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DistressedAmerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 09:23 PM
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You Know...
Edited on Sat Jul-15-06 09:23 PM by DistressedAmerican
Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck! Fuck!

I am so sick of the non-stop bad news!

Does anything positive happen these days?

Holy shit!
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 09:25 PM
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1. I make time to enjoy sunrises and sunsets
Somedays, that's all there is...but it's enough. As ugly as people make the world, the world itself is beautiful.
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DistressedAmerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 09:32 PM
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2. Very True.
If we can protect that...

Some days I wonder how much longer we will have that to lighten our moods.
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 09:36 PM
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3. Yeah...I wonder about that too
I love trees, the ocean, mountains and prairie

I used to sit on my back porch in Kansas and shut my eyes...as the wind whipped around, just a little chilly...you could almost smell the ocean (Kansas used to be covered in water a long, long, long, time ago)

It was a wonderfully primitive experience. To feel the wind, to smell what was once there...

to know that you won't endure...but the earth can...and should.



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flowomo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 09:47 PM
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4. if anyone reported good news, half the people on DU....
would say either:

1) it's a lie made up by Karl Rove

2) it's the MSM trying to distract us from the bad news

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DistressedAmerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 09:49 PM
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5. That's True. A "Distraction" From The MSM No Doubt!
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flowomo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 09:54 PM
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7. and here's some good news:
1) the world did not end today.

2) the Red Sox beat the fucking A's finally (though the Yankees won, so that's a wash)

3) my son got a job in New York City (like he wanted -- as long as he doesn't become a Yankee fan)

4) Sweden did not invade Finland
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DistressedAmerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 09:56 PM
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9. Bless The Swedes!
Congrats to your son. Getting good employment is harder than ever these days. Good for him!

Baseball holds no interest for me. But, I'm glad it is cheering your spirits! We all need what it takes.
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ladym55 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:09 PM
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14. The Red Sox finally won one?
That is good news!!! :bounce:

You know that is how I keep going every day. It's the little things because the big ones sure scare the crap out of me.

It's listening to birds sing in the yard or listening to the ocean ...

So far Bushco and the Repugs haven't totally destroyed those things yet ....

And I'm glad that Sweden didn't invade Finland. I have been sweating that one.
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INdemo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:12 PM
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15. Cubs win too..What a day
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flowomo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:15 PM
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17. haven't stopped smiling for hours....
and welcome to DU!
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New Government Donating Member (241 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 09:52 PM
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6. That's funny, but very true......nt
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 09:55 PM
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8. There was a time when posters made a point of posting "good news" threads
and people would list all the good things happening around them in their towns

I had to laugh when I read your comment though. Lot of truth in your words
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WePurrsevere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:01 PM
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10. When times get very hard, as they are now, it's the little pleasures >
that keep me hanging on: watching a good lightening storm from my front porch, seeing a rainbow or better yet a double one, listening to one of our cats purr or watching one of our odder dogs happily "talk" to a rock "friend" he's found, seeing my baby grand daughter (3 1/2 months old) smile and laugh, finding something special that you thought was long "lost", having a loved one say "I love you" for no real reason except that they want to, the smell of new mown hay (and watching the herd of deer grazing in the same field), listening to the birds singing in the tree outside my window... and so much more.

There's so much negative going on in the world and in my own life right now that keeping in mind and holding on to positive thoughts and memories is the only thing that keeps me going... well, that and a whole lot of hope that "this too shall pass" and we will persevere. B-)
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DistressedAmerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:07 PM
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12. My Baby Girl Does It For Me. LOVE That Kid!
When the state of the world she'll grow up in is not taking over my thoughts anyway.

I do make an effort to enjoy the good things in life. Sometimes it just seems like those good things are disappearing so rapidly, It is hard to keep up.
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WePurrsevere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-16-06 06:23 AM
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26. Children are wonderful for helping us hold on to hope & remind us of why
we fight for and against the things we do. :) Your baby girl is very lucky to have a man who so obviously loves her as a Daddy.

Things can be extremely overwhelming at times but hold on to hope and never let go. :) If you need a break pack up your wife and baby girl and take a drive (maybe a simple picnic) up to Thatcher's Park area... go to the parking area down past the park entrances (the one where it's free to sit.. or at least was a few years ago), is quieter and just breath or perhaps take a walk along one of the trails. B-) ... We love it up here but that's one of those many places we truly miss not living down there anymore (DH & I both grew up on opposite sides of "the river", spent most of our lives in your neck of the woods & still have family there.) :)

Carpe Dium and... don't let all of the negative crap and neo-fundie/CONs "win"... think about history... this is just one more turn of the wheel... throughout human "time" others before us have lived through horrible things... of course they may not have known it since the news wasn't world-wide and easily available... such is the curse as well as the blessing of living in our "modern" world.

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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:03 PM
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11. I doubt it would get many replies if someone did :)
Mainly though I think people expect good things to happen and they get overlooked. There are many folks out there helping others day to, people letting people pull out in front of them instead of blocking them out, people returning things they found, and so on and so forth.

The bad things are like gossip - we are shocked and want to know more about it, does it affect us, etc and so on.

Most of us cannot imagine doing the things we hear others doing - so it is dicsussed like wildfire, rapidly engulfing GD and other places on the web until it burns out when the next fire is ignited.

And then too there is this - someone spreading good news might well be labeled a propagandist. Example would be catholic news sites talking about how many people were fed and helped today, how many sick and elderly were visited, and so on. Good news is not allowed because many groups/people/etc we have come to believe can only be bad because they have done bad things in the past.
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DistressedAmerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:08 PM
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13. Very Good Analysis!
I think you are on to some very valid points there. Blood sells papers, sells ads and generates posts. Kindness rarely does.
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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:14 PM
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16. And I am guilty too - here is what i found about myself
I go to http://www.usnpl.com and read papers from each State. Sometimes all the papers in one state in a short time.

Those little small town ones are chock full of cuddly stories about a grandma who made a quilt for someone or a kid who got a prize for his goat, or even that vacation bible school is starting.

I usually click away looking for someone more titillating to post here. Not alwyas of course, I do find some good human interest stories, it just seems the good stuff ain't really news - when it should be.

When we were kids, and I still have the paper clippings, my parents would go to Byesville, Ohio, to visit the grandparents. It made a blurb in the paper - so that folks who knew us knew we were coming and when so they could visit as well (and this did this for everyone coming in from out of town). Today I see ads for buying used cars, phone sex, and get rich quick stuff. The paper used to provide those little announcements for free as a service to people. Seems money took over that little part of the world.

Some may still do so, but the paper back home dosen't anymore (though they still do feature a lot of great small town stories).
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Bluerthanblue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:16 PM
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18. I've been waiting for a time to post this.... hope this
helps...?....
for some strange reason it comforts me-



They are all children when they sleep.
There is no war in them.
They open their hands and breathe
in the slow rhythm given to humans by heaven.

Whether soldiers, statesmen, servants, or masters
they purse their lips like small children
and they all half-open their hands.
Stars stand watch then and the arch of the sky is hazed over
for a few hours when no one will harm another.

If only we could talk with each other then,
when hearts are like half-open flowers.
Words would push their way in
like golden bees.

God, teach me sleep's language.

-Rolf Jacobson


peace, to us all-
blu
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-16-06 06:50 AM
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30. Thanks, Bluerthanblue; that's real nice. nt
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flowomo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:20 PM
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19. For all those who mentioned "the little good things" --
here's a column I wrote two years ago, but what I talk about is happening again right now. The first part is outdated, of course, but hang in till you get to the real topic:

also available online: http://www.cumberlink.com/articles/2004/08/07/editorial/rich_lewis/lewis05.txt



Cicadas a bust, check out fireflies
By Rich Lewis, July 1, 2004

All the bug talk this summer was about the return of the cicadas, although, like the return of Halley's Comet in 1986, it turned out to be pretty much of a bust around here.

I didn't see a single one of the whirring critters in my part of Dickinson Township and I heard few reports of serious swarms elsewhere in the local area.

However, I did encounter them on a trip in early June to my in-laws' house in Maryland. Millions of the red-eyed insects were hanging from the trees in their neighborhood, while the crunchy brown shells of millions more carpeted the streets and lawns. The noise was relentless and deafening from sunup to sundown.

It was interesting, but hardly spectacular - and experiencing it once every 17 years seems like quite enough.

On the other hand, a truly spectacular bug show reliably takes place every summer, right here in our own back yards - and if the cicada was worth weeks of headlines and barrels of ink, then pyractomena borealis is worth at least one little column.

So here is my tribute to fireflies.

I stepped out on the porch Monday night at deep dusk and couldn't believe my eyes. The fireflies had been around for about a month, and I had been enjoying them immensely. But Monday was like the grand finale of a major fireworks display. In every yard, up and down the block, all the airspace between the ground and the tops of the trees was filled with twinkling green lights. Dense clouds of fireflies were winking on and off in mysterious patterns.

It reminded me of a giant Christmas display - except it went on endlessly in all directions and was far more intricate and delicate than any string of electric lights could ever be.

I don't know what brought so many of them out at once. Maybe it was the hard rain just before dark. But it was almost overwhelmingly beautiful.

If this sort of thing only happened once every 17 years, believe me, people would be writing and talking about it for months in advance. Whole neighborhoods would gather outside at sunset anxiously awaiting the arrival of the "flying lights." Parents would tell their children to pay attention because they wouldn't be seeing this amazing event again for a long, long time.

But fireflies, which are really beetles, show up every summer and so most people just take them for granted.

I actually remember the first time I ever saw a firely because I was 17 years old. I grew up in Massachusetts, and though fireflies live there, I had never seen one, probably because I lived in a city and fireflies avoid areas with lots of artificial light.

Then, in the summer of 1967, I went off to a summer program at Georgetown University in Washington, D.C. One night, while walking in the fields behind the dorms, I saw a flash of green light a few feet off the ground. Then another, and another.

I was so excited you'd think I had seen little green men emerging from flying saucers.

I started to run over to some people walking nearby to report this amazing phenomenon. Then I suddenly realized: "These are fireflies," which I had read about in children's stories and science books.

I remember quickly checking my excitement, thinking that everybody in the world must have seen fireflies before, and that I would seem pretty silly acting like it was a big deal.

But it was a big deal to me - and a moment I will never forget.

Somehow, that feeling comes back every summer when I see the first firefly blink across a field. I still want to run and find somebody and say, "Look! They're here!"

This year I even spent a few hours outside trying to take pictures of fireflies flying with their lights on. Of course, it was almost completely dark - so I had to put my digital camera on the setting that keeps the shutter open long enough to gather enough light to create an image. If a firefly blinked on and then moved, I got streaks of green light across the picture.

Some of the pictures were cool - one firefly executed a little "Nike" check mark in mid-air.

But I soon realized that I was trying to capture something that can't be captured. The beauty of fireflies is in their spontaneity, their unpredictability - the flow of lights across space. Fireflies can't be trapped - in a jar, or in a photograph - without being robbed of their essence. Once you stop a firefly, it's just a bug.

That old phrase "stop and smell the flowers" is a way of saying that we should slow down sometimes and appreciate the wonders around us.

Well, in that exact same sense my advice is to stop and see the fireflies.

Rich Lewis' e-mail address is:

rlcolumn@comcast.net
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:26 PM
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20. I'm 43 and I still love "lightning bugs"
Just to sit out and watch them flicker across the yard. The "being"...not controling, not owning...not anything... happy just to be a part of those magical little critter's world

Thank you for the article!!!
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flowomo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:33 PM
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21. and thank you for reading it.....
I write a weekly column for the local newspaper, so I've done hundreds, but that remains one of my favorites.
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Bluerthanblue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:38 PM
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22. I love them too- and here in NH they've
always been a part of my life-

My youngest used to call them "thunder bugs"-
He has always had a unique perspective on life-
and brings much joy-

like the thunder bugs, and the humble bees.

That was a good column- thank you for posting it.

peace,
blu
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flowomo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:40 PM
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23. where in NH... my brother is in Windham....
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Bluerthanblue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-15-06 10:45 PM
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24. in the foothills of Sunapee-
central/southwest area-
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-16-06 12:02 AM
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25. Not during this administration
:-(
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Rosemary2205 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-16-06 06:25 AM
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27. I have great news pal!!
I just saved a bunch of money on my car insurance.




















I'm sorry. Really. I just feel smarmy today.
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Hugin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-16-06 06:27 AM
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28. Beer is still good!
:beer:

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MadHound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-16-06 06:31 AM
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29. Take a break DA
Continually focusing on this shit is bad for your health, both physical and mental. Do what I do, take the weekends off. I don't watch any news, I listen to very little(just enough to keep me appraised of what's going on in the world), and I'm on DU only during my morning coffee. Otherwise I'm working around the house, garden and orchard, or out and about having a bit of fun and entertainment.

24/7 of this shit will kill you, or at least drive you batshit crazy. Take a break, for your own good.

And yes, positive things do happen, both large and small. For instance we've gotten rain here, and my blackberry bushes are starting to be loaded down with fruit. As a well known DUer used to say(and for the life of me I can't remember who it was)

Come, we go eat blackberries, and turn our mouth purple;)
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