Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Am I the only one that's a little annoyed when congresswomen are referred to as "Mrs."?

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (01/01/06 through 01/22/2007) Donate to DU
 
Maven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:42 PM
Original message
Am I the only one that's a little annoyed when congresswomen are referred to as "Mrs."?
It's happened quite a bit today. Maybe I'm being oversensitive, but it seems out of place, like a throwback. Someone even used "Miss" today to refer to Louise Slaughter I believe. Why the hell can't people learn to pronounce "Ms.?" Is it that difficult?

:rant:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
crispini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:46 PM
Response to Original message
1. You're not watching C-SPAN, are you?
I don't think I've heard that today. Yes, that is TOTALLY inappropriate. How about just "CONGRESSWOMAN" or "REPRESENTATIVE." Both are better than that.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Maven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:48 PM
Response to Reply #1
3. Yup...C-SPAN.
I've heard "Mrs. Pelosi" a couple times from 'pubs.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ShortnFiery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:54 PM
Response to Reply #3
9. Every damn republican is like "a pod person" in the FACT
that they will NEVER again say "democratIC" ... even if it is grammatically correct. They sound like bitter old coots with their "Democrat Party" this and that. :puke:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
crispini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:56 PM
Response to Reply #3
11. Oh, I was thinking you were talking about the commentators.
They've been pretty good so far I think.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
GOTV Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:47 PM
Response to Original message
2. Do you know how the congresswomen want to be addressed?
A woman who has taken her husband's name might prefer Mrs.

I think some women consider Ms. outdated.

I'm just speculating.

Of course I would be annoyed if someone insists on calling a congresswomen Mrs. when she prefers Ms.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:49 PM
Response to Reply #2
4. I've never met anyone who considered Ms. outdated
In business every woman I've ever worked with or met with has been refered to as Ms.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Maven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:51 PM
Response to Reply #2
7. No, I don't.
But addressing someone on the street is different from addressing them in the House of Representatives.

The marital status of the Speaker of the House shouldn't become relevant in official proceedings just because she's a woman.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
GOTV Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:58 PM
Response to Reply #7
13. I a gree it shoudln't be relevant, unless she considers it relevant.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
crispini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:58 PM
Response to Reply #2
12. My congresswoman prefers to be addressed as CONGRESSWOMAN.
I have never heard anyone from her office or campaign staff refer to her otherwise. Oh, they sometimes use "Representative" or "The Gentlewoman from Texas."

She EARNED that title, dangit!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
northzax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 05:56 PM
Response to Reply #12
16. well, it is fairly acceptable
to use the straight honorific of Mr. for male congressmen (the Gentleman from Virginia...) therefore it's fine to use Mrs. or Ms. in my opinion. And the technically correct term for a married woman who took her husband's name is "Mrs." "Ms." is for a married woman who kept her own name or an unmarried woman in professional circumstances who has no other title (Dr., for instance)

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ShortnFiery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:49 PM
Response to Original message
5. I concur...
Edited on Thu Jan-04-07 04:50 PM by ShortnFiery
I regret that women younger than myself do not appreciate those of us "old broads" who burned our bras for the right to equal pay for equal work AND to not be automatically IDENTIFIED by our Marital status. I've been married for almost 25 years and still use the title, "Ms." ;)

Unfortunately, far too many young women wear their "Mrs." like some sort of badge of honor instead of a breech of privacy, i.e., your marital status is NOT part of your title/being. As much as I love my husband, I am not attached to him at the hip. I'll be my own independent being to society, thank you very much. ;)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:51 PM
Response to Original message
6. No you're not. I find it suspect. They want to keep women in Congress
in their "place." Well, good luck!!

Game over, boys.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:54 PM
Response to Original message
8. I'm not a congresswoman
but I personally don't mind being called Mrs. or Ms and I doubt being in congress would make me care. But I see the argument for calling them all "Ms" because their marital status isn't relevant. And calling a grown woman Miss seems odd to me. If I were single I'd rather be called Ms.

I noticed that the teachers at my daughter's preschool are called Ms. regardless of marital status. But then my daughter goes to the godless commie pinko preschool.

I'm rambling. LOL
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AspenRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 04:56 PM
Response to Original message
10. I think they can choose which one they prefer
...because I've heard "Ms. Cantwell," "Ms. Landrieu" (I think) and "Mrs. Clinton" before. Don't know for sure though.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
TheCowsCameHome Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 05:10 PM
Response to Original message
14. Are the ones in question married?
Some married women absolutely hate "Ms."
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
pennylane100 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-04-07 05:51 PM
Response to Original message
15. I have a feeling that individual members can decide how to be addressed.
When they were naming members of the California delegate escort the speaker into the house I thought they referred to all the female members as Ms. with the exception of Eileen Tauscher who was called Mrs. Maybe I misheard, and I have erased the tape so I cannot be sure.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Thu May 02nd 2024, 03:02 AM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (01/01/06 through 01/22/2007) Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC