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(NOTE: I read this thread, then thought about it and was going to respond. The comments later on on the thread, about a Primaries Forum thread, and the thing that Hillary Clinton did or did not say, refer to something I did not read and don't know anything about. I was thinking of this thread as a general message, and as a matter of fact, with all the recent news about Ted Kennedy, the thought I had about the model of public-spirited love of people and of country, was of the Kennedys, Roosevelts, etc., as opposed to the almost comical frightfulness of Bush-Cheney-Rove-Republicans, etc. I also think it's odd that a male candidate who refuses to answer a woman reporter's question here in Michigan, and arrogantly calls her "Sweetie," is just fine. "Oh we only want to face YOUR hypocrisy, not mine." There are a lot of anger-boundaries broken every day on DU; witness the never-ending hatred of Christians, cheered on by others with no boundaries.)
I think the increasingly neurotic loss of social/emotional boundaries is yet another horrific result of an unregulated commercial media, encouraging further and further retreat into a self-absorbed fantasy world, more and more feeling of unhappy discontent and general "lack," just to manipulate purchasing behavior. Increasingly tearing down all walls of civility and concern for others, as "conformity" and "not getting mine." Worsening treatment of women, the troublemakers, as "entertainment," and people do not want to admit where a lot of this comes from. I still remember the rage I felt at having to listen to "Saturday Night Live" during the 1970s, (the "great" years), when this prick Akroyd would say, "Jane, you ignorant slut," or "Jane, you ignorant bitch," to howls of the master's laughter. Listened to rap music lately; oppression and threat. This is all just a straight conduit, socially acceptable, for the male's violent hatred of us, enforced by social norm. People recede further away, they become just electronic symbols or presentations, and everything is for my judgment or comfort.
I even remember when the word "bitch" was considered so hateful, so offensive, so vulgar, that you would almost never hear it used. Not after the corporate media replaced the influence of society itself. Now it is the first attack-word reached for; an all-purpose hit. The media doesn't challenge people's bigoted or offensive attitudes; it encourages them, to exploit them.
How much of our suffering is caused by our own refusal to accept the separate rights and existences of others, and instead just childishly demanding that they all conform to "my way"? This leads into the psychological problem of the pseudo-"leader" who runs for office because they want to be the center of the world, and not because they think of the world, and want to help it. If anything suggests Bush, the spoiled, cruel rich boy who will always end up winning, or Cheney, the fuming bastard who will make all the world pay for every slight ever imagined, it is this.
The internet, of course, being an anonymous, distant technology that pretended to be "personal contact," also led inevitably, with some people, to this raging, thwarted-emotion "target practice" against others. You never get the actual feedback from a real, offended, hurt person, that would have stopped you, as in real life. The more cut off and stratified this and any other society becomes, and the more any real contact and resolution of problems is replaced by hostile interactions with the figments you believe other people really are, the more there will be this angry, yet emotionally dead behavior that cannot even feel anymore the effects of its insults and hurts. The world itself just becomes like a commercial product that I paid for and can't get to work the way I want it, and so there is the frustrated anger of the "entitled." The only solution is to admit where we are, and to take the step that is right next to us, rather than endlessly pretending we are all only one step away from the clouds and the stars.
I took the OP of this thread to mean a more general, psychological/social problem, of increasing abuse and "venting" in society, where once that would have been criticized and not allowed to become so widespread. As we all know with emotional problems and "counterproductive" behavior, you can never really get rid of it or stop acting like it, until you yourself don't like it anymore, and you like the examples of people acting the opposite way and want to follow them. This current commercial-product-disguised-as-a-culture, however, still paints abuse, name-calling, rude and cruel treatment, as "funny" and "a great victory."
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