Severing the attachment of Dark Entities to a loved one.

[dbt]

Someone very near and dear to me has had a tendency over the last couple of years to attract some pretty serious lowlifes as acquaintances. Long story short, the latest one of these has extorted money from my loved one, commandeered a vehicle, made threats against my family and intimated that it has a gun to use.

Now, the Good Old Boy in me knows how to deal with people like this, but I would rather not have the karmic baggage that such moves would bring. Let me be clear: I have NO compunctions about the use of force on this lowlife if I am pushed hard enough. I'd rather try other methods first.

After dwelling on this situation, I'm almost certain that there are Dark Entities (Energy Vampires or whatever you want to call them) who have attached themselves to my loved one. I intend to consult a reputable psychic about this, but the few I know well are booked pretty solid these days (go figure).

Does anyone here have experience in discerning the presence of Dark Ones around a loved one--and dealing with the removal of them from a loved one's sphere? I welcome any and all advice!

dbt

[Desertrose]

1. Dang, dbt...I am sorry to hear this

I am pulling a blank right now but will think on it dream on it and see what comes of it. I know this stuff but suddenly its as though I have the shade pulled down....will find a better space later....OK? :hug:


Would your loved one be open to wearing a medicine pouch or something similar? Kind of a physical protection of her/his heart& solar plexus area?? or some other jewelry? I am definitely seeing something physical..like a nice stone or a few smaller ones.....if his source of energy was cut off it might cause him to loosen up til your loved one can regain their own energies.

Also...just thought of this...AA Michaels' sword of blue light is great for cutting cords....visualize (after asking permission on whatever level is needed) the mighty sword/blue light cutting through whatever has bound him to the loved one.....

I am really sorry to hear this....I hope you don't have to do the physical thing....but to protect the family...maybe not so much karma-baggage.


:hug::loveya::hug:
DR

[bonito]

2. Your loved one is trusting and giving

tell him her that thay are feeding dependence on another. and they are keeping them from flying on there own. in effect caging them. tough love.

[KittyWampus]

6. I Kinda Agree. It's Up To Loved One To Make Their INTENTIONS Known.

Our personal Minds are like stereo recievers. We pick up whatever we allow ourselves to pick up.

Even should Family member manage to effectively shoo Malevolent Energy... you're still not ultimately helping Loved One since that person will just have to learn to do it themselves.

Loved One must learn to do it themselves.

Very hard, very hard.

[rumpel]

3. Four Winds Society, Antionio Viloldo works with that.

http://www.thefourwinds.com/

[dbt]

4. Thanks to everyone who has replied!

When I get a little more of a grip on my emotions, I will be back to this thread.

[LWolf]

5. What popped into my head:

Does your loved one recognize a problem, and give you "permission" to work on it?

[hippiegranny]

7. helpful hint for battling the dark side:

Keep a photo of your loved one "in the light". Literally keep a light on a picture of her/him. Additionally, any time your loved one is in your thoughts, picture them surrounded by light. The dark side cannot fully function within the full light of the power of good.

[Desertrose]

8. sometimes keeping a white candle lit next to his/her photo or

on an "altar" or just a special area that is set aside for your loved one. You can get those white7 day candles. I've actually kept candles burning for months at a time that way. when one gets low light another. Adding essential oils or even Flower Essences can help too.

I agree with everything LWolf & Eloriel & those above said.

I know there are some folks here locally who also do readings/clearings if you need that info- let me know.

It is a wonderful start that you have permission and like Eloriel said- make sure they fill the space with white light...call in the light from the Great Central Sun to shield, protect and heal them...and everyone who has been touched by this.
(I swear I can almost feel this dark energy starting to pull back already.)

Visualizing a mirror like bubble or protective coating that reflects negativity away is helpful sometimes too. (think Terminator ie: Robert Patrick)

Thinking of you dbt & sending :loveya:
:hug:
DR

[Idylle Moon Dancer]

9. wow

I don't have any advice for you, but you reminded me of my mother and an experience I had several years ago.

She's been plagued by bad luck and unsavory friends and acquaintances for as long as I've been around, at least.

And there's this dream I had, perhaps the most frightening I've ever experienced, several years ago: (I'm still awake at this point) my mother's asleep on the couch. I'm sitting in a chair, sort of midway between the side door and my mother; I can see both from this vantage (blink) (I'm asleep now, but don't know it. The setting is the same) in through the side door comes lurching this tall, hunch-backed, vampire-zombie-ogre looking thing and I'm paralyzed in the chair as it slouches towards my mother. As it looms next to her I start awake with much adrenalin and heart-pounding at the vivid reality of the dream.

Anyway, that's all.

[Chemical Bill]

10. Sage and sweetgrass smudge.

And remember that it is about you, but not only about you. You may have to distance yourself from said loved one in order to let them learn whatever this lesson is. Or you may need to pull some nasty shit in order to protect those close to you. The only thing I can say for certain is that you want to love your enemy as you love yourself. That means I don't suggest killing them. But if you would not permit yourself to do these things to your loved ones, you don't need to permit anyone else either. You could wish the lowlifes well somewhere else, and even help them to get there, even if somewhere else is jail. That wouldn't screw up your Karma. Maybe all these lowlifes want is a little order in their lives, and 3 squares a day.

Bill

PS Try giving loved one Rescue Remedy.

[Desertrose]

11. dbt, I've been thinking about you and about this.....

I have been feeling this one is rather stubborn and strong and will not go easily. (Have had the feeling could even be more than just one single entity)

I've also had the issue of fear come up. I've been thinking about the posts here and other experiences of entities sticking when people wanted them gone that I've come across one way or another.

Suddenly tonite about 8:44 MST, out of the blue, my cedar drum (which I just remembered was actually made in Arkansas), fell off my wall in my BR and broke a glass candle under it. I ended up with a sliver in my finger as I cleaned it up. (To be fair it had a small piece of rawhide for the hanger for about 15 years and it looked as though it had been cut with a knife where the metal hanger was). Just very strange as I have done a fair amount of work with that drum. It normally has a very powerful sound but we are very very humid right now so its a bit flat.

Anyhow...it was rather disconcerting to say the least, but it pointed out clearly to me that I can not afford to let fear in...nor can you. If we stay strong and united, we can do this. The same advice applies for anyone who chooses to send energy/light...do not allow fear to find the tiniest place to grab hold. Its all a matter of energy and if this entity/energy is told to go...it really has no choice. we can't let it get away with those old fear games.....


OK...guess thats all I've got for now....hope its helpful somehow....
:loveya::hug:
DR

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[LaurenG]

12. Right on and Thanks DR

:grouphug: Hugs all around.

[WhoseMarie]

13. I've dealth with this - as have loved ones

I have a friend who's a true energy healer, and she is great and breaking those 'connecting ties'and moving those entities elsewhere. Since we're talking about energy here, it can be done on the phone as well. But the loved one has to agree to it...and it's best if he/she do this himself/herself instead of using, for instance, you as a proxy.

You can P M me if you'd like the name and phone number of this person. She worked wonders for me, when I had 'attached entitites' from my ex and deceased husband. I never had a problem during the day - it was only at night when my guard was down that they 'attacked'. Since she did her 'thing' for me, I've had three months now of perfect sleep - first in 5 years! I highly recommend this.