Leave my family alone (unless I decide to call a press conference to inform my wife our marriage is over)!
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By ELISABETH BUMILLER
Published: May 11, 2000
Mayor Rudolph W. Giuliani's marital problems exploded yesterday in a public exchange with his wife, Donna Hanover. The mayor abruptly announced that he was seeking a separation from Ms. Hanover, and Ms. Hanover, caught unaware, then said that the couple's troubles began years ago because of a previous relationship between the mayor and a member of his staff. At an extraordinary, emotional news conference in Bryant Park,
Mr. Giuliani also said that as he battles prostate cancer he will turn ''more now than maybe I did before'' to Judith Nathan, the woman he describes as a very good friend. Mr. Giuliani did not say whether he would continue his campaign for the Senate against Hillary Rodham Clinton, but he did say that his political career was not his first concern. Speculation about other candidates raced through the city last night, reflecting Republican fears that Mr. Giuliani would withdraw.
''I don't really care about politics right now,'' Mr. Giuliani said. His hands gripped the lectern tightly as he cast his eyes downward and spoke in a quiet, sad voice.
''I'm thinking about my family, the people that I love and what can be done that's honest and truthful and that protects them the best,'' he said. ''I'm not thinking about politics. Politics comes at least second, maybe third, maybe fourth, somewhere else. It'll all work itself out some way politically.''
Three hours later, Ms. Hanover appeared outside Gracie Mansion and, with a wavering voice and tears in her eyes, said: ''Today's turn of events brings me great sadness. I had hoped to keep this marriage together. For several years, it was difficult to participate in Rudy's public life because of his relationship with one staff member.'' Joannie Danielides, Ms. Hanover's press secretary, said
Ms. Hanover was referring to Cristyne Lategano-Nicholas, Mr. Giuliani's former communications director who is now president of NYC and Company, the city's tourism bureau. Friends of Ms. Hanover's said yesterday that she had described the relationship between her husband and Ms. Lategano-Nicholas as intimate while Ms. Lategano-Nicholas worked at City Hall. The mayor has denied having had a romantic relationship with Ms. Lategano-Nicholas, who left City Hall last May and married Nicholas Nicholas, a sportswriter, in February.
The mayor's reliance on Ms. Lategano-Nicholas, one of his most powerful aides, also strained his relationships with several close advisers, including David Garth and Peter F. Powers, the former first deputy mayor.