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Duncan Grant Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 05:05 PM
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The Higher Lifetime Costs of Being a Gay Couple (NYT)
The Higher Lifetime Costs of Being a Gay Couple

Much of the debate over legalizing gay marriage has focused on God and Scripture, the Constitution and equal protection.

But we see the world through the prism of money. And for years, we’ve heard from gay couples about all the extra health, legal and other costs they bear. So we set out to determine what they were and to come up with a round number — a couple’s lifetime cost of being gay.

It was much more complicated than we initially imagined, and that’s probably why we’ve never seen similar efforts. We looked at benefits that routinely go to married heterosexual couples but not to gay couples, like certain Social Security payments. We plotted out the cost of health insurance for couples whose employers don’t offer it to domestic partners. Even tax preparation can cost more, since gay couples have to file two sets of returns. Still, many couples may come out ahead in one area: they owe less in income taxes because they’re not hit with the so-called marriage penalty.

Our goal was to create a hypothetical gay couple whose situation would be similar to a heterosexual couple’s. So we gave the couple two children and assumed that one partner would stay home for five years to take care of them. We also considered the taxes in the three states that have the highest estimated gay populations — New York, California and Florida. We gave our couple an income of $140,000, which is about the average income in those three states for unmarried same-sex partners who are college-educated, 30 to 40 years old and raising children under the age of 18.



Full story at The New York Times.
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 05:14 PM
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1. very enlightening.
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joeybee12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 05:33 PM
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2. Ai-yi-yi-yi-yi!
Shows that marriage is really the only answer for fairness.
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 06:44 PM
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3. So much for the claim
that we can "file papers" or "get civil unions" and have all the same rights/benefits that come with marriage. :eyes:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 07:04 PM
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4. I hope this gets a lot more research, and we see examples with hard
numbers repeatedly documenting everywhere all the way that LGBT people end up paying more over and over and over again.

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mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 09:47 PM
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5. Don't I know it
Edited on Fri Oct-02-09 09:47 PM by mitchtv
from the legal bills we incurred before DPs and our '08 marriage to the taxes on partner's benefits he gets through my job, to the accountant. It adds up.
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ki83760 Donating Member (50 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 10:58 PM
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6. It's a disgrace
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-05-09 05:25 PM
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7. its all a pony.
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