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Edited on Sun Oct-05-08 09:21 PM by UTUSN
I was a 45 yr old supervisor who had taken extra long to work my way up. I was an innovator. I also grew up in a family where women were respected and dominant. I voted for women governors when there weren't any. So when I was in a position of power I hired women where no women had been before.
I never would have THOUGHT of participating in what my male peers did, sexual harassment and such.
Then I hired this Sarah PALIN *type*. She was 24. I was 45 and at the top of my career. She was not like the women in my family or the ones I had voted for. She was a "high maintenance girl."
She was a real go-getter. Well, except the mornings-after the Happy Hours the nights before.
Anyway, to cut to the chase. We were required to have monthly conferences, one on one, supervisor-employee, monthly. She would move her chair next to mine ("May I call you 'Joe'?")
So, she was a star at our Regional and Statewide conferences, partying the Happy Hours away.
AND she met the bigger bosses. AND she '80s networked. Soon she knew I was a stick-in-the-mud.
This was before the Monica years. When *I* moved my chair away from hers during monthly conferences, I later wondered why CLINTON ------------- DIDN'T.
Oh, here's the main point: Before her, in the workplace, we didn't call each other "sir" or "ma'am," but we certainly didn't use colloquial and cuss words.
Soon after I hired her, she called me "DUDE." After that it was using "piss" and "shit" during the Happy Hours and then during working hours.
One time, when she wasn't present, somebody said "piss" and all of us said, "You know, we never used to use those words at work." And somebody said, "It's because of (Sarah PALIN)."
I guess it's a passing-the-torch to the next generation. It ain't that good.
Oh, did I forget to mention that she networked the hell, despite pisspoor performance, and connected with the top woman boss who wanted a daughter/follower and in LIGHT-YEARS speed tumbled all of us OLD supervisors and became our boss?!1
*She's* not a feminist. *I* am.
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