I'm not of the younger generation of gays, so I can't presume to speak for them ... but I definitely agree that the marriage issue is being forced on us by the national "inside the Beltway" LGBT organizations who are out of touch with what is important to those of us in the rest of the country.
I'm not saying it lacks importance. Sure, property rights, visitation rights, inheritance rights and other issues are very important to gay and lesbian couples ... and I support those rights 100 percent. But it just seems like the national organizations have put all their eggs in one basket with the marriage issue. And, frankly, the marriage issue does affect the majority of gays and lesbians. Personally, it makes me a little squamish that we are trying to immitate the breeders who have centuries of a head start on making "marriage" work, but still fuck it up to the point where half of all marriages end in divorce.
It was the same way with the gays in the military issue that Clinton made such a centerpiece of his campaign in '92. Sure, it's nice if the military doesn't conduct witchhunts to ferret out gays and lesbians. But in the bigger picture, how many people did that really effect? Yet all the national LGBT groups went gaga over it as though it would be a panacea.
It's interesting that in the same issue of the Washington Blade that the above article comes from, there's another article on the new head of the Human Rights Campaign wrapping up a trip to "red states." According to the article:
"He (Joe Solmonese) added that everywhere he went, workplace issues topped the concerns of gay men and lesbians."But then the very next paragraph says:
“It’s not surprising to me that economic activity and workplace issues are important,” Solmonese said. “That’s why marriage is important.”http://www.washblade.com/2005/5-20/news/national/tour.cfmD'uh! No wonder a large segment of LGBTs feel their national organizations don't represent them or their concerns when they can tour the flyover part of the country, get told again and again that employment issues are of the highest importance, and then turn around and try to tie it back to the marriage issue.