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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:32 AM Original message |
Another opportunity for non-violent discussion of gender violence |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:34 AM Response to Original message |
1. Most excellent. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:42 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Bless you |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:50 AM Original message |
I have to share a story |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:54 AM Response to Original message |
7. You were in the right place at the right time |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
32. you approve of this unequal treatment? |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:04 PM Response to Reply #32 |
37. Seems odd, doesn't it? |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:00 PM Response to Reply #37 |
50. who is Tansy Gold? Another Kitty Genovese? |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:05 PM Response to Reply #32 |
38. You just had to be there |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:24 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. I was taught to |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:27 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. Well I live in a very redneck part of Texas |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 08:40 PM Response to Reply #40 |
74. your post here scares me |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 09:09 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. When I read that |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 05:27 AM Response to Reply #75 |
80. actually I was kinda the other way |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 10:41 AM Response to Reply #80 |
81. Point well taken. That's another way of looking at schoolyard society |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-16-06 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
92. Here's my story: |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:44 AM Response to Original message |
3. Please take out the "white" from the "angry white men." |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:57 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. I know, SR, that jumped out at me too |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 01:04 AM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Makes me wonder why Katz put it in there. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 01:13 AM Response to Reply #10 |
11. Another cliche |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:16 AM Response to Reply #3 |
18. Color means nothing in regards to misogyny |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:53 PM Response to Reply #18 |
48. Domestic abuse statistics vary by race |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:49 AM Response to Original message |
4. k & r |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:50 AM Response to Original message |
5. Ok, Please Provide Us With Your Insights. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:00 AM Response to Reply #5 |
17. See post #6 |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:19 PM Response to Reply #17 |
33. Why? It Was Completely Irrelevant. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:17 PM Response to Reply #33 |
39. Here's some insight for you: Nobody loves a bully |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:33 PM Response to Reply #39 |
43. Nice Drama. But No One's Being A Bully. They Are Simple Questions. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:47 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. They are demands, not questions. No, thank you. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:02 PM Response to Reply #47 |
51. No, They Are Clearly Questions. Why You Are Avoiding Answering Your Own |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:58 PM Response to Reply #51 |
60. This comes across as bullying to me also |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 04:16 PM Response to Reply #60 |
63. Don't Care. They Are Simple Questions. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 04:29 PM Response to Reply #63 |
64. Here's the difference as I see it |
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Annces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 04:34 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. Why don't you just let people start their own threads in peace |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 04:38 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. awwwwww...let him stay... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 05:05 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. . |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 05:16 PM Response to Reply #63 |
68. "Don't You DARE Tell Me I Am Trying To Dominate!!!!!1!" |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 05:19 PM Response to Reply #63 |
70. what's that barking I hear? |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:51 AM Response to Original message |
6. Rambo et al have led us here. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 01:03 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Yeah, the images have gotten extreme |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 01:37 AM Response to Reply #9 |
12. You need to understand that misogyny is a cross party issue |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 01:45 AM Response to Reply #12 |
15. Yes |
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snot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 01:43 AM Response to Original message |
13. Well done. I have to say, this issue seems to be the biggest blind spot |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 01:50 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. Hidden in plain sight |
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Nikki Stone 1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 01:43 AM Response to Original message |
14. K & R |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 08:36 AM Response to Original message |
19. Everyone who cares about this topic should read |
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Tansy_Gold (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 09:15 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. It's so easy to ascribe violence to pathology, but in reality |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 09:44 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Just curious--what made him so mad? |
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Tansy_Gold (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 10:04 AM Response to Reply #22 |
24. Yes, he is more than an obnoxious drunk |
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Nobody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:58 PM Response to Reply #24 |
49. A normal but obnoxious guy |
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Tansy_Gold (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 10:21 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. "Psychopaths" and "family members" |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 11:14 AM Response to Reply #26 |
29. Excellent post, thanks for sharing. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 10:35 AM Response to Reply #20 |
27. The police should have been called, |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:29 PM Response to Reply #20 |
42. Sounds like everyone's intimidated by that bully |
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Nobody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:37 PM Response to Reply #20 |
44. That's the kind of thing that pisses me off |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:45 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. For what it's worth, I think you handled that very well. |
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Nobody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:11 PM Response to Reply #46 |
53. Thanks. I'd do it again in a heartbeat |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:13 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. There is an obvious double standard |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:25 PM Response to Reply #53 |
56. If a stranger barged in and sat in your personal space |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 05:33 PM Response to Reply #44 |
71. I hate that shit too. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 07:39 PM Response to Reply #71 |
72. After the self defense is conditioned out of women |
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Nobody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 11:07 PM Response to Reply #71 |
77. I just can't stand coddling fragile egos |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-16-06 11:40 AM Response to Reply #77 |
90. Oh yes, the male ego, the precious little male ego |
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Annces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
21. This subject is something we are all enveloped in |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 09:53 AM Response to Original message |
23. Thats the thing about katz, you have to edit him to make him palatable. |
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Annces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
25. A little bit about Jackson Katz, the author |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
28. Here's what distresses me about this persistent conversation. |
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Annces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 11:20 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. I for one would not hold you or any other individual man |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:58 PM Response to Reply #30 |
59. Yes, the attitudes of men who say "I'm not like that" |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 01:21 PM Response to Reply #28 |
36. "Patriarchy, however, is a sword that cuts two ways" |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:04 PM Response to Reply #36 |
52. Finding a non-combative way to have this conversation... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 08:07 PM Response to Reply #52 |
73. I see the dilemma you find yourself in |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 10:28 PM Response to Reply #73 |
76. I myself refuse to by-stand |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 12:01 AM Response to Reply #76 |
78. You go, UGP |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
31. Let's look at the "male escort" phenomenon |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:26 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. A woman who is not obviously any man's "property" is fair game. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-16-06 12:19 PM Response to Reply #34 |
91. Another problem with patriarchy, |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 12:48 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. 3/5 of a person? A non-entity? Invisible? |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
45. We attempt to control nature |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:34 PM Response to Reply #45 |
57. Thanks for that link! |
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Hidden Stillness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:22 PM Response to Original message |
55. A Total, General Attitude of Bigotry |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 04:07 PM Response to Reply #55 |
61. Thank you for mentioning Olbermann in this context |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 04:12 PM Response to Reply #55 |
62. The first time that happened, I was shocked |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 05:18 PM Response to Reply #62 |
69. Violence against women |
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bobbieinok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-16-06 01:20 PM Response to Reply #62 |
93. men TALK, women LISTEN |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-16-06 01:47 PM Response to Reply #93 |
94. Must be why women are so much better at listening |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 11:26 AM Response to Reply #55 |
82. Excellent post - Thank you. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 11:50 AM Response to Reply #82 |
83. and unmolested! |
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Dragonbreathp9d (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-14-06 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
58. We men have ab inherent unearned privelage |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 12:45 AM Response to Reply #58 |
79. Hey! |
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Dragonbreathp9d (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 07:11 PM Response to Reply #79 |
86. I sometimes feel like more of a feminist |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-16-06 09:18 AM Response to Reply #86 |
89. You're suffering from the backlash to very thing you support: |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
84. kick |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 12:32 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. Well, almost |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
87. Being non-violent goes against mans basic nature. |
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Trillo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-15-06 08:17 PM Response to Original message |
88. I really can't answer your questions, |
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