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Lately, like most of us, I've been pondering Prop 8, as well as equality in general.
Prop 8 is just one of so many places where we've faced losses of this nature, with only a few real wins under our belt.
Just a few of the rights that are at stake for us: -Tax breaks that are afforded to others just for marrying. -The ability to visit our partner when in the hospital under critical care. -The ability to make informed decisions, based on our partners wishes, when they are hospitalized, and unable to make major medical decisions for themselves. -The right to determine who our beneficiary is should the worst happen.. (while a will can help with this, it doesn't offer NEARLY the same legal protection as marriage does) -The right to determine who is and isn't the legal parents of our children, and again who has custody should the worst happen.
Now, the biggest, and really the ONLY argument that the religious right even has against our obtaining these legal rights is due to the historical reference to marriage as an religious base institution that is sacred. The position we've taken so far is that regardless of any religious reference, it IS denying us rights, and is unconstitutional. On this front, we haven't done so well, and what's worse the religious right has been able to fairly successfully paint us as radicals waging war on the religions of the country.
I propose a change of venue that, I'm thinking, may be more successful.
Instead of challenging that we should have the right to marry, how about using their OWN words against them. Declare that they are correct that marriage is a historically based religious institution, and should be protected! Then, follow up, that since marriage is a recognized religious institution that is indeed sacred, lead a series of constitutional challenges against heterosexuals who are benefiting from congressional legislation. Challenge the current tax laws that allow tax breaks to those who are receiving tax benefits for being in a religious based relationship. Challenge hospitals that allow visitation, or major medical decision making by spouses. Challenge the laws on the books that allow for a spouse of a "religious institution" to be automatically granted custody should their spouse die.
Frankly, I don't want the right to "marry".. but I do DEMAND the equal rights that marriage bestows for my partner and I. Give them their argument that marriage is an institution, and take it OUT of government.. period. No tax breaks for being involved in a religious institution.. Instead of government offices offering "marriage licenses" at all.. have them offer forms that allows ANYBODY determine who the person('s) is in their life that they want to have those beneficiary, and decision making, and custody rights.. it can be a simple form done at city hall, and leave the "sacred" institution of marriage up to churches, and let them decide who they will/won't marry. Eliminate the tax benefit of being married all together, but increase the dependant tax benefit for children.
Just my recent thoughts on it.
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