until after the New Year to make this announcement but I figured, It is my time to celebrate as well. I just don't want my celebration to be under the guise of not being straight forward.
Happy Winter Solstice Merry Christmas Happy Holidays ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
That's it in a nutshell. I actually feel much better for being honest about the whole thing.
Dapper
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