Faith is personal a belief. It is borne of deep and often life-long reinforcements made by family, peer groups, and sometimes school, viz. parochial schools.
Faith is not based on reason so it can’t be debated with reason.
There is a branch of theology called apologetics that claims to prove faith, God, etc.
For a closer look at Apologetics link to this:
http://www.catholic.com/library/Starting_Out_as_an_Apologist.aspI have heard some of these arguments and wonder why they bother. After all as Teilhard De’Chardin said: faith is a leap. Also, the apologetics tend be self referential a kind of looping reasoning, You start off with a premise, such as God is truth and go from their to prove that because God cannot lie God must exist, etc.
Now, the church has a history of being anti-science and the inquisition is a powerful historical example of virulent self righteousness and ignorance gone horribly amuck. Eventually, the idea that the earth was not the center of the universe seeped in but it took a long time and many were murdered to keep that truth from becoming accepted.
The anti-gay position of the universal church is not derived from one peep or quote attributed to Jesus. It derives from middle eastern values, long established, 3,000 years prior to Christ, through the Mosaic laws of the people of Israel. This was the background of Saul, later St. Paul who, did not espouse marriage, but had to add something about sexual needs and reproductive needs, so he, a man who remained single, wrote about marriage as the other state besides celibacy. He also brought with him his background from the Mosaic laws and simply echoed Leviticus in his writings in regards to homosexuality.
Now, how does this relate to debating fairness issues, a political concept, to dealing with religious arguments against homosexuality itself? It does not. As previously stated, walk away, don’t argue. The issue is not wether being and behaving in line with ones sexuality is an abomination or not. If someone believes it is- that’s intrinsic to them, at least for the moment.
The issues at hand are this: this is the 21st century, in a land that espouses it’s mission to promote life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness to it’s citizen’s. To be fair, the right to life, liberty ad the pursuit of happiness cannot be restrained or restricted or abridged by one group against another, if the group seeking rights is of no harm to themselves and society.
That’s where the efforts for our debate need to focus.
Do the research and develop good arguments to counter the claims that gays are bad for society, bad for families, intrinsically mentally ill.
This is the argument that radical right wing would be tyrants fear, they know that the facts of the matter are not in their favor. This is why it was so important to them to stack the court with conservatives, who, euphemistically, were called strict constructionists.
After all the founding fathers did not specifically mention gay rights, or reproductive rights did they?
Once again, as with St. Paul, it is the interpretation of man, and the selective readings by man, that is used as a way to prop up a concept of the greater good. Because, in strict constructionist terms, there should be no emancipation of slaves, nor should there be any constitutional amendments- excepts when it suits a power hungry elite, then, watch them pay lip service to a national, federal, constitutional amendment to “protect” marriage.