at least Kagomi knew what love was before she left you. Maybe she will come back to you.If that is what Kagomi decides to do All I can say is I wish NOTHING interferes with her coming back to you.I hope you can read her signs of her arrival and easily find her again.
I have been with my two cats ALOT. Holding them petting..curling up,passing around treats.. they don't want to play obviously.But I gave them some catnip around 3 am last night they didn't turn that down.Sparkle is so funny on Catnip,he acts like he's like desperate crack head scanning the carpet for any remaining flakes until it's gone.He was licking the flakes out of Vinnie's fur Vin couldn't reach.I am glad catnip ain't addictive to cats.I think it helped them both relax a bit.
They are on my bed now out like lights.Finally they are sleeping.
I got some time to respond to these kind supportive posters.
I will go offline when they stir awake and I hear them.I have to be there with my sweet fur friends first.
I love them so.
For Rustle I want him to see he has an opportunity to be free of this world. After all the goal of Buddha was not reincarnating forever but to end the reincarnations.So my wants and needs will get put aside for his sake.This is because I love him but I am aware I cannot ever own him and even though he lived with me for 14 years,he may have his own reasons to have been here to consider returning here or to not be here,reasons that may have nothing to do with me or Sparkle or Vinnie at all..If Rustle decides to return here,and to me again..I want it to be his own will and be of HIS choice alone.Because this time is when he makes the most important choice he has to make right now.I know he knows I and Vin and Spark adore him. But despite that I don't want my emotions or needs Vinnie's or Sparkles emotions or needs ,or the archons bullying or manipulating crap or the aether's illusions to catch him and reprogram him, and have any influence a decision that is HIS to make,only.I want this to be his choice on what to do, to be his own,alone.
And whatever he decides I will respect that decision.If he does not want to return I want him to know that is an ok thing to decide Also if he does return to me I want him to know I won't ignore the signs of his returning either.
This is his"liminal time" around three days is how long it is,This is the time where material influences can impact his spirit for good or ill,and where the forces controlling this world and trapping spirits here will try to control him.I am fighting those forces and pulling away the confusion that death causes in his recently released and disoriented spirit.This is very important task to do for the dead.At least as for what I experienced observing the death process,he is vulnerable and confused during the liminal time,and this is the time he faces challenges..
I want him to be free to find his bearings in the spirit world and sense his own will and decide for himself the next steps he takes.
Meanwhile here I protect him,I journey and help him from a distance,and make things clear to him the best I've been calling Sekhmet and Bast to protect him until he is free and his true will is free to decide..He had all those resins herbs and oils in his shroud to give his spirit power and strength to overcome the liminal state between the real and unreal,manifest and unmanifest or anything he encounters in the so called bardos or hours of the dead,in those rites of passage he will go through.Alot of mystery traditions describe changes ,detachments and perils for the dead to face and overcome .Rustle if I can help it will not be trapped by any of those perils.
What I said was not simply wishing to boot him away from me because this world is hell, the intent was much deeper than that.
Being upset I know it colored what I typed here, what my real intent is for him is more complex..I want him to be free of all the shackles and confusion life and death cause to newly departed beings.If he wishes to come back here really I will honor that decision and be thankful to him that the loved me so much to do that.If he never comes back I will respect that too, and regardless I will fight my hardest down here to make sure he goes to a place where the shit of this world cannot touch him when he decides.If he leaves I want him a straight shot back to his true source.Which is the source of where his golden heart originated.People often have issues with me because I choose to live in the liminal zone, it is my nature and true will,to be both and neither.. I am physically not male or female,I identify as non human but seem human enough,I am a peaceful yet vicious warrior,I am ambigous yet I am obvious easy to find..I am a canary in a coal mine, a boundary breaking boundary keeper, this is part of my magickal path,for I am a sentimental mercenary..And I offer rustle any protections,assistance or power he needs to transform,and do his true will while he decides his next step in the strange distorted realities the newly dead go through.
I will assist him in how to be dead.So that he may become..
More about death trials for spirits and the liminal state:
http://www.deathreference.com/Py-Se/Rites-of-Passage.htmlhttp://www.candywei.org/media/jing_wellesley_speech.htmlhttp://www.wesleyan.edu/music/braxton/papers/death-after-2.html