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oxbow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 05:16 PM
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Prayers and Light for the family of Tom Fox
Edited on Sat Mar-11-06 05:32 PM by oxbow
Tom Fox's remains are to be flown back to the United States this weekend. If you can, please hold Tom's children and family in your prayers during this difficult time. As a friend of the family, I know that they would appreciate it, and thank you in advance.

Tom has been quoted as saying that "we reject violence to punish anyone who harms us. We forgive those who consider us their enemies." Though forgiveness is hard at this time, when a man has been killed for the sole crime of being an American, I am trying to honor him by keeping my heart open. Let this be an opportunity to choose love and life, and reject the path of fear and violence once again. I pray that some good may come out of this tragedy, and that hearts on both sides may yet awaken to the truth of our Oneness.


oxbow

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redwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 05:18 PM
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1. I am sorry for your loss.
Edited on Sat Mar-11-06 05:48 PM by redwitch
What a terrible shame. What a terrible loss it always is when people who work for peace die by violent means. I will keep you and them in my thoughts and prayers.
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still_one Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 05:19 PM
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2. senseless
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Tom Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 05:20 PM
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3. See this thread for Tom Fox.
And kick that. Complete statement from Christian Peacemakers Team regarding the death and life of Tom Fox.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=364&topic_id=631920&mesg_id=631920
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 05:25 PM
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4. Another of Bush's casualties.
I certainly hope that Bush at least has the decency not to say anything publicly about Tom.
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TreasonousBastard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 05:39 PM
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5. I don't know if this has been posted here already, but...
here is Tom's blog

http://www.waitinginthelight.blogspot.com/

and this is the press release sent out by his Quaker meeting. It has been circulating on several lists.

(McLean, VA, 3/11/06) Langley Hill Monthly Meeting of the Religious
Society of Friends(Quakers) mourns the passing of our beloved member Tom
Fox. In the months since the kidnapping of the four members of the
Christian Peacemaker Teams, we have held Tom, his fellow captives, and
their captors in our prayers. We express our deepest wish that the
kidnappers will release Norman, Jim, and Harmeet unharmed so that they may
return safely to their families, and continue the work of peace and
understanding that CPT was undertaking in Iraq.

Tom was a member of our faith community for over 15 years. He was a
former Clerk (lay leader) of the Meeting, and loved working with children
and young people. When he last returned from Baghdad in the summer of
2005, he spent time serving as head cook at a Quaker camp near
Winchester. His death is especially hard on the children who knew and loved him.
We express our love and concern for them, and particularly for Tom's
own children who grew up in our Meeting.

In a statement of conviction Tom wrote in October 2004, he said "We
reject violence to punish anyone who harms us. We ask for equal justice
in the arrest and trial of anyone, soldier or civilian, who commits an
act of violence, and we ask that there be no retaliation on their
relatives or property. We forgive those who consider us their enemies.
Therefore, any penalty should be in the spirit of restorative justice,
rather than in the form of violent retribution."

It was an act of courage for Tom to travel to Iraq, to live in an
ordinary Baghdad neighborhood, and to try to give voice to the concerns of
ordinary people with friends and family members held in prison, out of
sight, and with no avenue for communication.

The loss of Tom is personal to those of us at Langley Hill who knew and
loved him.We need to remember that personal loss has also happened to
thousands of Iraqis - indeed to tens of thousands of families around
the world - who have lost loved ones in acts of violence just in the past
year. Tom's story is being shared widely; the stories of these other
losses have not been. We at Langley Hill will honor Tom's courage by
ensuring that the work to which he was dedicated continues, and that all
the stories of loss - not just Langley Hill's - are told.
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oxbow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 05:50 PM
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7. Yes,they're planning a vigil tonight for him at 7 pm.
I'm planning to go. I hadn't seen that message yet, though, so thank you.

If you guys could keep this kicked for the afternoon crowd, I would really appreciate it. God bless and take care, y'all...
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TreasonousBastard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 06:09 PM
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9. A vigil is good. There will be a..
Quaker Meeting for Worship planned for his memorial after the funeral, and there will be a Memorial Minute. I assume you would plan to be at the meeting. Quaker memorial meetings are very special, and we consider them far more significant than the funeral.

I wish I could be there myself. I only know of Tom by reputation, but I feel I am involved in this tragedy. He was personally known by many who work with CPT, and his death is being mourned in peace churches around the world.
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 05:47 PM
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6. I lit a candle for him and his family.
Edited on Sat Mar-11-06 05:49 PM by I Have A Dream
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/

(Initials: ihad)

I ask that the Universe help Tom to navigate easily on the other side, and I ask that his family be given peace and comfort during this time. (This or something better for the highest good of all involved.)
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Booster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 05:59 PM
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8. Just lit my candle for Tom Fox and his family.
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CBHagman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 06:59 PM
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10. His legacy should be peace.
In John Lewis's memoir, "Walking with the Wind," he describes the discipline and training required to be a nonviolent activist. Maybe we can all take in a bit of that strength here, or at least aspire to it, in the wake of what happened to Tom Fox.

In a world where people who quietly get the work done are often ignored in favor of louder, more flamboyant acts (or, worse still, acts of wrongdoing), we should be celebrating Tom Fox and his fellow workers.

oxbow, thank you for starting this thread, and know that you and Mr. Fox's family and friends have my condolences and prayers.

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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-11-06 07:39 PM
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11. Kick. n/t
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oxbow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-12-06 09:01 PM
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12. kick and thank you to all
Edited on Sun Mar-12-06 09:02 PM by oxbow
May God bless the human family and bring peace to all our hearts
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