I'm so flattered that you mentioned me here - although it is probably not deserved. I struggle like crazy too - but believe me when I tell you I have come A LONG way. I have been "suidical" since I was about 12 years old - and apparently that problem runs in my father's family as nearly all of them did commit suicide and my father has struggled with it too, like me. We are both on Zolofot (which I don't know how on earth I could live without - I want to and I can't believe there is a thread on SSI's which I'm dying to get to, but haven't had time yet).
I can only say it is through trying very hard to understand and connect with my spirit/soul that I have learned to become a truly happy person. But I'm not totally there yet, and I wonder if we ever will be totally there. But I also learned "be careful what you ask for" because I decided I would ask to have "no fear" and boy, did I ever get whammied - but truthfully - I can't think of a thing now that really scares me - but its one of those "be careful what you ask for".
Hopefully without sounding arrogant (because I have plenty of flaws) I believe all earth angels came into this world into abusive situations in order for us to grow - it was meant that way.
The Conversatoins with God books I LOVE LOVE LOVE and they have really helped me alot. Also a website
http://www.nibiruancouncil.com helped (read the power of Compassion) there and basically spending my quiet time learning and reading other spiritual works, etc.
Some days I feel so strong that I could conquer the world and that nothing can get to me, and then of course I have my moments. I've still got a ways to go but I am so glad to be away from those very very dark days that was my earlier existence. I can honestly say I love life now and look forward to each day, knowing that whatever comes will be for the best.
I swear by this saying: I have said it every day for a couple of years and I swear it is the most powerful thing inthe world. I say it every morning, driving to work, everytime I begin to worry about something, I interrupt my worry, at night, whenever - make a mental note to say this, put it on your bathroom mirror, whatever - but say it:
MY LIFE WORKS IN PERFECT DIVINE ORDER.
If you have a big problem, say that you don't need to worry about it because God has already handled it for you.
My heart goes out to you and I send you peace and love. I love this forum so much, I wish I had more time to spend here. It has helped me immensely and I'm so glad we have this community.
In therapy the one and only one thing I did learn that having been abused, my natural reaction was to abuse myself, if I did something wrong I would beat myself up, or if I thought I said something wrong, I would beat myself up, every thing I did, I would beat myself up for. And I learned to stop doing that and instead think about if my daughter had done this or said this - how would I react and I always think how I would just show her love and then I learned to show myself the same love that I would give to her.
I'm in a hurry and i'm writing this in a rush - so I hope it makes sense - but I wanted to respond to you. Take care of yourself and say that saying!